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How would you rate your attractiveness on a scale of 1-10?

I’d give myself a solid 8.5/10.

How attractive would you rate your physical traits, on a scale of 1 to 10?

Ok. Physical traits.Eyes (2) My eyes are so generic and boring….They are dark brown but most people call them black.Those aren’t mine but that’s the closest picture I could find that looks similar to my eye color I would give it a 1 but a lot of people say that they look hazel in the sunlight? So…I’ll give it a 2Hair: (1) My hair is black and spiky…also it is very nappy and messy like very unkeptIt looks very similar to that but shorter. That isn’t me by the way…and these days the opposite gender only wants blonde hair and guess what…My race doesn’t have that so in the hair aspect I don’t really have a shot there.Nose(4) Meh…My nose is ok…it’s really small though(don’t think negative) I don’t really feel self conscious about my nose.Smile: (2) Oof. The people at my school think my smile is creepy as hell apparently…even my teacher said I have a creepy smile because I don’t smile with my teeth. I don’t care though. Let them think what they wanna think.Body(1) I am a skinny little boy ok! like I think I weigh 111 lbs and i’m 14 so yeah. I’m not necessarily short but small. i’m about….I would say 5′5 ish and i’m not physically capable so don’t even go there. During gym I don’t even try to participate I just sit on the bleachers watching everyone play like a creepFace(0) I legit have no confidence in my face whatsoever. People on Quora say i’m attractive but I think they are just saying that to make me feel better because I know i’m not that cute. Why would anyone think that me of all people would be cute? anyway….ConclusionSo if I add up all of the numbers which is 2+ 1+4+2+1+0 is….10. 10 divided by all of the things that I did is….10 divided by 6 which equals 1.666666666666667. I am a 1.666666667 on the attractive scale. I thought that I would score much lower but I guess I didn’t….Ewwww Look at me. Hideous.

My girlfriend asked me what her attractiveness rating is, and I said 7. Now she is really upset. What did I do wrong?

Here's what I have done in the past. My wife asked the same question many years ago.   I never did give her a number, which is the real purpose of this plan.  Essentially I went into full engineer mode and started musing about how to quantify such a thing. You know, with science!  My wife lost interest at step 3. 1) identify the factors of attractiveness in a female. Let's break them into: three primary factors:- physical, emotional and social. 2) each of these factors will have a weight and a score. The weight is how important each factor is to a neutral male bystander. For the sake of argument let's make it: physical: 50%, emotional: 30%, social: 20%. 3) Identify key indicators that affect each of the primary factor scores.4) come up with a function for each indicator that generates a score for that indicator. For example, most women reach their peak physical attractiveness at around age 23. So, a 23 year old should get a score of 1.0. Any other age would get deductions based on how far away she is from the optimal.   There are many factors that you can rate like this: waist/hip ratio, facial symmetry, hair length, number of close female friends, how much affection she shows, ratio of intimacy initiation, emotional stability, general health... 5) by now you should have a spreadsheet started.  Enter all of the data into the spreadsheet.  The ultimate score is a simple weighted average of each of the indicators.  Do not show her the spreadsheet. 6) normalizes the top level to a value between 1 and 10.7) if the score is less than 7, simply add a couple points as a special bonus for agreeing to be with you and put up with your ineptitude. 8) present your findings as scientific proof at how attractive she is to you. 9) it just occurred to me that it might be an even better approach to compute your own numbers first. The factors and weights are different for men: physical: 20%, material: 40% and social: 40%.   Just be damned sure that she scores a few decimals higher than you. Also, if there is a significant mismatch in her favor, you've got some work to do on yourself. * disclaimer: relationship spreadsheets are proven vaginal desiccants. Proceed at your peril.