How should I approach this girl at the gym?
Ok, there is this very pretty girl I sometimes see when I go to the gym. She looks pretty and has a great body.I am a good looking guy, but I get somewhat nervous when it comes to talking to pretty girls. The thing is whenever I go to the gym I usually see her on the elliptical machine or on the treadmill running. Whenever she sees me, she looks at me and then looks away. And then whenever I usually go workout in the dumbbell area of the gym, she usually comes and starts working out near me or on the bench next to me. A couple times, she even walked right past me and slightly bumped into my arm as if she was trying to get my attention. Also, from what she was wearing I know that she goes to the same college as me. I have a feeling that she likes me but I am not fully sure. Can you please give me some suggestions on how to start a conversation with this girl in order to get to know her because it is kind of awkward to just go randomly talk to her since I don't know her and I only see her occasionally in the gym. Also, she usually has earphones on, so it would even make it more difficult. Also, do girls think it is acceptable to talk to/hit on/ or ask out a girl at the gym? No rude or disrespectful answers please Thank You
How should I approach a girl I like?
So I've liked this a girl for about 6 months now and she is so god damn pretty. I really wanna talk to her and get to know her better but im so shy around her. like with every other girl im so confident but when im around her my brain just stops functioning. I don't know what to say when I approach her, and i don't wanna just go talk to her out of the blue, there has to be some kind of discussion first. I see her after school a lot cause she waits for her mom and she kinda knows me but not like friends type. And i don't have any other experience with talking/dating girls either so im kinda nervous about that too What should I say when I approach her and how?
How should I approach this girl?
I go to an all boys school. On facebook, there is this girl that everyone seems to have become friends with. She is very attractive and goes to our sister school. I'd love to meet this girl but she has no idea who I am. Since it is summer and there are no dances where I can meet her, is there any way I can possibly talk to her online and hopefully get to meet her sometime soon without her thinking I'm a stalkish creep?
Should I approach this girl?
What are our options?Wait. I will flip a coin. Thrice. If heads comes up more than tails you do approach her, if it doesn't, well bad luck bro.---- 10 seconds later. -----Well. it was a T T T. Bad luck mate. Maybe you can try to approach her friend. Befriend her friend. Ask her out. Have a month long relationship with her, meanwhile befriending the first one. Then cheat on your girlfriend of a few months, with her friend whom you actually wanted to see in the first place, by confessing the same to her. 2 days later, find out that it did not mean much to her. Then post a question on Quora, about women in general and go on with your life.-------Else, you can chose not to flip a coin or let anyone else do that for you, and go with whatever your heart says and make this relationship end up into a marriage or if not that, then into another question on Quora. Good Luck.EDIT: (The question details were added later, so ...)Well, hailing from India, be very careful about not ending up looking like a "eve-teaser". Do not stalk her, or confront her again and again. If you think she has been looking at you, then go and ask her out again, just once. If she replies in negative, don't bother with her anymore. Even if you think she is playing hard to get, still do not approach her again regarding the same, ever. You might not know how easy it is to file an FIR for eve teasing. And in India approaching a girl, does make you eligible for that. But don't worry about that too much. Just look your best. Have some good jokes up your sleeve. And go ahead and ask her out.
How should i approach a girl i have a crush?
Yea, I used to be really shy too. Mostly we are shy because we don't want to be embarrassed if she says no. Maybe she will say no, laugh at us, point her fingers and then all her girlfriends will laugh at us, then the whole school finds out, etc. Well, get over all that. You have to have a different attitude. Like, you are worthy of her, and if she says no then her lost, not yours. Really, don't walk up to her all intimidated like, become confident. It will help if she is alone when you ask, at least till you get more confident. But walk up to her, don't slouch, and just simply ask her to go somewhere with you. Practice this in your room at night. What's the worst that can happen, she says no. Big deal, move on and get a crush on another girl. I mean, if she is really disgusting she could laugh at you, I don't recall that actually ever happening, but I suppose if she did, you could say something like, "Thanks. I'm glad I found out you're such a b!t&h. I used to think you were nice but now I know better." And turn around and walk off.
I like a girl in my class. How should I approach her?
There are some rules of attraction my dear friend. Follow those rules, and sit back. Let that girl come to you! (:Rule No. 1Dont approach her. The moment you show that you are always available to her, you will be friend-zoned & I'm sure you don’t want it to happen.Rule No 2.Show her your wit. Girls never like to talk to a douchbag. You really need to be good in class while answering questions. If you are an average student, start studying hard and impress her with your answeres in class.Rule No 3.Approach her friends. Talk to her friends(don't flirt), be friendly with them. Have patience. Don't rush to talk to your girl whenever sbe is around, hold your horses.Rule No 4Work upon your image. You really meed to have a good reputation among your friends. Be friendly with everyone. Never pick up fights with anyone. Respect girls.Rule No 5Be ignorant. Its always better to be little bit ignorant (be cautious) in the begining rather than showing your availability. Let her wonder about you. Not at all let her know that you are intrested in her. Let her develop intrest in you.Rule No 6Eye contact. Try to have eye contact for a fraction of second 2–3 times in a day. NEVER EVER STARE. while following the rule of ignorance, it is always advisable to give her hint that there is something from your. Don't make it obvious. Let her wonder about it.Incase above rules don’t work for you, don’t get dishearten. work hard, be the topper , other girls might start dying for you.Other shortcut to approach a girl you like.Don’t think about anything. Go to girl and express your fellings. You never know she might say yes.ARY.
Should girls approach guys?
Yes, without question girls should approach guys.And here’s why…We’re living at a time when guys have been harshly criticized for complimenting a woman’s appearance. And God forbid he should do what I myself did in junior high, and just approach anyone I found attractive and plant a big kiss on their lips - even complete strangers.In this day and age, many guys are understandably terrified of approaching girls. There are even questions on Quora - asked by single guys - wanting to know if it’s okay to approach women in public… just to say hello.What I also see on social media (Quora included) are lots of questions from young single women asking how to know if a guy really likes you or not. I’ve answered some of those questions myself.With a massive amount of confusion on both the girl’s side as well as the guy’s, it’s no wonder you’re asking us if girls should approach guys.This is a real question these days, isn’t it?Well, I’m here to tell you that girls should absolutely approach guys. I’ll go even further and say that girls should always approach guys if they’d like to get to know them better.You needn’t approach them with bedroom eyes, but to show a sign of interest, I would strongly recommend that girls make the first move with any guy who seems to be shy or too reluctant to make the first move himself.Keep your first conversation a simple one. You can even introduce yourself by shaking his hand if you wish. That’s as non-sexual as you can get.The plan is just to break the ice. In the good old days, people who wanted to start a conversation with someone often spoke about the weather.If a guy is a classmate, you can approach him and ask about one of his classes.And if you don’t know him from school or from work where a conversation about either topic would be a no-brainer, then just fall back on the tried-and-proven method and ask him if it looks like it’s going to rain. If he smiles and says anything at all when responding to your question, then congratulations - you’ve just broken the ice, and the ball is now in his court.
How should I approach girls in India?
The right question concerning this will be, how should I approach girls in India in a way that lands an effective result?To make an approach effective one should approach a girl in an environment where a girl feels comfortable and safe.The fact is, India in general is laden with men who do not send safe vibes, even though they might be.Girls in India are more concern about safety than getting laid.So any random approach in India is met with cynicism first.Cynicism leads to a shorter window for a man to display who He is and his attributes.First and foremost approach girls in a well filter environment. This will help you to get better window with girls to talk to.Example: StarbucksHow to open?Ideally the best openers are;“Hi, I am ABC, what's your name?”“Hi, How is your day going?”Otherwise, Indirect ways are better;“I notice you seem too focused on laptop"“Can you suggest me some nightclubs?”And then change the nature of the conversation to something more personal.Once the conversation gets going, keep the focus more on her and her interest.Make sure that you do not enter into a conversation with a goal in mind, that's creepy and manipulative.On more about Approaching I would like to add few pointers.Make sure when you physically approach her, she has enough space to leave.Smile and smileMatch your voice tonality to the energy of the environment.On more of technical aspects of getting better with women in India you can read my blogWayofmen
Girls, How Should I Approach a Girl at the Mall?
I just graduated HS, and really want to meet a girl. Im not like most guys who wants to meet a bunch of girls in hopes of having sex with them, i just want to meet a sweet girl i enjoy being with. With that said, im going to the mall in a few days to get some new clothes, but more importantly meet some girls. I hope to get a few girls numbers and get to know them better and decide if i want to ask em out etc. whats the best way to approach them cus i have several ideas? 1. Joke- Just go up to the girl and say OMG do you see that guys cute butt up there?... I think this would make them think WTF and make them laugh and easier to talk to, and then introduce myself etc. 2. Straight Forward- Go up to them and say Hi, whats your name? Give them a small compliment, and then ask for there number. 3. Simple Question- Say hey do u know where ____ is? Then say oh ok thank you, ive been to this mall so many times and i still get lost. See how she responds, introduce and ask for her number. If the girl im interested in is in a group im just going to go up to them and say hi, me and my friend (im going with my friend) were arguing over something and need some girls opinions... tell them my name ask for all of theres, and then when they feel comfortable ask to speak to the girl alone and just tell her that i came up to them because i think she is really cute and i really would like to get to know her better and ask for her number. What Do You Think?
How should I approach this girl from my orchestra?
There's a girl in my orchestra class who is... attractive, and well, I wouldn't mind "getting to know" her. The problem is, orchestra is probably the least social class I've ever had, so I can't really talk to her during it at all. It's literally a class of 7 people, so we are either playing music, or the teacher is talking about music. Then, after class, my next class is so far away that If I don't hurry and pack up very quickly I'll most certainly be late, so there is no time to talk. Besides that, I'm just overall pretty awkward with people I don't know well, so talking to her first in real life is sort of out of the question. I'm trying to come up with the least creepy way that I could reach her outside of school. My current options are just chat her on facebook, or possibly invite her to play ruzzle since she's singed up for it through facebook (There's a chat, so I guess that could work). Any other suggestions are appreciated. Also, if you think I should just talk to her on facebook, should I just be direct and tell her I just thought she was cute and wanted to talk, or should I look for some sort of orchestra-related excuse to talk?