This girl wants to fight me?
Girl I'm in the same problem right now. That's just how girls are. My advice to you is to not feed into all the things she do act like she ain't around. Don't look at her or pay her any type of attention. Ignore the rumors because all she trying to do is break y'all up. Don't fight her unless she come up in your face with drama. If she do come up in your face laugh at her and walk off. It will make her look stupid show her you ain't got time for little girl games. Don't fight her over the boy fight her over your respect. Don't let her get to you keep your mouth shut and when you get sick of her trying you, beat her *** and let all the anger out and show her who the boss is. It worked for me.
Should I continue to fight for her?
This advise is from a 100% different perspective so here it goes. You need to think about you and what you want out of a relationship. Are you even considering how this is affecting you? It is like a yo-yo relationship. You need to answer your own questions you have and not rely on her for answers. She wants to have her cake and eat it too! I am going to give you some some things to think about:What are your reasons for fighting for her? Do you really love her so much you will sacrifice yourself and stay in this yo-yo relationship? One day you are up and the next it is down. Is this how you see your future?What are you wanting out of this relationship? 100% love and commitment? This person can not give you this as they are going back and forth with emotions and how they feel at the moment.Where is your respect for yourself and how much you will tolerate in a relationship? You need clear lines that can not be crossed. Your feelings matter just as much as theirs. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You can love someone and at times that is not enough. You must know when you have given your all and it is time to move on with your life.Would you not rather be in a relationship that you were not the rebound? You can have this but you must cut ties with this current relationship before you are open to move forward.How long will you fight? 6 months, 1 year? What will really change in that time? This person needs to discover things for themselves. What is your time worth to you? Is time not valuable to you? Are you wasting your time on a relationship that is not going to go anywhere long term?What does your gut intuition tell you? I think you know what the right answer is for you. Move forward with your life.Listen to your gut intuition and know you are worthy of a whole relationship. One where two people come to the table completely with no strings from their past. Do not stay in the past. Open yourself up to the future and what it holds for you. I would not stay with this person. I would move forward, meet new people and know this was a lesson in my life and the right one is out there for me. I just need to stay open to it. Best wishes whatever you decide.
How do you know whether you should fight for the love of your life or give up and walk away?
It’s time to be a bit selfish here.Before anything, you need to know exactly what you want in your life. Ask yourself that question every morning when you wake up, and every time you go to sleep.As long as the answer is fully and honestly that you want her in your life, you fight with every piece of your heart and soul. Your goal is-Make certain that she knows, without a doubt, how you feel about her and what kind of relationship you wish to have with her.Make certain that you are fully respectful of what and who she chooses for her life. She is her own woman. You get to invite her into your life, and that’s it.As much as possible, encourage her to tell you exactly what she is thinking and feeling about you and your relationship with her. This will challenge you. It will be hard. Much of it, you may not want to hear, even in the best relationship. That’s ok, you will survive it. You need to know where you stand, and she needs to be free to tell you where you stand, without any judgement.At the same time, let’s fix up your perspective. You refer to her as “the love of your life,” but how do you know this? Have you dated every woman on Earth? I’m guessing no, which means you have a few billion other options.What you probably mean is “the love of your life, so far…” She is not the only woman who you can build a beautiful happy life with.Get the idea that your happiness depends on her completely out of your head.Also. You didn’t share any specifics about your situation, so let’s make sure all the scenarios are covered.Let’s suppose your situation is that you love this woman, and you are in a relationship with her - and now there is another man in the picture. This would clearly create a fight-or-let-go decision.For many people, this would conflict deeply with their core values - respect, honesty, commitment.In this case, fighting for her may be pointless. Let’s be clear, in this situation, the other guy is not the problem. The problem is that you and your partner do not live by the same values.If you are experiencing a conflict of core values, then it’s highly unlikely that the two of you will never be able to create a relationship that you can be happy in, and letting go is probably the best and most respectful thing that you can do for yourself.On the other hand… for some people, it’s not a conflict at all. All 3 could move in together and create an amazing happy life together.Your life, your rules.
When someone breaks up with you, should you fight for them if you want to get back together or is that needy and unattractive?
Great Question.In my experience and I've had many...(and that's not a good thing)It all came down to the situation. Now we all know there's many different ways a relationship can end. But it usually can be split into two different groups.1. The boy breaks up with the girl because it's her fault.2.The boy breaks up with the girl because it's his fault.You can switch the boy and girl because the gender doesn't matter but rather who is breaking up with who, and why.I know you guys may be thinking... What about when it's a mutual decision? Well, whoever brought up the idea of a "mutual" breakup is the one breaking up with the other...and if it's not one person's fault but rather "both partner's fault" then once again it's the fault of the person who brought up the "mutual" breakup.Anyway, once the two partners breakup. If you're in group 1 where the boy(or girl) is breaking up with the other partner because it's the other partners fault...then begging and pleading looks needy.If you have failed in some way or another then it is not your job to get the other person to forgive you. That shows insecurities and neediness because simply, it was you made the relationship fall apart so you are no position to insist the relationship should be re-ignited. Forgiveness is something people can find in their hearts alone, any pleading and begging won't result in true forgiveness but rather a forgiveness that has been influenced and is biased.For group 2, where your actions didn't cause the breakup but rather the boy broke up with you because of his own faults or any unknown reasons...When you beg and plead to be in a relationship again you aren't being needy but rather it means you care for that person, and have taken the time to (by yourself) find forgiveness for what that person has done. You have looked past it and you should feel free expressing your desires to be together again.
Her boyfriend wants to fight me. What should I do?
At school, i have been spending lunch with this girl I like. I know at one point she had a crush on me, but I'm not sure now. She was describing her boyfriend as controlling and abusive. Later, I met her boyfriend unintentionally. I was talking to her, and her boyfriend came over and me to leave. At first, I was like "who the heck are you!?" but, after I realized her was her BF, I left to not make her upset. Now, he keeps trying to start a fight with me. I probably deserve it for hanging around his gf, but I thought she was single (and she acts like it). She doesn't like him, but puts up with him because he's intimidating, while she has low self-esteem and is shy. I probably shouldn't get involved, but I feel very strongly for her and she deserves better than this jerk. It's gotten close to a fight before. He talks about her extremely crudely and that ticks the heck out of me. When he insults me, I usually reply with a wry remark or comeback, but then he's like "say it to my face". I don't know what to do because if I say it to his face, he'll probably slug me or start a fight. What should I do in a fight with him? I want to defend myself and not get beat up, but hurting him hurts her, and I hate violence. I'm faster, but he's also much bigger than me. I have a moderate knee tear, which might hinder me a bit also.
What happens if a girl wants to fight me and i don't wanna fight her?
So there is this girl at my school named Charity and we were friends but now she wants to fight me.It all started with Donnell (a boy who liked both of us)i knew he liked her too but i liked him since the 5th grade(i'm in 7th now).So he said Charity was playing games ,so he asked me and i said yea(knowing i shouldn't have cause i'm not his rebound chick)and i told him he can't talk to her in a flirty way. And he asked if she could help him with his homework and i said yea.So the next day Charity called me and asked if i told Donnell not to talk to her,so i said yea . And she said i was fake and told me she was gone still talk 2 hi. And she hung up on me.So i called Donnell and asked him about it and he was playing so i broke up with him.And Charity called me back and asked me did i break up with him and i said yea.So she started laughing and hung up on me,again.Wat she didn't know was that Kayla and Sharon (my other friends) was on the phone also.So the started playing on her phone and left a message with all kind of curses and threats.So her mom called my house cussing at me and my sister snapped on her.And finally she called back with some sense and her and my mom talked.So the next day at school she said if i look at her wrong she was going to punch me in the face.So in our last period i explained to her that it wasn't me but it was Kayla.and she even Asked Kayla and Kayla said yea.So i thought i was out of the picture but here comes Shakayla instergating and stuff so Charity said i put Kayla up to taking the blame.So what should i do? Should i fight her or not? I really don't wanna fight her because some day i want to be friends again.And i dont want to get suspended and on top of all of that she has a heart mummur so my mom said i can't fight her.I mean i'm not scaredit's just this can't be on my record if i wanna be somebody someday.WHAT SHOULD I DO?And i need the answer fast
Should I fight all of my girlfriend's battles for her?
I mean, I can't help it! I love her. And I want to fight her battles. A friend betrays her, I want to go up to that friend and have a few words with him or her. She has a falling out, I'm there to comfort her and also there to confront the other party. She has a fight, I rush into the fray. Someone offends her, hurts her, insults her, they better be ready 'cause I really do fight her battles for her. I get myself in trouble for her. She says it's sweet and romantic of me...but she doesn't want me fighting her battles all the time. Should I, or shouldn't I? I know this may look like she's the instigator, but she's NOT!!! Sorry to disappoint you. She's always the victim when someone starts something! She's NEVER the instigator! NEVER!!! She never has been and she NEVER WILL BE!!!