Do you trust your friends?
i trust all my best friends. there cant be a proper friendship with someone without the foundation which is trust - its really important that you know you can trust your friend(s) to know that she/he will always be there for you, will never let you down, or talk behind your back. also, i trust my family :)
Do you trust anyone with your life? Why or why not?
So I’m just gonna diss my best friends real quick…I’m sure you’re expecting some heart-sapping story about how I’d trust my best friend with my life.Well, uh…Sorry?Yeahhh…. this is awkward.Not counting my parents, there are only a couple people that I’ve met, in 15 years, that I’ve felt completely calm and “myself” around. Allen’s one of them—but it might be the lack of arguments and disagreements that lead it to be so.Why? I have some trust issues.I’ve had too many bad instances in middle school of “best friends” turning out to be living snakes. I find it hard to trust people.When I finally do, it’s always reserved; I try to morph myself to fit that person’s expectation. But there have been two people in my life that I’ve been able to have no boundaries with — Allen Kinney, and, as sad as it may sound, my islamic teacher.My teacher drove me to school everyday, and we talked about everything you could imagine. Imagine how rare it is for a 13 year old to completely open up about everything to a 30 year old. He was the best teacher you could have— He never judged me or any of my other classmates, he always listened, always uplifted my mood somehow with some kind of inspiration, and best of all, he was a source of advice for topics that I couldn’t talk to my parents about.Now, why Allen? We live an hour away from each other. We were introduced by our mutual best friend, Alex, who knew me for a year and Allen for around 10 years. We don’t meet very often, but we talk everyday. That buffer allowed me to open up about things. I could tell him anything without being ashamed of seeing his face the next day at school. We talk about all kinds of ways life sucks. I complain. He listens. He complains. I listen.Like, actual problems.Not like, “bro this chem teacher hairline is uglier than my future.”(art made by streetpoet Alex Kane in collaboration with memegenerator ;) )It’s a two-way lane that I really never had with other friends.Urk (It’s a word now—fight me), feels good getting that out there.Allen Kinney, thank ya for existing; Now about those arrangements to get run over by the Bart train together…
Can you trust your best friend?
I do. Very much.And I’ve been sharing my answer a couple of times here.Rolly is my childhood best friend. We went to elementary school together and also in high school. Both our parents take turns welcoming us in each other’s homes for summer vacations. When we grew up and gotten married, our roads went separate ways.Then seven years later, we met again, at my birthday party at a bar downtown. We had a blast.When it was time to go home, I told him I was a little tipsy and probably had too much to drink. I threw him my car keys for him to drive me home.Except for a few late night traffic jams on the road, we arrived safely. He followed all of my directions. Turn left, turn right, slow down, stop, go, left, right slow down, stop, and so on and so forth. The drive home was uneventful.But you know what? Rolly is blind. He has been blind since birth. He has never been behind a steering wheel in his entire life. After many years of being apart, we just needed to hit that trust bell again, and off it went.Relationships are mysterious. We often doubt the positive qualities of others, seldom the negative.We ask our partner over a dozen times, “Do you love me?” “Are you sure you love me?”But we never ask, “Are you really mad at me?” Are you sure you’re angry?”When someone is angry, we don’t doubt it for a moment.But the reverse should be true. We should never doubt the negative in life, and have faith in the positive.
Can I trust my ex best friend?
There's a reason why a person is an "ex"-anything.Unless you have a verified account of this person undergoing a fundamental personality overhaul (from a trained psychologist), it's the same person who caused you to call them an ex-friend.Since this person wants you back - and not the other way around - you can end their suffering by making clear that your decision is final.Will you be friends with them again? Next life, maybe.Do you want a person who proved themselves to be your worst enemy back into your life? Not this time around.(The worst thing in this situation is that if you allow them back into your life, and they do the same thing they did before, or even something worse, they will say that you should have learned from your mistake. Do not give them this chance - you've been burned once, that's quite enough).
My best friend doesn't trust me?
My best friend is a really nice person and we always have a lot of fun when we are together and we can't ever stop laughing. She's been there to help me through many hard times in my life, and encourages me in many ways. I have confided a lot in her, and my trust in her has never wavered. However, I've just been realizing that she hasn't ever confided anything in me or tells me whatever is on her mind.. It makes me feel bad that she can't trust me, or that she doesn't want to confide in me because it may bother me, but how can I talk to her about this? It seems a bit one-sided in my opinion. What may be the reason behind her not trusting me? What can I do? Please help..
My best friend has betrayed my trust and I can not get over it. I still love her, but can not make the mistake of trusting her again. What do I do?
I'll start this answer by a story!There was a family of four members. Mother, father and two brothers Ajay and Kishan. As brothers grew, they faced difficulties to adjust with each other. They fought and got separated!Ajay and Kishan's family expanded. And Ajay's daughter was going to get married. So Ajay firsy hesitated to sent the invitation to Kishan. But then he thought “I don't want any one to point at me and say that he din want his brother to attend the marriage ” . so Kishan got an invitation from Ajay. Kishan arrived before the marriage at Ajay's place. They din apologize to each other.Ajay told “ I'm glad you made it kishan. ”Kishan replied “ Actually I needed a reason to get together. ”This says that don't regret after ages that you should have forgive your loved ones.Because it'll be your mistake then that you couldn't forgive them. And that will be your ego speaking! Then you will regret it.Rather just do it now. Forgive them !!Peace!!!
My best friend thinks that I don't trust her !?
Glitter this girls got some ideas for you. Take her aside gve her a hug and explain that its nothing to do with your trust/love for her and that you are just not comfortable with it. Find out why she even wants to know. Also remind her yes BFF tell things llike passwords but also they respect one anothers rivacy and personal issues/ preferences. It sounds to me that your freind has some self esteem issues and she's gonna need your assistance in order to overcome them. Maybe she's trying to reausre herself in the sense that she's worth trusting and if so she may be veiwing your refusal as both proof she's not worth it or rejection. If thats the case its neither your fault nor hers, but you may want to help her realise that is the case. Whenever I have to go through this kind of thing I take the person aside look them in the eye and tell them why I said no. I find that hugs or gentle touvhesd can help explain that you still love rthem dearly, you just aren't able to comply with their request. In this case explain you trust her with your life just not your password, make a joke of it. You need to... Give your freind a hug and let her know it is not her fault and that if you were to tell a soul your FB password she would be the first and probably last. it is sort of like a trade, you wont give your password and you'll make up for it with extra love, time and love. Especially one-on-one time. I hope I helped! Recognize though, she is invading your privacy with this, she doesn't have a right to do that so as i aid before find out why she really wants the password! Belive in better times,Peace!<3 Bobbi Deena!
What can happen if you don't trust your best friend?
Friends come and go through life. People in general; lovers, colleagues, even family at times. If you trust yourself, that's all that matters.The question may not be ‘ do I trust my friend?’, but rather ‘ Am I aligned with this person? Are they cherishing and enjoying me? Are they enjoyable to me? Is this relationship honouring and serving me?’. If the overall answer feels like a no, then it might be time to take a step back and really observe. If you create space by letting those that do not honour you go, it allows space for those that do honour you to come in. And that is a truly self loving act.Always trust your gut. It speaks in places that thinking and logic cannot. Employ both, and you're waking up to your true path