Ramadan: How do you deal with fighting parents?
Hi: As much as I like YLHG, I respectfully disagree. Unless one of your parents is being abused, you should not get in the middle. They are adults and their relationship is separate from the one they share with you. How old you are matters in this case, but I'm going to guess around 14ish. If that is the case, I would still say you shouldn't get in the middle, even if it does get physical. Do you have a good relationship with your folks when their not fighting? Since you say you've already tried to talk to them, that's about the maximum you can do. You could advise them that if it does get physical you will call the police next time, and even for something small. Do you have any other family you could stay with, even short term? If so, you could talk to them, and see if they could keep you for a week or two. Then you tell your parents you're going to be there for such and such time, because you really can't take the yelling, it's affecting your health, your studies, your happiness and you hope they can resolve things. My parents used to fight so much, it was awful, but trying to talk to them did nothing. Finally, I spent a summer at my friend's place. My parents divorced soon after (not because of me). Although divorce isn't normally what we want for our parents, they were both happier afterwards and better parents. If you can't talk to them and you can't get away for a bit, then all you can do is try to get involved in things outside of the home, and pray. You can e-mail me anytime (if you like) if you need someone to talk to. I know this is painful, but you do have to keep in mind that while our parents are major players in our lives, their relationship to each other is very different from the one they have with us.
Accidentally ate something Haram?
I took a supplement without realizing the capsule had gelatin in it. Have I sinned? What should I do? I feel terrible as it happened in the month of Ramadan as well.
Help? Ramadan (fasting) is making me sad?
do some charity work or volunteer work something....helps to know u can help dont sit in front of ur tv all day u may get hungry, but its all about obedience and all The Prophet said, "(Allah said), 'Every good deed of Adam's son is for him except fasting; it is for Me. and I shall reward (the fasting person) for it.' Verily, the smell of the mouth of a fasting person is better to Allah than the smell of musk." [Bukhari] look at some verses in the quran and reflect about them www.quran.com great website... memorize some surahs...it's like ur eid gift to urself
What should I do? Ramadan always makes me feel absolutely terrible and there's no way for me to fix it.
Well , I’m muslim and I come from a muslim family , and my mother didn’t want me to wear the hijab , she kept on trying to get me to stop wearing it for 3 years . Just yesterday , my father was all like “Hijab is stupid , IDK why you girls wear it .”I just ignore them , I chose to wear that scarf and that’s it , nobody’s got a say in it .In your case , dear sister , don’t feel like you’re not a good muslim or anything , not wearing the hijab doesn’t mean that you aren’t a good believer , it’s okay . There are far more important things than hijab after all . There are many girls who don’t wear hijab and are better than girls who wear it (I remember hearing of some older woman who wore the hijab in the city I study in , just as some sort of a cover because she is prostitute :3 ).Just focus on good deeds and enjoy your ramadan , I’m sure some day you’ll be able to wear it . My best guess is that you are under 18 and leaving with your parents , right ? If yes , then don’t worry , once you’re 18 and you move out for college , you’ll be able to chose as you like .Ramadan mubarak said .
Ramadan- What do you do when you feel depressed, anxious, and nervous?
Salam If we feel extremely depressed,anxious and nerveous we should make wudhu and establish sunnah or voluntary prayer,read the Qur'an and understand its meanings,make dzikir and du'as We should keep be patient and be optimistic that we could solve its problem.In every difficulty there is an easiness as stated in the Qur'an.We should try hard to make efforts for solving it and if it is needed we should ask for another person's advice We should regard it as testing from Allah We should remember that Allah hates desperation so we should avoid it.by elimanating its root cause
Ramadan: I feel depressed?
How should i combat this slight depression that creeps out of nowhere? I worry over my future so much , i dont know if ill end up succesful and independent in life or homeless .. my future worries me because my mom isnt feeling well and wishes to leave the US and expects me to be on my own. idk where my dad is since the last time i saw him was in court since my parents divorced and ive never been close to him. plus i get paranoid easily as well and i feel i have low self esteem and no self worth. I feel im not good at anything and sometimes i hate myself and wish death on myself. I feel soo hopeless right now...is there some sort of duah, Zikr ? prayer that could help me ?
Im sad now!!!today is the begining of the 10 important great days of RAMADAN and here i am happy with my?
Sister, Ma sha' Allah., I love it when I see people sad for missing on Ibadah and when they realize Ramadan is almost over. Yes, you can do EVERYthing except Salah (prayer) and touch/read/recite Qur'an. You can use a du3a2 in the Qura'n like the last verse in al-Baqarah and so on. Du3a2 is accepted, bi-ithni'llah, so is tasbee7. Congradulations on finishing the Qur'an, I hope you will continue that every month. Ramadan goes, but Allah is always there, Subhana'llah. I hope you get to catch a few days at the end. Take care and be well. Was-salamu alaykom wa rahmatu'llah