Scared of going shopping alone?
I agree with the other person who answered. It may be difficult for you but when you walk into a shop like that just remember that everyone has to buy underwear and you are not the only person who is out and about doing the same thing. Try to relax and not worry about it. Just remember everyone buys underwear and any scary looking people you see have had to buy them at some point in their life too. You can do it. I believe in you! :)
Should I go shopping with my friend?
I wouldn't go. If you asked her before not to talk to them, and she did it any way...then what can expect from her in the future? My dad did drugs. And when he went downtown to get them, the whole family went. It was very scary. And my mom was an alcoholic. And it's something I really don't want to remember. I don't want anyone to have to go through the things I have. So, if I were you, I would get out of there. And if you cared about your friend (I'm not saying that you don't) you would take her with you. You and your friend don't need that drama. And if she doesn't come, then I think you should get out of your relationship with her and call the police. Drugs are not fun and it's against the law. Hope this helps :) Cereal Good luck!
Scared of going to adult/sex shop?
Why be scared or embarrassed ? It's normal. As far as I know they don't ask you for your info and stuff to mail you things, but you can always call and ask them or ask them when you go there. If you don't want to get your parents to drop you off ( i wouldn't either) then you can always take transit or go with a female friend who has already gone to a adult store ...it'll be easier i think and fun at the same time They can give you some pointers on which toys are better. I find it easier to take advice from a friend then a random dude at the counter lol.
Scared to go into a sex shop?
Just be assured that the staff working there are trained proffessionals and will NOT think you're weird; they deal with customers like you every day. Your best way of getting the things you want is to ask someone in store if they can point you in the right direction, and then just grin and bare it. If it helps, bring a friend - that way you can laugh all your nerves away :P Good luck!
My girlfriend keeps on lying to me when she's going out with her friends for a drink. What should I do?
First things first: Ignore all the answers that are accusing you of doing something wrong. Unless there's something you're not tell us, it is completely unacceptable for everyone to be turning this around on you “Because you need to stay out of her personal life” or “"Because you need to let her hang out with whoever she wants”. That's not the issue and they clearly think that you being a guy makes it your fault. BS.Now that that is out of the way, let's talk about the problem. Trust.Your issue, as you've expressed it, is that your partner has been lying to you. Not that she is going out with her friends, but that she's lying about it. This is a major problem for several reasons.People lie because they are trying not to tell you something. Whatever that something is will make you upset or hurt. Since you have expressed to us all that you feel no problem with her going out with friends, and you’ve expressed this to her as well, there is something she isnt telling you. This is the thing that will hurt you or at least she believes will hurt you. Maybe it's her seeing other guys or her dressing inappropriately. This lack of communication on her end is leading to your issue of trust on your end. Speaking of which…Trust is something that is built up over time between people and can be broken very quickly and in a mess. Take a janga tower. It takes a while to build that tower, and just a couple blocks pulled from the bottom can ruin the whole thing. This is an issue you must confront now. If she is lying to you about this, you'll soon never be able to trust her, and you’ll have good reason not to. I know from personal experience that some people can become compulsive liers over time and lie about things that range from not doing dishes to failing out of school to what happened the the car. If you don't bite this in the butt right now, it'll soon reach a state of irrepair if it hasn't already.What you need to do is sit down and talk to her. Don’t put yourself in this situation where you wonder if she's telling you the truth all the time. And whatever you do, don’t let her her keep doing this to you. Especially if it ends up being, “I won't do it again. I promise.” Every single time. You need to give her an ultimatum and hold her accountable. She's hurting you, and needs to understand that you're not going to keep doing this to yourself.I wish you the best of luck in however you move forward.
Boyfriend went shopping with his best friend (who's a girl)?
This past weekend I told my boyfriend I couldn't hang out much because I had a lot going on.. and plus my friends and I were having a girls night out both Friday and Saturday night. I didn't expect my boyfriend to stay home but at the same time I didn't expect him to call his best friend (who's a girl) and go shopping with her. I'm jealous about the whole thing. He said nobody else could hang out but her and so they decided to go shopping then when they were done they ordered pizza at his house. I trust him a 100% and I know for a fact that he wouldn't cheat on me. It just bugs me that she's really pretty and has known my boyfriend longer than me. He said she's "the best friend a guy could have and that he trust's her more than anybody." What do I do about this? I cannot complain because I have guy friends but nothing like that. What would you say to your boyfriend? This bothers the hell out of me.
Need an excuse for birthday shopping?
Well if you know something she won't eat then say you are taking her friend to try this food at lunch, or if you know something she is afraid of (say dogs or something) then tell her you both are going somewhere or are doing something that involves what she doesn't like. Kinda play on her fear so that she won't ask to come along. Sounds mean but it should work. No person afraid of dogs or if they have bad allergies would want to go to a petshop. Just an example. I believe if you tell her you both are going shopping, she will want to go, or get suspicious if you say she can't. I hope that helps or at least gives you more ideas on how to keep her from knowing. Hope I didn't confuse you. Best of luck.