Am i stupid for being heartbroken over a guy that was never mine?
I was talking to this guy who is a senior (I'm a junior) for about 2 months. I became somewhat attached, and developed strong feelings for him because he was just perfect in my eyes. We connected well, and hung out with each other after school almost every day. He would wait with me outside of my school for 3 hours to keep me company while waiting for my powderpuff practices to start. He would call me every night and would stare at me in my psych class. He even made attempts to hold my hand when the opportunity was presented. Doesn't it sound like he liked me as well? So one night he calls me drunk while he was with our friend. Our conversation was normal but later that same friend told me that he admitted to liking me and being confused as to whether i like him back. He also explained to him that he was torn in between me and some other girl who i later found out was another friend of mine. By the way, I should have mentioned that i have a boyfriend who's a total asshole and i have no idea why i tolerate him sometimes. but trust me when i say that i was willing to do anything for this guy (no dirty stuff included). so i had the intention of actually being with him and not just leading him on. anyway, the guy i like found out about my boyfriend and he never actually admitted to me that he liked me.. and when i tried confronting him about it he told me that he didnt like me. so things just became really weird between us after that. its been about 3 months since then and im still hurting over him.. he doesnt seem to care. he made me feel really stupid and all he said was that he's sorry for leading me on because he never meant to make it seem like he liked me. i still have him for my class but i try to avoid eye contact. as does he. i've had a dream about him every night in which he tells me that he does like me and was only lying when he said he didnt. i swear...every night. in your opinion... did i ruin this? or did was he never interested?
My crush is heartbroken. But do you think he's actions mean something? Any insights? Please help.?
So I've posted this a lot of times already but I guess it was WAY long that I got only 2 answers maximum. Shorter Version: We have common friends since before, but we weren't really close imo. I don't crush on him yet at that time. SO The FIRST TIME we became somewhat close - we joked around and pretended to be bf/gf like holding hands while laughing when we rode the same bus. Together w/ a common friend. (Not crushing on him yet) Weeks after that. At PROMENADE - He asked me to dance two times. The First time - we did not dance because I was still dancing with someone. Second time - we did dance because he asked again. Again, we joked around and pretended to be sweet because people around us are sweet couples doing the slow dance so we did too. :) -- (It's at this time that I started crushing on him) Days after that. He ASKED my NUMBER twice from a common friend. She didn't give my no. at first but according to her, the next day he asked her again and he was like begging so he gave her. So yea, we're texting till now. So yesterday. He ASKED me TO COME with his friends and our common friends to play video games w/ them. I was late and I was with a girl friend. So when we were about to come they saw us like look at us. Then when we were still outside the computer shop. (Standing and still talking w/ the friend I'm with outside.) While they were playing video games, His GUY FRIENDS POINTED at us and like told him something but I just pretended to notice and came in. I MIGHT BE REALLY LOOKING DEEPER INTO THOSE. But What do you think? Any Insights? Could those mean something or it's just a normal thing? About the HEARTBROKEN thing: The guy I have a crush on seems to be kind of heartbroken because of someone. He is sending group messages like "I meant it when I said forever but you replied with however -- I gave you space and time to think but what you gave me was a cannon to sink". That's what he sent right now. So yea, I think he's still not over someone. Please give insights/advices specially if you could relate to my situation. Thanks! :) btw, I'm 16. and a Senior in High School. Going to college in a couple of months.
My girlfriend is ignoring me and Im heartbroken, I feel like its the end for me ...please help?
Come on Joe....if you have been in a relationship with this girl for any length of time, you have seen some signs that something might not be right. Write her a letter and ask her to come clean. Ignoring someone for a week is a clear indication that she is upset or angry about something. You can't move on until you have cleared this up. You must find out what's going on and end the relationship if that's what has to happen. THEN, you need to take some time for yourself and reevaluate you - where you are going, what you are doing, what you want to do. You want to make sure that you have cleaned out all the pieces of the junk from this suitcase before you move on. It is not fair for you to carry a heavy-weighted bag filled with junk from your past relationship into another one. Take care of you first.
Should I just give up on finding love?
No you should not give up there is someone out there that God made just for you.you shouldn't give up.Because i had the same issues and i kept trying to get a guy and now i have a wonderful perfect guy.If you have never had a boyfriend maybe God wants you to find the perfect guy.Because my sister has had 3 boyfriends and she has had her heart broken several times and maybe god doesn't want you to go through pain like a breakup. Good Luck Hope this helps
I want to know your worst heartbreak story.. :/?
lets see im 24 yrs old with two kids one of which is not my spouses. We have a son together and my daughter is not his she took her fathers break up very hard and she loves this guy as her own dad. So we have been married almost two yrs and come to find out recently when i was pregnant with our son he was texting his gf and sending her naked pics. on top of it he was texting another girl all night all day behind my back. He knew I was pregnant and was telling me how much he wanted to spend his life with me, I even changed my plans to move to New York for him, i just found out three weeks and am now seeking divorce for the lying and hiding and sneaking our marriage was built on a lie if you cant be truthful from the beginning then you have nothing in each other. heartbreak is hard and never easy no matter what the situation. a heart is fragile and should be handled with care. Im sorry that all of you have gone through a tough time its always hard never easy be careful and always guard your heart. good luck and hopes to all that you find the one who will treat you with the respect you deserve.....
I have fallen in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?
Why did you fall in love with someone who already has a boyfriend? Okay! I understand. It happens. So, start thinking about “What ifs” first.Assume you have proposed her. She has rejected you coz she already has a boyfriend. Nice girl she is! What got wasted now? Your feelings got wasted. Time wasted. Most important thing is you are heart broken.Assume that she accepted your proposal. Congratulations man!! Finally you got a girlfriend. But she ditched her boyfriend for you. Someday she will ditch you for someone else too. What's the guarantee?Assume she loves you back and she has a boyfriend too. What is she doing? She is cheating on her boyfriend. Someday she will feel guilty for her act and might leave both the guys.Let's say her boyfriend is an idiot but still she loves him. Then you have taken a step and proposed her. One fine day she has realized and accepted your proposal. Then Your love story has just begun.Assume you have proposed her. She told her boyfriend about this. He got pissed off with this. Now you know what to do! Run for your life.What if she politely rejects your proposal and says she doesn't want to lose you as friend? Will you be able to take it? If so, be a good friend of her.Assume that you love her truly even after she rejected your proposal. Will you start crying for her daily and ruin your career? Nah, you shouldn't. Life is much more than that girl who rejected you.Conclusion: If not Anushka Sharma, you might end up with Deepika Padukone tomorrow :DNever lose hope.Mi Amor!