Should I break up with my girlfriend?
Me and my girlfriend met when she was 19 and I was 21. We have been togeather for a little over 3 years and now. She is a very nice girl and I really care for her but now I am having doubts about whether she is the right girl for me. The things that bugs me is she usually is extremely bossy and always has to have things her way. She is very childish in a lot of ways, and it has been irritating me for a while. I'm usually a pretty serious guy, and am very level headed, and she is pretty much the exact opposite. In addition, anytime I want to do anything without her, (see my friends, play golf, pretty much anything), she gets extremely angry with me. I've even tried to include her when visiting my friends, but she says she doesn't like them, and always says she's bored, and refuses to come with me. The few times she has come she acts childish and pouty and we leave after only a short time... What she doesn't realize is that I'm usually bored too when she drags me shopping, but I try to make the best of it. I make an effort when we are with her friends, and they all like me, but she is not doing the same. My Mom doesn't care for her all that much either, and she frequently tells me to get a new GF...and I think it's partially because the lack of effort. I've talked with her about it in the past, and she always says she'll try to stop being so controlling, but more and more it just seems to be bred into her DNA. I will be graduating college in a couple months and am looking to purchase my first home, and she has been hinting at marriage a lot lately and it is making me uncomforatble and leaving me wondering whether I let things go on a little too long. She is my first girlfriend, so I don't really have any prior relationship experience, and am unsure of what I should do. I just feel like she holds me back a lot of the time and am finding myself wondering if I should start over.
How to break up with a very emotional girl?
Just tell her how you feel. However I wouldnt put in the still want to be friends part. That is a huge slap in the face and basically youre telling her you want her around when you need her but not for when she needs you. It is a selfish move. If she does love you it would make it harder for her to get over you. If you dont want her anymore its best to break it off clean. Maybe the friendship thing can happen down the road in time but it isnt fair to the person who still has feelings for the other. Just tell her you want to be single and not tied down anymore, that youre not ready for a relationship.
Why is it so easy for a girl to move on after break up?
It is easy for a girl to move on from a relationship rather than a guy because a lot of reasons.If a girl breaks up, there would be an army of guys behind her to cheer her up. No offense, guys are one of the biggest reasons why girls move on so easily. Once a girl is single, guys will follow her as a mad dog follows someone. She gets over the old guy.Her female friends would be there to support her and the girl doesn't mind asking her female friends for help. On the other hand, guys dont have a lot of girls to make his mood lift up and get away from the depression. They dont even ask for help to his male friends.Guys truly love a girl and they dont think about any other girl. They put all their efforts to a single girl, talks only to her, thinks only about her. He makes her his universe. Whereas girls dont usually love a guy truly. They have at least 2–3 crushes forwhich they crave to talk. They dont put all their investment in a single guy. They keep reserves and provisions.A girl is ready to break up from the very beginning of the relationship because she already knows that there is no future of them. Their mind is clear from the start that sooner or later they are gonna break up. They wont marry. My female best friend has said to me that “Koi bhi larki ho chhor ke chali hi jayegi" Whereas if a guy loves truly, he thinks the girl as her future wife and want to have a family with her. No If, No But.If the girl breaks up because her parents forcefully make her to marry a guy of their choice, she also has advantage. She gets busy in her marriage and husband and maybe kids. Whereas the guy dont marry right away. They have nothing to distract their mind.In the majority of cases, the girl breaks up. Reason? Many reaserches have proved that girls have a tendency to get bored so easily. They want to have something new all the time. So, they get bored of their boyfriend and expect something new everyday. Of course, the guy is unable to do that. She finds a new boyfriend.Hope you get what you were looking for…Sayonara…
Should I break up with my girlfriend for another girl?
So I’m in college and currently dating a girl I was friends with in high school. I love the girl I am currently dating but this girl I had a crush on for almost all of high school recently became single and I kind of want to break up with my girlfriend so I can try to get with this other girl. I think that girl that I liked for so long in high school used to like me but back then I just didn’t want to commit to a relationship. So my problem is that I have no clue if she even still likes me or would even give me a chance anymore because she might not have any feelings for me anymore. What should I do should I risk breaking up with my girlfriend on the chance that this girl will date me or should I just stay with my current girlfriend since I love her and am pretty happy in the relationship?
How should I break up with a girl in a way that does not hurt her much? Should I slowly drift away from her or should I end it abruptly?
There is no way to break up with someone who cares deeply for you without hurting them. However, you should always approach a breakup with honesty. Be direct and tell her how you're feeling. You can soften it a little bit, but at the end of the day you need her to realize that you're closing this door forever. If you soften it too much she can choose to believe that you're just taking some time and will come back to her. Be clear with her while you're breaking up that breaking up means you will no longer be in contact with her. If you agree to try to be friends, then set a time frame when you will get back in touch. Generally the time when you're out of contact needs to be significant depending on how long the relationship has been and should probably be at least 6 months. Now follow through on what you told her: stop all forms of communication with her. No calls or texts, defriend her on FB, etc. Some people consider this heartless or cold but really you're giving yourself and your ex the time needed to heal properly without reopening the wounds.It is possible to be friends with an ex, but just not immediately. There are far too many feelings still floating around and trying to go right into a friendship usually leads to confusion and extends the pain of the breakup. Only you can answer whether a friendship can be salvaged sometime in the future.Note: this is all assuming that she's in love with you and has said so.
Should I break up with my girlfriend because of her looks?
I'm surprised no one else has said this yet: Of course you should break with her. Not because you're an asshole or jerk (really, people? Grow up.), but because you aren't attracted to her. Is it shallow to break up with someone because of their looks? Sure. But it's also cruel to stay with someone you don't like looking at and you've admitted that to yourself.Attraction is a big part of a relationship for a lot of people, not just personality. If the sexual attraction isn't there, then what separates this girl from any of your other perfectly nice female acquaintances/friends? (And before people jump the gun, yes I know lack of sexual attraction is a thing. I'm running on the assumption that you are both—if not sexually active—sexually attracted to people with some amount of frequency.) As much as people nowadays don't want this to be true, it’s okay if she doesn't appeal to you physically. Continuing a relationship with someone who you aren't currently and don't foresee yourself developing an attraction to is a waste of both your times. I think maybe you could reevaluate what this vision of a wife is, and really think about what's attractive to you, but don't get too hung up on that either.TLDR: Does the thought of engaging in sexual activity with her turn you on? Can you hardly want to kiss her or even touch her casually? No? Then move along.