Stay friends after being rejected?
About 6 months ago, I invited my brothers roomate/friend to a football game. Prior to this, I knew him threw my brother, and when I would come a visit, he was very flirty. And acted interested. Tickling and touching, I guess in my naivity, I thought that he might have liked me so I asked him to"hang out". After the game I expressed interest and through online messaging in so many words said that I liked him. He said he wanted to "remain friends". So months have passed and he is still being very flirty. Which I have come to believe are games. So my heart wants to be friends with him, because he is so much fun to be around, but I know that he has been dating, and may have a girlfriend. And he has been rubbing that in my face when he calls. Please help me, I need some sound advice on what should be done. I really like him still, but I think he may just be using me for an ego boast. Should I discontinue the friendship, and stay away?
I rejected a guy and I still want to be his friend, what should I do?
You tell him “Look, I don’t want to be your [boy/girl]friend, but I like you as a person and would really like to be your friend” or something to that effect. And then you wait for his response, while fully accepting that it might be “no”.Being up front and honest about how you feel and what you want is the only way to ensure that he gets the message without misunderstandings, and in the long run you will respect yourself for doing it, even if he does say no in return.(Consider his point of view — he worked up the courage to ask you out, and got rejected. He may have adored you from afar for a long time before that moment, and he may still feel hurt and rejected and unable to bear having you only peripherally in his life and not the way he envisioned. It might even be a good idea to wait a while for his feelings to subside, depending on how he took it. Only you can make that judgement.)
She rejected me, but wants to remain friend?
I proposed this girl a few months ago. I felt like she loved me. Her attitude, here facial expression everything said she loved me. But, when i proposed she rejected. She said she has a boyfriend. I was so hurt and took me a long time to recover. I still have no clue why she flirted me if she really has a boyfriend. I don't know her boyfriend and never asked her friends about this. Now, she says see wants to remain friend. Its Just so hard for me remain friends. I never had such experience. She knows that i am weak to her. I expect she would avoid me. But, she doesn't. I never had such experience. I admin i still have a thing for her. Can anyone please, explain and help. If she knows all these things, then why she wants to remain friend? Does she have a thing for me?
Should I be friends with her even after she rejected me?
You should keep being her friend! Don't let little things like this get to you. Just because she doesn't like you the same way doesn't mean you should stop being her friend! If you truely were her friend, you would continue being her friend even after this. I made this mistake when a boy that was my friend confessed to me and I rejected him because of the same reason this girl rejected you. I regret doing so and wish I didn't avoid him and break off the friendship because he liked me. Besides, there are other fish in the sea. Live your life and take opportunities to be in a relationship with other women. Did you ever think maybe she just wasn't ready for a relationship? When you see her talk to other guys, just think to yourself that there are plenty of other people in this world and don't get depressed! Just try to ignore it and don't get into any awkward moments with her. Don't flirt with her or anything like that if you continue to be her friend. Being independent and staying single is just her style and she likes it, I'm the same way. In fact, you'll probably never meet another girl JUST like her, she is certainly different from other women in this world and that alone should make you want to stay her friend. And keep in mind that maybe in the future, she might develop feelings for you too.
A guy rejected me and he wants me as his friend. What should I do?
When people don`find any more interest in you , they will give weird reason for not communicating/interacting with you.They will really not care the shit about you .What are reasons for such behaviors,Most probably they might have found new partner.No more benefits from you.Looks does matter.. mind it , And you might not be attractive by looks so he/she is dumping you.The person who says looks does not matter are the same person who would decide a person`s character by looking at physical appearance.What you need to do ,He has left you and has moved from this relation so it is not required for you to cry and beg from him .It is tendency of human being to orient toward something which gives more profit.You should move on .But make sure if you want to maintain friendships with him .It happens sometime that a guy is not interested in being relation with you or love matter for some reason like physical appearance etc , but to satisfy their lust they do friendship and since you are still attached to him they may use you.Note - If from starting he has not tried for physical acts even in jokes then he might be interested in friendship only.
Should I stay friends with a guy who rejected me?
Tough one, not so tough.It all comes to you.Can you handle it?He rejected you sure doesn't mean you can't be good friends, but the underlining issue is if you can handle that friendship. (Emotional maturity)Do you still crave a romantic relationship with him? if yes, it's best to stay away. Because staying friends with him, thinking he might change his mind about you is going to hurt you more.Not to talk of when he has a new girlfriend, you would be enraged! Could even lead to low self esteem; you'd start comparing,what does she have that's missing in me?And you'd start criticizing your looks, abilities and what not. You really don't want that to happen.Stay away if you can't handle all that, but if you can, then go for it. Totally.Cheers to good friends!
Can you still be friends with a girl who rejected you?
I was worried about this too when I first asked a girl out on a date. The girl of my dreams rejected me, but we have remained friends, in fact better friends than we were before! I cannot say for certain, but as long as you remain dignified about the situation and remain understanding, she really shouldn't shun you. If she does she is not worth your time anyway. Ask her out when you feel ready! Good luck! :)
What should I do when my "guy friend " rejected me but still wants to be friends with me ?
It takes a lot of courage to ask a guy out and you are a very brave, confident and an independent girl. The way he has responded to you can be because of any of the below reasons:Either he is very polite and couldn’t just break your heartOr, he is very cunning and being aware of your feelings, he is keeping you as a back-up.Personally, I would suggest not to pursue it because I have been through something like this and the guy kept sucking my confidence, my energy and my time. He just maintained “friendship” according to his convenience, when he wanted to kill time or feel better about himself. The worst part is that you can’t blame that person to be treating you like this because you are the one in love and you chose it. I realised it very late and I realised it only when I cut him out of my life completely to do better things.You can always maintain a casual friendship but then it is never going to be “normal” ever. You will not be able to see other wonderful guys around you. Always remember that things that are meant to be yours will be yours no matter what. Choose wisely!
Still want to stay friends with a guy I rejected?
Ok I know some people say after you reject a guy you can never be friends with him again but I think that's bull ****. Anyway onto my dilemma, so I have a good guy friend we have two classes together and are in the school show so we see each other everyday after school too. He asked me out and I think he's funny and nice and he's not unattractive I just could never see us dating. So i said no. It's been a few days and he's kind if avoiding me but if I talk to him he will talk with me just very mutal. Let me get one thing straight I was not rude when I rejected him I simply told him I didn't see it and I'm very sorry but no. I want to stay friends but am afraid of when I talk to him or try to be funny and have fun conversations like we use to I might lead him on and I don't want to lead him on because i dont want him to ask me again and i have to reject him again.I just want to be friends