My 9 year old brother doesn't respect his elders and is violent towards others. What should I do if my parents don't care about this situation?
If possible, film how he acts and upload it so you and at least 1 trusted friend can access it over the computer later. Calmly explain to your parents that something needs to be done about your brother. It's possible that your parents have just gotten tired over the years and learned to tune him out. Give them a chance to act.Also, remember it's highly possible that your brother could have some sort of mental illness or he could just be what my Mum would call, “a mean little shit.” Either way he could be dangerous. You said he was violent, but gave no examples. If he leaves marks on you, take a pic, write the details with it and upload it. Keep a journal of all the stuff he does. Google Docs would be a good place since you can access it anywhere.If your parents don't act, find another trusted adult, may it be an aunt, uncle, grandparents, teacher, school counselor, or police officer. Show them the videos and explain the situation. Go from person to person if you need to until you find someone who listens.This is IMPORTANT, I'm sure you've watched your brother start with just doing mean little things to being what you now call violence. This is escalation. Some people have a stopping point whereas others do not. They just do worse and worse violence until they murder. I'm sure you want to get your brother help before then. I'm NOT saying he's definitely going to murder anyone, but I do want to make you aware of the seriousness of what's going on and what all the possibilities are.
Why do my Parents love my Brother more then me?
Well, here's one question: Since it's obvious that your parents are allowing your brother to live at home, if you wanted to live at home, would your parents allow you to? Your parents were nice enough to pay for your apartment while you were in college, but did not give your brother this option. That's a trade-off right there, so so far, I'm seeing that it is equal on both sides. However, I can also sympathize with you because being the older child, I've felt this way MANY times. It's natural for parents to treat the younger child as though they are the baby and don't know any better. In my case, when I was younger, my entire family (parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents) would treat my lil bro as if he were a treasured gem, while I was sort of off to the side. They expected me to know better because I was the older one. Don't feel bad, your parents don't love your brother more than you. It's just that younger siblings are always treated as if they don't know anything...It's very unfair, I know. But look on the plus side. Since you're expected to be responsible, you're also more likely to gain more trust and respect from your parents. Hope I helped somewhat.
How can I get my 10 year old brother to respect me more?
YES UR parents are Not doing their Job!! I read this book called "How to win friends and Influence people"it is a really good psychology book and they do works I will give you 5 Steps : if you follow you will never get in trouble with anyone even ur bro,friends,and parents #1 The best you can do at this situation is to Ignore your brother for at least 1-2 days or even a week until he finally give you some respect. Yet Do not critlize him just ignore ignore ignore because he has no respect for you.Say like my respect for you cannot be earn until you give me urs. #2 Then lets talk about what he want instead of what you want.Like help him do his homework,play with him,anything that he want that you can do for him. #3 Appreciate all his wonderful jobs like picture he draw , his test score, his friends, his ideas? all that, just admire them do not criticize them at any point!! IF he get a really bad score on a test,ask him did he try his best?then good job but lets say try harder next time:) #4 Smile and try not to argue with him because you can't win an arguement no one could so lets avoid arugement :) Arguement = Lose Lose.Do not say he is wrong , a famous quote from a great leader " The only thing i know, and that is that i know nothing!" reserch only 55% of avg people are right all the time. So if you know you are 100% right then still don't say he is wrong, try to prove it without him knowing you are going to prove it to him. #5 Be supportive , try to understand your brother more"about his social life, school life, and family life. Be understanding and be a good role model.
How to make your 11 year old brother show you some respect?
ok, you can't just act like a good example and "hope" something good happens, you have to make it happen. I'm almost 17 too and I do community service for grades K-5 in my school (it's a small school). Now, getting the respect of someone young is a challenge, especially if they are your sibling, mainly because they feel comfortable around you and think they can do as they wish. Well, in my case, if a kid is being unruly or rude I pull them over on the side and tell them that it isn't right to be disrespectful to people. Now, sometimes I'm a little aggressive and other times I'm not in the slightest, but the one thing I do is show them respect. You see, if you show somebody respect then they will show you respect in return. You have to first show your brother respect (so that he knows what it is) and then if he is still being unruly just talk with him about it. But note that none of this will work if YOU are being immature to him. If you yourself are being immature and disrespectful then it just gives him reason to be immature and disrespectful as well. He will see this as a perfect excuse to be disrespectful towards you. You not only have to set the example but in force it as well.
Why won't my little brother respect me?
I am eighteen years old, my little brother is ten... Lately I have seen him growing up really quick. I tried to be the best brother I can be since all my other brothers are either not at home or in the military. I am so nice to him and let him get away with a lot while holding my temper. Me I was beat as child punished and beat till I had no tears left. The beating stopped four years ago. Still I was always punished since I was seventeen. Mostly months. I wasn't that bad of a kid just had a loud mouth and didn't know how to respect. This is what is happening to my little brother except he never gets beat or punished. Never did he get hit by my parents. All he know's how to do is mouth talk back. I know he is supposed to earn my respect but he has taken full advantage of me. I make him food, stick up for him and teach him how to fight. I don't know what to do anymore. When I try to play with him he cries like a girl and when I try to get him to respect me he does the opposite. I am seriously just exhausted. His punishment is going up stairs and playing the game or watching TV. My punishment was getting spanked the hell out of kicked punched and put to the corner for countless hours at a time. No mercy for me but for him it's all cookies and cream... What do I do?
I'm tired of getting no respect from my parents and younger siblings.?
I am the oldest in my family and my siblings show me no respect. I have repeatedly talked to my parents but they do not hear me. Me: 18 Brother: 16 Sister: 14 Brother: 9 Sister: 5 (I'm going to use bullets so you don't have to read forever) *I wasn't allowed a cell phone until i was 16 and paid for the phone myself. My parents got my brother a phone at 15 and my sister at 13. * I have held a summer job for the last 5 summers and a job during the school year the past 2 years...my siblings have held no job. *I am self sufficient in the summer and as much as possible during school. My siblings rely on my parents and feel no guilt or shame in it. *I was much more disciplined. My parents allow my siblings to disrespect them all the time. *My sister always wears my clothes no matter how many times I tell her not to...although i have pleaded with my parents they do nothing. *I needed braces in 6th grade and my parents would not get them for me and my sister gets braces in 7th grade and i am just now being offered them...as a senior in high school. I have suffered from bouts of depression in the last years and it seems like that is what it takes for my parents to really notice me. The last "intervention" was a couple weeks ago and it was the first time my parents noticed my depression. They made an effort to pay more attention to me for a couple weeks but now i notice that I am falling back into the unnoticed. I am tired of being treated this way. I feel mistreated, unimportant, and unrespected. I am not sure what to do?...help.