At what age should a parent stop beating their child?
I'm sorry but WHAT!? Did you just ask what I think you did? Seriously? A parent should never stop beating their child, because a parent should never start. Beating your kid is not cool on so many levels. Unless of course, you want to be an abusive parent, cause your kid serious pain both mentally and physically, and lose custody of your child after beating them and having child protective services called. This might be extreme, maybe I'm overreacting, but I have a friend who was beaten as a little kid and her parents still verbally abuse her and it broke her completely, she sank into depression and started talking about suicide. She told me that if her parents did that to her as a little kid and told her they didn't want her because she was a girl, then they obviously didn't care about her. she said that since they still said terrible things to her everyday, then maybe it would be better if she didn't exist at all since nobody in this world seemed to care for her the way parents are supposed. Thankfully, she went to therapy and took some medication for her depression and anxiety, and has a better relationship with her parents after social worker intervention. Sorry, I got a bit off track, but my point is that you should never stop beating your child, because you shouldn't start in the first place.
Is it ok that I beat my children?
I beat my kids everyday. I cant help it. I try to be gentle to them but I end up beating them even worse. Every time i beat them they start crying histerically and then I beat them again which makes them cry even more. They tell me they are the only ones who get beaten by their parents. Why am I such a good call of duty player. I just dont understand it. I cant help it that I am better at them in call of duty. Is there a way for them to get better at it because me beating my kids is tearing my family apart.
I cant stop beating my wife....?
all of her friends say i should stop because it gets her down and depressed. i grew up watching my father beat my mother. it was like an inside joke in our family. like when will she get beat next? she has told all of her family and they think i should stop beating her because shes been down lately. but im used to the man being dominant in my family. and i want to stop because i love my wife more than anything. but it is such a thrill to beat her. i have never so excited as i am when im beating her. or especially right before i beat her. i dont see anything wrong with it. but all of her family and friends think i should stop. should i stop beating her at games? and maybe let her win every now and then?
How Do I Stop Myself From Beating My Dog!?
Oh..My..LORD.. SHE DOESN'T BEAT HER DOG. She just gets aggravated. That's like saying, "Oh sometimes I just wanna beat my child SENSELESS." You really don't want to hurt your kid, they just get on your nerves. Try taking your dog to training sessions, not where you send them off, but where you go up to three times a week so you can train yourself how to react in specific frustrating instances. Look up some dog training schools. (Ones that train dogs for "Come") Hope this helps.
Why can't I stop beating my dog?
I know it is a horrible thing to do, but I systematically beat my dogs and have done it to every pet I have ever had since I was a little kid...I feel so terrible every time I do it, but it's like I can't control it. And whenever i scare them and they run away from me, i just want to hurt them more. This awful rage and desire to hurt comes over me whenever I am around animals, and I don't know why. I know most of you will send me your hate, but will some you send advice/help/insights?
How bad was i to hit my children?
i am feeling really bad. this morning before school i got mad with my daughters- 9 and 7- over a very small issue (they keep loosing their hair clips and many talks, suggestions, punishments and tellings off later they still forget to return them to the box at the end of the day) and this morning my 9 year old told a small lie about where she had put them and insisted a pink one was hers when she had worn purple yesterday, then refused to go and look for it...the refusal made me angry and i started raising my voice and then when she 'mimicked' me, i grabbed hold of her hair and dragged her over to the box (in the kitchen cupboard) to look for the bobbles. She twisted away from me and shouted and i smacked her, around the face and told her to do as she was told. She then dramatically fell to the floor- hitting her own head on a drawer handle- sobbing. I felt really really angry with her and at this point very funny inside- heart beating fast, i was feeling very hot. Then my other daughter- age 7- came in and i asked her if she had brushed her teeth (i had already asked once and reminded her again that morning) and she said yes- then changed her mind to actually no- and with that i gave her a 'back handed' type smack around her head! I don't NORMALLY behave like this with them, and i am not having a stressful time in general. Usual punishments for my children involve a reduction in pocket money when they fail to do ask they are asked. Arguing between them usually involves removal of the activity or object causing the argument. I do find i often start to shout, but i have really been working on NOT shouting. however I do want to maintain disciplin and i am getting so frustrated because the hair clip issue has been going on for over a year and as they cost quite a lot of money (£3.50, thats $7 for 6 clips which they seem to loose as soon as they wear them, maybe a week before they are all gone) and they should be respecting their things. They don't usually 'loose' them- they take them out and then forget where they put them. They both have a pot in their bedrooms,and there is a box in the kitchen so they have plenty of places they can leave them and whilst it is a petty thing (its not like they are not doing homework, or swearing at school teachers or stealing!) it is still something that needs sorting. However i feel so guilty for smacking them and wondered if this is truly terible or if other parents find themselves behaving like this?