How do men really feel about overweight women? If a woman is overweight, would a guy still ask her out?
Here's a story of a screwed up guy .Years ago, before I was married, I used to use online dating a lot. I started talking to this girl who was overweight. I have never been in shape myself. I knew she was much larger than me. I didn't think it would be a problem. Then I went to meet her, and I wasn't attracted to her at all! In fact, when she sat in her car, her shirt rode up a little bit. I could see a little of her belly fat, and I was revolted. I felt ashamed at myself for being revolted, because I'm not the best looking guy either, and I know how it feels to be judged based on looks. I think she was attracted to me, because she kept standing close to me, but I didn't do nothingYears later, I got married. Then my wife got pregnant. I gained 30 lbs of sympathy weight (yes that's my story and I'm sticking to it). I had always been overweight, but now I was obese. I got a talking to from my doctor, and she told me that I need to lose 60 lbs. I got to a point where I have halted the weight gain and got my cholesterol/diabetes in check. I am healthy, even though I am obeseThe weird thing is I'm not grossed out by obesity anymore. In fact, having sex with a large woman is kind of a fetish for me. Of course, I would never cheat on my wife. But if I were single now, yeah I'd hit that! I'm not sure whether this is a side effect to me getting used to my own body, or maybe I have matured as a person. I look back and think about how stupid I was to reject the girl who was obviously attracted to me, just because of her weight. I have come to realize that sexuality is fluid. Some men are attracted to overweight women. Some aren't. In fact, the same man might not be attracted to obese women, and then might change to be attracted to obese women.If you are an obese woman, then don't worry about men who aren't attracted to larger women. It's not like people have control over their own sexuality! They can;t help being not attracted to you. There are a lot of men who are.
What to wear to a movie date with my crush!?
My crush invited me to go to the cinema tomorrow with 2 of his guy friends and 2 of my close friends. oh my gosh it is a dream come true-- an hour of having fun with my friends AND flirting and chatting with my crush, then watch a movie afterwards!! But the problem is, i dont know what to wear. I want to look appropriate (not too overdressed and pathetic), but I want to wear cute clothes and have just enough glamor to look good and sort of impress my crush. :) I know its not even anything close to a date... but i havent seen my crush for a while and i want to give a fresh impression of me. :) please choose 1 of each category. HAIR: down down with a hairband braids ponytail braids pigtails (i have curly/wavy hair) TOP: sorta new shirt graphic tee ive worn to school before layered tanks/camis (any other ideas?) BOTTOM: white skirt jean bermudas skinny jeans (i know that skinny jeans are so stylish and cool, but its midsummer now and i thought it would be weird to wear long jeans in this humid weather?) SHOES: [omg i really cant decide] white flip flops (new) gray/green designer flip flops (worn many times before, but never in front of my crush) new white flats black flats (worn many times before) bright pink converse high tops (worn many times before) ACCESORIES (choose all that apply) watch (new, white) bracelets (how much? wat color?) necklace THANKS
I'm overweight but I want to impress my crush in this party your opinion please (photos)?
So, my team (we have a magazine together) are having a party in about 3 weeks. I think my crush will be there (I'll make sure he will haha) and I want to impress him. Now, I'm got a ... uh.. quite a fuller figure so I was wondering what would be best to wear. I've got huge breasts and I put on weight a lot on my tummy. I was thinking maybe a nice dress with cleavage (I got nice legs) or some jeans with a jacket? And should I wear heels? And what about the makeup? I'm a makeup artist so I've got this one! Perfect nude or eyeliner and red lips? Here are some photos of me: https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/h... https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/h... (I think I kinda look pissed in this one) https://fbcdn-sphotos-c-a.akamaihd.net/h... https://fbcdn-sphotos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/533615_10151585087335748_1861322699_n.jpg please please heeelppp and you trolls don't even bother calling me fat, I know I am and you'll just waste your tiiimee :D
What kind of bikini should i wear around my crush?
You could try this style bikini, it's sexy but not slutty: http://www.forever21.com/images/SeasonPr... Or this one, it's less revealing: http://www.forever21.com/images/model_mo... Or this one, too: http://www.forever21.com/images/model_mo... Lastly: http://www.forever21.com/images/model_more/00006212-04.jpg All these, but in red, of course. Hope this helps you! Have a lovely day! ❤
Why do a fair amount of lesbians have short hair and dress like men?
Why is it that lesbian females cut their hair short and make them selves look unattractive - even man like? If your a girl who likes girls... wouldnt you want to go out with a heaps hot girl with long nice hair and dresses up pretty? ok so not all of them do, but why do some/most do that? I know lindsay and porsha de rosi dont, but elen does, and every lesbian i have met does (about 6 of them). why would dressing like a guy attract lesbian females who are NOT attracted to guys, do you see my point? Lesbian females are attracted to females... so shouldnt they dress pretty and girl like? I'm not trying to sterotype or offend, i just want to other input on this question i have !
My crush said i'm ugly?
What do I do? This guy who's my friend knew I liked him. Then my friend told thy guy i liked that i liked him and he said i was ugly. My friend was all like "That's harsh,bro. I don't think she's ugly at all..." I don't know what do i do. I feel totally ugly and stupid. Just so you know i have long wavy black hair, medium brown skin,brown eyes and I'm of decent proportions. I think my crush's new gf as of right now is a short gothic girl. How can I be more ike her? I'm 17.
How do I compliment my girl if she sends me a pic of herself in a hot dress?
I have serached on the various websites and I got all this :)“You have the prettiest eyes.”"You have the best cheekbones.”"You Are Gorgeous""You Have Such a Positive Charisma""I Like Your Style""You Hair Looks Amazing""There’s Something About You""You are Different than the Other Girls""Every Time I Look at You I Have to Smile""I Wouldn’t Change a Single Thing About You""How do you be at your best every day?""Hey, you are the girl with the cute smile!""That color looks perfect on you."If she is not looking good then tell her honestly.(Ready for world war 3) :D
I'm tired of being average looking ?
if you post a picture we can tell you how to improve