Have a friend with a problem, need your help!!!?
CA HS 43100 is a code regarding violations of Vehicle Emission Control Laws I cannot find a 43470 in California Code, it may be a municipal code for the city that your friend was cited in.
Should I help my friend with a money problem?
I’m going to say no because I don’t believe your friend’s story. She may be repeating what her parents have told her, but it doesn’t make sense that her parents are broke because their house was robbed and that the robbers stole a couple of tablets that didn’t even belong to her parents and their house key. The costly work tablets were likely insured by the company her dad worked for. Any money they had in their bank accounts would not have been taken in a burglary. Didn’t they have home owner’s insurance to cover the loss? Why would burglars steal a house key when they clearly didn’t need it to get into the house? You can get locks re-keyed. They don’t need to be replaced unless they were broken during the burglary. Something sounds fishy here.You’re a very good friend, but help her out by inviting her to your house for dinner and listening and spending time with her. Don’t give her or her parents money, at least not based on what you’ve heard. Hold on and see what happens in the next few weeks before you decide, and talk to your parents about it first.
Help, major problems with my friends...?
It's like i'm not there any more! No one ever saves me a seat, and if i sit down they tell me off! Also, there's a new girl at our table, but she like hates me. Everyone at our table hates me, and i dont know why! I never get invited to places anymore... I've talked to them twice about it, and they always deny it. What should i do?
How can you help your friend with a problem he doesn't want to talk about?
If you are saying he had once told you but he doesn't want to talk about further, then do one thing take him to a place and make him feel comfortable with you by trying everything if you really want to help your friend. Tell him how much you care for him and tell this one " You don't say a single word you just listen me then you will decide what would you do..??Only you will care for me, always there for me then why not I am for you, why..?? If you will not talk about your problem and you are getting hurt and do you know I can't see you like this, you make me feel as if I mean nothing to you. Okay fine. From today onwards you will not talk to me and will not be there for me even though anything bad happens to me. Because being your friend if I can't make you happy, can't bring smile in your face, can't help you to solve your problem (that too because of you, you don't want to talk about ) then what kind of friend am I, there is no need me. Its because "A friend in need is a friend indeed." and most importantly I am a kind of friend who want to be always with you in every odds in your life and help you get rid of those. Okay now you leave me. I am not fit for you but you are always fit for me. One thing I can do, I can pray for you May GOD solve your problem and keep you happy always. Good bye." If you know the person who is very much closed to your friend, then go to that closed one and talk to him and discuss about your friend's problem. And tell that closed person to talk to your friend, he may be listen to him. Here aim is anyhow your friend's problem should be solved.
My friend has problems with drugs?
Let me say, I was a user and drugs are no good. You really need to tell her folks she really needs help. And tell me what is so interesting about any drug i find that it kills, hurts, and detroys lifes yeah you think.Look what it is doing to her she don't know what she does after doing them What a way to live is that the kind of girlfriend you want in your life? I sure hope not, But yes be her friend tell her parents now... Good luck....................
My guy friend is having girl problems how can i help?
Hey, sunshine. First don't worry about the spelling. Now, the best recommendation I can give you is to step back, and let him fall. When he does, and he will be there to help him back up. Speaking as a guy, we are morons. We want what we want, when we want it. It does not matter to us how bad it hurts. It sucks to see someone that you care about suffering, sometimes there is nothing you can do. You have tried talking to him, he won't listen. His friends have tried talking to him, he won't listen.... beyond that there is nothing else you can do. Be there for him, but don't back him into a corner. He will have to figure it out for himself. Whatever religion you are, pray for him. Pray that he will see her for what she is, and that he will find peace. May God Bless you and your friend.
Having problems with a friends party, can you help?
Since your kind friend was courteous enough to ask, feel free to mention that you are vegan, but offer to assist her with any changes. Your friend is generous and kind, it sounds like, and I would certainly attend her function-friends like that are hard to come by! Cherish her, and perhaps return the favor in some way that acknowledges HER food choices, such as a gift basket that includes a pate' or smoked fish, as a thank you gift. Have fun at the party!
How can I help an adult friend of mine with a cutting problem?
-takes gloves off- Alright, here we go. A little backstory before I go into this, I was in my sophomore year in high school when I met this really nice and pretty girl who lived the next city over in a different school. We became really good friends. At this time, neither of us were old enough to drive so we relied of transportation from our family’s. Later into our friendship, we dated for a very short amount of time, deciding it wouldnt work for reasons that I wont go into here. The brakeup did not end our friendship, fast foward 4 years, we both have our own house, car, and life. We were together nearly every day, enjoying life together, as friends.This is when I learned what goes on in her life when she’s not with me. It turns out she was in more emotional distress then she ever showed. I found her cuts, I found her reasons for depression and self harm. I tried everything, I told her that she was loved, I told her she could tell me ANYTHING, I told her to please not give up. it didn't help. Within the next year her mother died of natural causes. She began to cut again, she pretends nothing is wrong. As if I dont know what she does when she’s alone in the bathroom at the end of the day. I couldn't stand seeing her this way after all the memory’s we made together. I tried to the best of my ability as a human to keep her positive. The secret is not to forget about the past, but to learn from it and make yourself into a better person from that past instead of letting it destroy you. I tried to be with her as much as I could, I knew what would happen if she was alone. She began to sleep over my home for the majority of the week, some days returning back to her home for the sake of fresh clothes, needed hygienic essentials, etc. In time, she began to show recovery from her depression. She stopped fighting with her father and began to sleep in her own home more often. Her fresh cuts began to turn into old scars.Now the lesson here is to say that no matter what you tell a cutter…they wont stop. Words are beyond the numb that they feel. You have to bestow new emotions and feelings upon them, it doesn't matter how. Just make them feel alive, like they have something to accomplish, a goal to achieve, something to live for.
How can I get my friend help for his drug problem without making him upset?
Simple. Don’t do it. Just be a supportive friend rather than one who jumps in without being asked.