How to make your parents worry about you?
Well, when your sister or nobody else is around, then the time is to really sit down and tell her how you feel. Explain that you don't feel loved when it comes between you and you're sister and that you'd like more attention. If she still does not notice you, some ways you could catch her attention is to Throw a Tantrum. Run away. Make your sister really upset to the point where she tells on you. Scream. Act very immature around your mother. Honestly I don't suggest any of these, really because you could get into trouble but yeah know, sometimes it takes parents a wake up call.
What do parents of teenagers worry about?
Fear that they will be introduced to a drug, become addicted, and ruin their lives.Fear that they will be in a car crash.Fear that they will impregnate someone or become pregnant.Fear that through the unnatural social pressures of “social” media they will become very anxious or depressed.Fear that they will not value education and will not study or not want to attend college.Fear that they will become overweight, shallow, slightly zombified, sheep shuffling through each day without a clue that they have the power to choose to be better, to pursue excellence.Fear that they won’t know how much they are loved.
Why do parents worry so much about their offspring?
It is hard to explain to someone who does not have parental feelings.Essentially the unconditional love that I got from my children when they were babies caused a reciprical reaction. As far as they are concerned you are everything, you provide for all of their needs and you want them to be happy. Part of this is selfish, the more happy they are the less they cry. Part of it is simply accepting your role as a parent and deciding to make the effort to be loving and caring.Part of it is also because it feels nice to be nice and the feedback loop is exponential. Before long the feedback loop of feeling nice by being nice grows to the point where, even subconsciously, your children are the focal points of your life. I have stared down, ready to fight, 6 guys before (who all backed off) because my daughter was behind me and I would get beaten to death before letting them get to her. I have trained a lot and been in real situations and I know there is no way to win against 6 people but I was not afraid, I just felt cold rage that they were putting her in danger and protecting her as much as possible was more important than the probably serious beating I would receive.Naturally when your happiness links to theirs you start to be concerned about things that are happening when you are not there. You want to protect them from everything and make sure they never get hurt or unhappy, as whenever they suffer you suffer ten fold, but life cannot be like that. The idea they will suffer, get hurt, be upset etc. is horrible but you know it is necessary. You have no idea how badly they will feel and your mind goes off the chart imagining what would happen in worst case scenarios etc. the feedback loop from their happiness causing your happiness is just as real for their unhappiness causing your unhappiness and the result is just as exponential.Overall the reason we worry about our children so much is because we share every bit of happiness and pain with them but we experience is to a factor of 10.
Why do Indian parents worry so much for their children?
Parents have very high over expectations from their children. They want to see them achieve which they themselves could not do in their life. They want them to come at the top. Children feel crushed under this intense pressure and often find themselves unable to match what is expected of them. They start loosing their self esteem. Gradually this leads to personality disorders and depression. They loose initiative and feel worthless. Their normal capabilities are impaired.Gradually they are not able to perform normally.They do not enjoy childhood and remain sullen.This can destroy them.How to restore their self esteemTake off that extreme pressure of over expectation.Convince yourself that it is unreasonable to expect very high percentages.Let the child grow at a natural pace in a healthy enjoyable wayDo not compare your child with others in a negative way. Do not say “look how well he has done”. Do not show him the news of so and so scoring so and so %ageAlways appreciate him for whatever he has scored. “Why that is a good score. I did not know you could score so well”Give him small jobs to do and praise him when he does that.Talk positively about your child in the presence of important peopleTell the child on a regular basis that you will love them unconditionally. "You are special to me, I will always love you, no matter what!”Tend to your own self-esteem. - see yourself in a positive light. Parents who lack self-esteem will have difficulties bringing up a child with a high self-esteem. A good positive parent is a parent who knows that he or she is not perfect but values him or herself, while always trying to grow and improveParents do a great damage to the personalities of their children on a regular basis and deprive them of their childhood enjoyment. This is very unfortunate and a a great disservice to the young. This abnormal behaviour and depression is visible only in some of the children but the fact is that a vast majority of children are borderline cases and dangerously close to crossing over the other side. In any case very few enjoy their healthy natural childhood.
Why do some parents feel the need to crush their children's spirit?
I was just wondering, what leads parents to destroy anything about their child that they dont approve of. For example, my interests lie with the gaming industry, Ive been playing videogames since i was a little boy, and my love of gaming has only grown. My mother seems to think videogames are detrimental to me, even though my grades in school are great. I dont have a very social life, mostly because Ive been bullied for the most part of my life and it led me to not trust other people. I also am not very athletic, Id rather read or build something than play sports. Videogames are my outlet, after a day of being bullied its nice to go talk to my online friends, and just unwind. After a while, my mom took away my computer, because Ive been spending too much time on it. I deserved it though, i work hard in school, get good grades, i dont see any reason for me to not do something i enjoy with my free time. So to all the parents out there, why do you try to stop your child from growing in the direction they want to grow? If your child likes videogames, or art, or whatever it is, why do you just crush their dreams if it isnt aligned with yours? Arent you there to help them grow into the best possible version of themselves? Theyre supposed to be the future, theyre not there for you to live your life through.
What is the possibility of having twins if both parents are twins?
That depends. Is your wife a fraternal or identical twin? (Identicals are purely by chance and will not influence your ability to have twins!) Being a female fraternal twin increases the chance of having twins as long as she was conceived without fertility treatments. A male being a fraternal twin has no influence on his partner's ability to release two eggs however he can pass the gene on to his offspring. So your female children would definitely have a possibility of having twins and you can pass it to your male children who will pass it to their children, which is why twins can appear to skip generations. In general a person's chance of having twins is about 1 in 80 and it can jump as high as 1 in 17 if you are (or in this case your wife is) a female fraternal twin!
My girlfriend’s parents are first cousins from Lebanon, and mine are first cousins from Pakistan. Do we need to worry about our children having genetic defects? What if we each marry a cousin or another close relative instead of each other?
Marriage to close relatives is a very bad idea in genetic terms. This article Marriage between first cousins doubles risk of birth defects, say researchers describes problems in the Pakistani community in one UK city. I hope that you and your girl-friend enjoy good health, but your parents’ close relationships make it more likely that you may both carry some undesirable hereditary traits, even though your families are not related. Perhaps you can consider genetic testing and counselling? Good luck whatever you decide.
When sending their kids to college, what are things parents should and should not worry about?
There’s lots to worry about. Making a success out of college today is very tricky.College MaterialThis is a really big decision. Are you absolutely sure your offspring should be going to college? It is pretty easy to get caught up in “College Mania.”In Europe prospective college students have to meet certain criteria. For example, in Switzerland only 20% are selected to attend their highly subsided universities.In the US, pretty much, any student can find a college that will accept them and their parent’s money. As a result the majority of them are not going to graduate and get a good job. (Forty-five percent of high school grads are going to college today. Twenty years ago this number was thirty-five percent. Fifty years ago it was the seven percent who were, generally, considered to be the academically elite. Obviously “academically elite” is not how one would label the average college student today.)How good is your student’s GPA? Class ranking? Standard test scores? Is their SAT score 1180 or better? ACT 25 or better?Show Us the MoneyHave you chosen an affordable school. Will your student be burdened by excessive student loan debt? Do you even know what constitutes excessive student loan debt? Have you prepared a “whole degree” financial plan?Source” Young InvinciblesMajor MattersI commonly see students spending hundreds of hours filling out multiple applications and anguishing over which college to attend. They should be sending most of that time worrying about their major.Choose your college major carefully: It could cost you a down payment on a homeHas your student identified a marketable major? They tend to be difficult.The 50 best college majors for finding the highest-paying jobs after graduationPSI recently visited my local, PUBLIC high school. They send 80% on to college. That’s nuts, but it shows the level of “college for everyone” delirium that has been attained in middle class America.
Will a brown eyed husky parents produce blue-eyed pups?
My answer remains the same as when yoou first asked this Q. If you have her spayed then this is something you need never worry about, just as you will then not have to worry about getting all the necessary health screening, Hips, Eyes, and DNA testing relevant to the breed. Also, you will not have the worry of possible c-sections, aborted puppies, sickly puppies, vaccinating and worming, rehoming to permanent forever homes, taking back any dogs at whatever age because their new owners can no longer keep them, campaigning your bltch to show./working titles, travelling the country to gain those titles, finding the most suitable stud dog, registering the puppies with a legitimate KC, providing sales contracts to puppy buyers, vetting the new homes,. you know, ALL the things that REPUTABLE AND RESPONSIBLE BREEDER DO. # If you do not know a simple thing like eye colour you do not have enough knowledge to breed.