My best friend never cares about me. What should I do?
The real problem is not, that your best friend ‘never cares about me’.The real problem is that you consider somebody, who never cares about you to be your best friend. There is no such thing as a best friend, who does not care about you, because SOMEBODY WHO DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU IS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE A FRIEND!You should take a serious look at your definition of friendship. At your life. Did you have many friends? Were they interested in you? Did they take you, your feelings, your opinions seriously? Were they there for you. when you were in trouble? Did they cover your back?Have you enough self esteem? Enough self confidence? Do you feel worthy of REAL friendship?These are very important questions! Because if I feel like a piece of shit, chances are I will attract people (friends, partners) who will treat me like a piece of shit.My quote friends unquote will borrow money from me and never pay me back.My nymphomanic partner will have sex with my friends.Trying to change all of them will not do! I will have to work on my self esteem. I will need to learn, that I am worthwhile. That I truly deserve real friendship and love.I suggest you look for a professional caregiver to work on this problem.Changing people who humiliate you and who do not care for you is not the problem.You either let people into your life, or you do not.If people hurt you in a fake friendship, it is not a friendship at all, and you should break off contact and work on your self esteem.Greetings and I wish you strength!Robert.
Why do i care so much about my best friend??
You're freaking out because you haven't heard from him for 3 days? Are you serious? I often never heard from my best friend for weeks at a time. These days I usually only see him every few weeks or so, and I'm always the one who initiates contact Not that he's a bad friend, just disorganized. Not everyone feels the need to call/text their friends every 30 seconds. I for one only ever do it if I actually have something to talk to them about. In short, chill out a little. Also if you're seeing him really often, maybe cut it down a bit just for a little while (i.e. if it's every other day, reduce that to once a week or so). Might make things a bit more comfortable.
My best friend thinks I don't care about her ?
I have a friend like this and I understand your frustration. My advice, though harsh, is to figure out which things you say upset/annoy her (eg when you say you care) and don't say them to her. When she says 'nobody cares about me', tell her calmly that people do care about her, but explain how you feel she doesn't appreciate those things being said to her. People like this are usually extremely insecure and seek attention, then reject it because they feel they are being told 'lies'. My friend has readily admitted she wants people to tell her they love her, but gets very angry when they do as she thinks they are lying for a reason or she doesnt want to get attached. This could be why your friend acts this way. You're a great friend, its just that sometimes others arent appreciative! Good luck and don't worry :)
What if I care for my best friend more than my bf?
No…..not at all.Did you get my point?? When i met my best friend (a guy) I knew there was a connection. The connection was not romantic. nope………not at all, but a connection of deep understanding and similarities in views. To prove that i don’t love him romantically, He is committed to my another good friend, and i have played cupid in their love story. I want them to remain happily ever after. I do love my best friend, but not romantically. And by this picture i think he is my soul mate.Maybe you connected with your best friend the way i connected with him.!! maybe he is your soul mate too. See this theory is deep nd needs complete understanding otherwise people interpret it wrong. I am not saying that your current bf is not connected with you. He too is connected with you, but maybe your best friend understands you more then him. And trust me its nothing romantic. If it is like that then its not wrong either. You can absolutely care for your best friend more than your bf, but in this case your bf should be understanding enough so that in future no quarrel gets in between you both .
Do I care about my friend too much?
Okay I recently have become super close with this girl, we'll say her name is Talia. So we have been hanging out together a lot, and we're pretty much best friends! Anyways, back to my question. Whenever we hang out, it is literally so much fun. And if we're with other people, say Talia says "Come sit by me!" or something of that nature, I get like really happy..?! I just care about her a lot! But is this normal? To feel this way towards your best friend? If we are hanging out with other people, I'll always want to be with her, even if I have many close friends with me! I almost miss her when we haven't seen each other in a few days (we are in a sport that requires daily practice, so it is not normal to not see someone for about 2-3 days.) and like when she gives me a hug it just makes me happy! I'm not "attracted" to her, and I'm attracted to guys. I like guys! I've had my first kiss and everything! Basically my question is, is this normal? To care about your best friend this much?! Thank you guys for answering!
My best friend thinks I don't care about her?
I really really care about my best friend, she's almost family to me, but she doesnt think i care about her as much as I "let on". Like, I really do care about her as much as I let her know, but she doesn't think so, how can I prove it to her? She's been having some tough times lately, she's had awful nightmares the last 2 nights that woke her up, and she called me the first time (we were having a small argument the second night, nothing major) so I told her I'd stay up for a while tonight in case she has another one, and I thought something was wrong with her tonight too and i kept asking her about it and she said "to be honest I don't think you care about me half as much as you let on, it's either for show or because you feel you have to. Night". What can I do? It's really upsetting me, to the point where i feel like crying... Please help me out, thanks.
My best friend doesn't seem to care about what I have to say?
Everything I say to her she replies with Ok, K, or kk. Like she doesn't care about anything I have to say. I find it very rude and extremely annoying. Should I bring it up to her? Or ignore her until she wants a serious conversation?
What do I do if my best friends don't care about my feelings, but they still demand my friendship?
Care is something must require in any relationship. Care makes relation strong and it gives empathetic view. If your friends don't care about you and still what's to get in touch with you then .. You are friend with benefits for them !!!
What do I do if my best friend cares more about her boyfriend than me?
Talk to her, but don't worry, some girls just go a little guy crazy for a while. Right when she catches her breath I would bet that she'd get back to her normal self, it is just a fase. Don't worry girl! :)