What makes a relationship mature?
Adults can have immature relationships just like high school/ college kids can have mature ones A mature relationship means accepting the other person and not trying to change them or control them Not fighting over petty things but sitting down and calmly discussing real issues and solving problems together to strengthen the relationship Respecting them as an individual who may want/need different things than you Wanting their happiness enough to help them achieve it even if it inconveniences you. Immature relationships are that "can't breath" desperation that makes people stupid and crazy Mature relationships make your heart swell (not burst) and feel warm and content
Did my bf cheat on me? Please I need advice, and mature answers.?
I'll try to make this as short as possible. We've been dating for 3 years and have a baby together. We do not live together, I stay with my parents with my child. While I was pregnant I had my blood taken to be tested, and I came back clean, no STD's, and everything was good. Anyway we got into an argument, and it came out that his got an infection, and has had it for 2 weeks (I haven't seen him for a month and a half) he said that his had it before, about 3 or 4 years ago! (assshole for only telling me this now!) and that it has come back because of "stress". His symptoms are burning when he urinates, red penis head and puss. His doctor gave him antibiotics. I don't know what to believe!!! He says it flared up again from stress, but I don't know what to think? Did he have another sexual partner that he could've caught this from? Is it possible for this STD to flare up again 3/4 years later? Please, help me! I am so so so ready to leave him. Thank you.
What is your best advice to a woman who believes she met "the one" in a very short period of time?
Surprisingly and not very surprisingly, very negative answers! I agree this is how it feels initially and with time things change (NO, they don`t just the conversation topics, activities differ after some time and insecurity lessens down or increases) cz u become more and more sure or unsure of the person. One should never follow a rule book in a relationship/Love, you should be in it fully with honesty. Being cautious cz u may get hurt is bullshit as no matter how hard u try, u will fall for the person u r attracted to & heart break will happen no matter when the relationship ends. And if u question the relationship & b cautious u will not enjoy it. Ask questions but only when its necessary. I am very happy for you that you feel so connected and compatible with your partner. At your age and after the prior dating experience, I am sure u know compatibility is a rare find.Yes, when you finally decide to get hitched, think carefully. Things might change a bit when respective families come in picture and change need not be negative. I would have loved to hear your guy`s take also. You totally seem to be thumbs up for the relationship and if u r sure about your man then why OVERTHINK! Go with the flow and when you fall in love and I hope u do, everything will fall in place.And after some time, there will be arguments and fights, if you stick to the relationship and carry it in spite of little misunderstandings and arguments, u guys will be in a long term bonding!
I NEED ADVICE, GUYS TOO! long or short hair on me? IS it unattractive for a girl to have short hair? be honest?
I think you look better with short hair. It's not just that the extensions look like, well, extensions, but you look older, more mature with the short hair. I thought, you look like an adult, perhaps in her late 20s, but with the extensions, you look like a high school kid. So, no, it's not unattractive for a girl to have short hair. Some look good, some look bad in it. You look good with it.
I REALLY like my other lesbian cousin. Please I need advice..!?
Okay, Firstly, thats great that you've come to terms with who you are! and great for her too :) i came to terms with being a gay girl just recently (im 17, 18 soon), but maybe shes not as comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship yet as you are? and 8 years isnt too big an age gap. You said that youve had a lot of girlfriends, well, maybe she hasnt had any, and shes just as nervous as you around girls. does she know that your gay? personallyi always get nervous around gay girls and avoid them a little, so she could be the same. Are you blood related? it sounds to me like your step cousins? i mean if your not, i would go for it :) and i know it can be nerve wracking with family watching by, but seriously alltha should matter is how you feel about each other :) I would tell her how you feel once the time is right, but dont push yourself into telling her when your not ready. Oh, and by the way, being a 16 year old virgin isnt rare! lol. A forty year old one sure, but not 16! im almost 18 and im a virgin, and proud to be (Cause im waiting until i meet a girl i want to spend the rest of my life with), and i dont know if thatsjust rare in london, but the rest of the UK it isnt. Not everyone has there first time in there teens, a lot of people actually do in their twenties or older. Oh and ive never really been kissed either, or been in a relationship. Seriously your only 16, dont stress yourself out too much with this.
What questions should I ask a young woman before an arranged marriage to make sure she is the right one for me based on a couple of short discussions? I am in the USA, and my parents are looking for a young woman in India.
If you are meeting for the very first time then you should be little prepared, not in the sense of that you are giving an exam or should be ready with all questions of the paper. Be just you and should not pretend in front of that girl. It is not the matter of a day or so or you will change your mind after two years or three years and marry again. That’s not the case in India at least, therefore, try to ask all things or try to know all things which you want to know from your prospective partner. Here are some questions or things, which you can consider while meeting someone for the first time:First of all, make her feel comfortable and start conversation with simple questions like did she find it difficult to reach here? At what time she started? What she would like to have, etc.? Then once she is comfortable with you then you can start some serious conversation.What encouraged/excites her to meet you?Is she willing to marry you?Is she taking this decision happily or under family pressure?Does she want to work after marriage?Is she comfortable moving out of station if situation comes?Is she willing to stay with family after marriage or want to stay separately?Is she comfortable or manage the situation if one of you will be jobless in future?If you will plan to start something of your own then will she accept that?Does she want to pursue higher studies or any professional programme after marriage?Is she really keen to start a family just after marriage or she wants to wait for some years?What are her hobbies?What is her career or professional goals?What kind of financial support she require after marriage?Is she OK if at times you will be travelling out of station or country for some time because of your job?What are her expectations from you as husband?Is she believer or non-believer of God?What is her favorite food or cuisine?Is she a traveler or loves adventure sports?All these things/questions will help you to understand her personally and her views towards this relationship.
Im nervous. Im 18, I would like to think Im mature for my age. I guess im asking for advice on like what not too do? I think I have it down.?
I have been sort of snapchatting (semi-flirting with) this singer from a up and coming famous band. I met them at warped tour and ended up running into them another time in a city. Long story short, he asked me if I wanted to hangout after his concert im going to this next month.
What are the best replies to the interview question 'where do you see yourself in the next 5 years'?
When you are interviewing for a new job, you may be asked a question like, “Where do you see yourself five years from now?” it can be hard to articulate where you would like to be in your career next year let alone five years down the road. But even when you do know, it's important to be careful how you respond. Search for your next Job opportunities in USA.This popular interview question helps interviewers and hiring managers get a sense of how your career goals align with the company's goals. It also helps them gauge whether you’re likely to have a long tenure at their company or if you’ll probably leave after just a few months or a year on the job.Questions about your future plans can be tricky to answer - you need to be honest in your response, but also keep it relevant to the job and industry. For example, don't share your five-year goal to publish a novel if you're interviewing for an accountant position.For example;“I’m also really passionate about the work I do and would love if there were opportunities for me down the line to also be able to mentor other employees or new recruits to be successful within this position, perhaps as a manager or supervisor.”“From the moment I read the job description for this position I was really excited about your company’s role in the community, and for this reason, am thrilled at the possibility of working with you for a long time. I’m very passionate about outreach and I’m looking forward to the opportunity to be heavily involved in this area.”“I’m glad you asked! One of the reasons that I applied to this company was because of your company’s reputation for helping with its employee’s career growth as well as providing advancement opportunities. Long term commitment from an employer is important to me because it creates a sense of belonging and really brings out my desire to “go to battle” for the company.”“I always take the time and effort to advance my career, skills, and knowledge. In five years, I plan to have acquired more in-depth knowledge of the company and industry. Those new skills will help me advance my career.”Follow these basic rules for responding to the question, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” and you should be golden!Keep your answer general.Stress your interest in a long-term career at the company.Demonstrate your enthusiasm for the job.Don’t lie.Learn more on Wrong Career Path. Also find Creating a Video Resume, Video Job Interview tips.