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Parents Accusing Me Of Stealing Money What Should I Do

My step dad is accusing me of stealing money that I never stole?

This morning my mom gave my step dad $200 for this thing they had to pay for(its like a couples thing long story..&im to lazy to explain lol)anyways yeah so he says there's only 180...and he didn't even ask me if i took it he just accused me ,so I called my mom(because she was at work)She never picked up after about like 10 phone calls,so I gave up on calling her cell because her work place said she hasn't arrived yet.Anyways about 10 min later she finally called back and He picked up the phone telling her that "I stole the money"And shes like what?because I don't steal and than I got really mad And yelled saying that i've never stolen anything in my life so why would I steal money from him?What should I do they don't believe me and i never even took it !I have a brother too and he never even asked him if he took it..Like wtf Oh and im fourteen and a girl btw.

My parents are accusing me of stealing? HELP?!?

Yesterday, £225 was stolen from my parents. This money was for a cruise they have been saving up for. I'm 19 and I currently have a job at Asda (which is basically the UK version of Walmart). I've been saving up for an Apple Macbook Pro which cost nearly £900. I had £225 saved up as well (weird, right?) My parents think that my money is stored in a bank account but my money is currently paper money. I hide my money in one of the drawers in my bedroom. Every morning, they check to see if their money hasn't been stolen. But on that morning, they discovered that the money was missing. They searched all over the house for it. The last place they looked for the money was in my bedroom. They looked all over including my drawers. My dad was looking through the drawer with the money I've been saving up (my money is at the bottom of the drawer so it's hard to get to). When he saw the money, he looked at me and said: "You stole our money." I just shaked my head and said: "No I didn't." He replied with: "You're lying. YOU'RE LYING! YOU STOLE OUR MONEY!" I kept saying "no I did not steal your money." My mum then said: "Rubbish, the money's right there." I said: "That's not your money, it's mine for the Macbook I wanted." My dad said: "You filthy burglar. THIS IS YOUR MONEY, THIS IS OURS." I said: "No it's not it's mine." My mum came over to me and said: "This is our money, not yours." Then dad said: "We're calling the police. You deserve to be arrested."

My Parents are accusing me of stealing their money?

Okay, so my dad left his wallet lying around and the next day says hes missing $5. money. The next day, he left his wallet some where and some one stole $12. So his total missing $ adds up to $17. So he just goes and accusing ME when I didn't do it!! So now, he is pissed off. On Friday, he left his wallet in the same place, and I unfortunately was the only one home with him. On Friday night, he calls my mom and tells her about he has more money missing. His total missing is $17. He won't let me off the hook off with me, and won't let me go anywhere till I give him his money! But get this: I was looking through my sisters room, AND FOUND THE MONEY! I told my dad, but he just yelled his a$$ off at me and says that she didn't do it. My sister CLAIMS that she got it from a friend and is holding it for her till Monday, which is a BIG LIE! Now, he is just beats the sh!t out of me till I give him his money! PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I NEED HELP!!!

My mom is accusing me of stealing money from her?

Hi, recently y mother told me she forgot where she had hidden a sum of cash. Large too, she says it was 40k. Which shocked me because we're actually on the poorer side of the fence. We live in a mobile home. She had been giving me the silent treatment for a while and this was the reason why. But we got on good terms and I helped her look for it and we couldn't find it. Now she's changed from forgetting where she hid it to "I stole it". She also is saying now that she hid another sum of money and that it is incomplete; Accusing me of taking from it. I'm totally stumped and I can't even begin to reason with her because I can't get a word in at all. It really sucks because she's told everyone and everyone is giving me the "stink eye"
Sorry, I don't really know my question, but what should I do?

Just to add more detail, it's only me and her in the mobile home, she also mentioned she has 200k saved away somewhere. Which is a huge surprise she has that much money saved away. She accused me of trying to poison her. I'm not sure if she really has that much saved away, but when I was a child she never spent any money on us{me and my brother) even the child support from my father. So I see now she's been saving all this money for her retirement. Making us live in a trailer park where sex offendors and drug dealers live. a fight would occur once a week. I feel she needs to see a doctor for Dementia, but she seems fine otherwise. This episode seems very unreal.

What do you do if you are falsely accused of stealing money?

This actually happened to me once at work. I was more suspected than accused, but you know that slippery slope?I had not taken the money (from a notebook left on a desk in an empty office when another employee left his employment.) I was very understanding that my name would come up as a possible suspect, but I had no information to add to the situation. I had not entered the empty office. I had seen the notebook as I passed the open door to the office. I did not know that there was money in the notebook. (Not a great idea if you ask me.) And, I am never even sure the money was ever in the notebook.So, I was nice and polite. I was helpful and boring. I told the same story over and over again. I did not elaborate or speculate. I did not investigate, I continued to do my work. Frankly, I even “put it out of my mind” as best I could. I certainly did not ever try to place the blame on anyone else. (Including the person who I suspect never put the money in the notebook in the first place.) I did not gossip with my coworkers about the money. (You are getting the picture?)Ultimately my co-workers stuck up for me. They confirmed my story with “the powers that be.” I never had that money in my personal possession. I never knew where that money was located. I think we all knew in our heart of hearts that it was a lie that the money had been placed in the notebook. And, here is the deal, the money had never been the responsibility of anyone in that office except the person that left. And now he was gone. And, the money was gone.What else can you do: tell the truth; don’t elaborate; try not to be defensive; don’t investigate; do not try to shif the blame; do not gossip about the situation? Hold to faith that goodness will win out in the end.My best wishes.

What if your siblings accused you of stealing money from your father after his death? Turned your entire family against you, shunned you and held a family trial accusing you of things they had no proof of. Would you forgive them or leave the family?

If the matter had legal ramifications, I’d hire an experienced estate dispute attorney.If the amount was significant, I might hire an accountant. There are usually ways to show if there has been embezzlement from an estate.If not, I’d be working with my therapist to sort through the host of issues this would involve. Disputes after death of a parent don’t arise in a background; every one I’ve handled had roots usually stretching back to childhood.So: issues of this sort have ramifications that are best dealt with by professionals, and I’d engage those professionals. The issue of forgiveness or rejection would be very low on my set of priorities.

I’ve been accused of stealing money. What can I do?

I’ve been “accused of” stealing money is probably what you mean.What can I do?That depends a lot on whether you did it or not; whether you are a professional criminal or not; and a lot of other things.I will assumed you are a nice honest person like most QUORANS. Thus, I won’t say you should start off by giving the money back and apologizing. Or leaving town for another continent with your loot.If you didn’t do it,I’d work on putting together a very good alibi— a story with witnesses and corroboration to show that you wouldn’t have (or better yet) couldn’t have taken the money.Offer to take a lie detector test with the police.Find & identify the real crook.I am sure there is more to this story, but without the details it is hard to give any worthwhile advice. PeterTaradash.com

What should you do if you are wrongly accused of stealing?

I AM NOT A LAWYER. THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE.Wrongfully accused or innocent? Were you arrested and charged with a crime or did someone eat the last package of cupcakes?To me, “Wrongfully accused” means “guilty with blurred evidence”. 2 words now equal 4 and the GAME begins. “Inocent”, one word! Never offer more than necessary. If you need a muzzle buy one!If you have been charged with a crime keep your mouth shut and contact a lawyer ASAP. And NEVER, and I mean never, say “wrongfully accused” again.In a court of law WORDS begin to defy both physics and definition. I'd suggest hitting a law library to educate yourself concerning your charges and the punishments they may carry. Discuss your case with your lawyer only, and ask questions. Take part in your defense BEFORE entering a court room.Unless you are wealthy you will be propositioned to trade that innocence for quick resolution to avoid a financial boondoggle. For guilty people plea court could be beneficial. For innocent people of modest means this can become a nightmare. And guess what? Nobody cares.I have been a successful fool! I'm currently reprising my role as “The Fool”. DO NOT BE A FOOL!…and if you are guilty???? Hold yourself accountable, take personal responsibility, and be a god damn man.

Ok so i accused my boyfriend of stealing money?

oo bad luck there

next time you wont go throwing out accusations without hard evidence will you?

I suggest you do a LOT of crawling and see if you can salvage your relationship but tbh dont be too surprised if he's too hurt to keep it up. You'll have hurt his feelings big time there and sometimes things like this cant be fixed.

Oh and dont argue with his family. Just apologise and dont rise to whatever you can say just be like 'sorry I guess I deserve that'. NEVER argue with them when you are in the wrong already just go and apologise. Take cookies.

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