Should i tell my parents?
Personally i think that telling your parents is the best option. You are going to need their support regardless of how old you are, your mum will be able to help you if you need it. They may be mad but they will be angrier if you dont tell them and they find out from someone else. One thing is important though, both you and your boyfriend should be there when you tell them, this will show your parents that your boyfriend is there to support you and that you both accept that this is happening. If you show your parents that you and your boyfriend are a united front then they may see that you are more mature than they realised and they will be more open to supporting you rather than being mad at you.
Should i tell my parents??
I think you already know the answer to your question, you yourself said "my parents would be there for me 100%". This statement says it all. How do you think your parents would feel if you were missing, especially in another country? Do you have any idea what this would do to them? And how would you live in El Salvador? You are focusing on the here and now, you SHOULD be focusing on the future. At 16, I doubt that you could go to a foreign country, where you don't know the local customs, don't have family or friends, get a job that would support you, finish school, and eventually get married and have a kid , all the while you are worlds away from your parents. At the same time, your parents are contacting the local police, making themselves sick with worry, suffering a broken heart, getting search teams to locate you, etc... You sound like a smart girl, make the smart decision - discuss this with your parents. You may not like their response, but keep in mind that they are "THERE FOR YOU 100%" so they know what is best for you. You are 'blinded by love', and should do what your parents suggest. Believe me, many years from now you will think back to this time and thank your parents for their help.
Should I tell his parents?
I think you should tell his parent so they can take action to stop this dangerous behavior. It is better to have your friend be mad at you than to be attending his funeral because he accidentally overdosed (which is easy to do when there is not a doctor monitoring the effects of the med and prescribing the appropriate dosage and frequency relative to the person s age, body weight, symptoms, concurrent medications, etc) or visiting him in a juvenile detention because somebody other than his parents found him out and had him arrested. It takes a good friend to be willing to do the best thing even when it is difficult. He is very fortunate to have someone like you who is concerned enough to take action.
Should i tell my parents?
Yes, you should. It might be difficult and it might even be embarrassing, but this needs to be told. You find someone to tell whom you trust. If you're afraid or concerned about the reaction your parents may have, then ask someone else you trust to listen and help you through this initially. Let them know what happened first, and then ask them to support you as you share this with your parents. You need supportive people around you right now. I just want to let you know...don't you listen to any words that may try to batter you from the inside telling you that this is your fault or that you deserved it. Perhaps it wasn't wise to be there at that party and be drunk or whatever, but that doesn't change the truth that nothing you did caused you to deserve this. What happened to you was WRONG. You were VIOLATED. This was RAPE. This was NOT OKAY. That's the first thing you need to know. And you need people that you love to help you through this. If possible, you should also get an appointment with a doctor. This was trauma in the worst possible degree. My heart goes out to you and I am praying for you for healing and restoration.
How should I tell my parents?
First of all, most scholarships are NOT lump sums of money that go directly to you. Often times they are only payable to the college, the college bookstore, etc. Secondly, if you have earned a scholarship from some group and you then use it for something other than school, you may be doing something illegal. Third, if you go to college you will be able to get a good job and be able to afford plastic surgery without resorting to shady measures like using scholarship money. Fourth, surgery won't fix an unhappy person. Even though you may feel like 4 years have been an eternity and that you are adult enough to make these decisions, I recommend that you spend a little time on your own. Live a year without your parents and give yourself some time to discover yourself. Myself and so many friends were unhappy with things as teenagers. Then you go to college and a whole knew set of opportunities opens up. The classes are actually interesting, you meet new friends from all over the country and world, there are parties, intramural sports... the list goes on and on. College is a total BLAST! So, before you spend the money and have nothing to fall back on, go to school. If you're really still unhappy with your appearance then reconsider the surgery later. You have to be happy with the person inside or else you'll end up with a pretty face and a miserable existence. And getting a pretty face will not make you happy. Please, don't blow the college dough on plastic surgery and go have fun in college!
Should i tell my parents about this?
Moral trilemma for you here. On the one hand you have your faith in your brother. He may rap about it, but he may not actually be partaking in such stuff. I don't know him - that's your judgement to make. On the other hand you have the probability that your brother IS partaking in such stuff and you're worried about him. In this case, I'd talk to him directly. Tell him that you're not going to go to parents if he agrees to really think about what he's been doing, consider giving it up, and, why not go the whole hog - tell him you'll go to your parents if he doesn't give up the smoking and drugs, etc. On the third hand you go directly to your parents. Your brother never has to know you told them - they could find out directly from youtube for all he knows. This way you definitely get him into trouble, you perhaps risk police involvement, and he may have a permanent black mark as a result. It may just drive his doing it underground and achieve nothing. If I'm being truthful, it rests on your knowledge of your brother. If you know him to be the type never to smoke drugs, then trust him and leave it. If you think he could, or know that he does, try one of the other two. If he's the type to listen to the authorities, then take the third. If he's the type to listen to a caring sibling, take the second. If you want my opinion, I'd take the second. Not only do you stop him from doing it, (hopefully) you also save him from the repurcussions of doing it, and you feel really good about yourself for having helped him stop in the process. It's up to you. I hope this has helped. Craig.
Should I Tell My Parents?
No I don't think you should. I don't think you should have continued reading her emails after you found out what they were about either. I understand the curiosity of it though. Honestly, how old is your sister? Is she old enough to be having sex, regardless of your upbringing? If she's older than 18 I definitely would not say anything. It's her choice if she's choosing to have sex with someone she loves. But if she's young and you're concerned, maybe talk with her first? I don't know, this is a hard choice. You need to remember that it is her life, and I understand you might be disappointed yoru sister is not waiting for marriage to have sex, but at least she is having protected sex. I hope this helped a little bit. And I don't mean to sound rude, but you should stay out of your sisters business. I have an younger brother and if he went snooping and confronted me about something like this I would be very very upset. Remember that sexual feelings are natural, and I understand you were brought up Christian and have beliefs about waiting, but it's hard when you love somebody. Hopefully your sister is being careful and making logical decisions about what she's doing with her body. Goodluck, and don't be disapointed in your sister. What she's going through is normal, as is what you are too :)
What should I never tell my parents?
What a question and an ambiguous one at that.How can I know the answer without knowing the background and circumstances of yours or their lives?Can you get where I'm coming from? You are right!It's none of my business what you do or don't say to your parents. Until after the legal age of 18, of course.As an adult you have the right not to tell your parents anything you don't wish to. But do you want to have them in your life or not?However good or bad they have been they are your parents.They deserve your respect and kindness.As of course,so do you.Presumably they raised you OK?Certain more sensitive and personal stuff after the age of 18 is up to you. But they,your parents not strangers. They are your flesh and blood. Not ships that pass in the night.I lost both of mine very early on. My mother especially, and although it's fine now, there was a time I would do anything to have them back in my life. And I still miss them badly.On the other hand I have many friends who had very bad parents that caused a lot of harm and therefore don't blame can't blame- and can completely understand where they coming from.The only thing you need to be careful about is how well you know them, how you think they may react and how you think you would react knowing whatever it is you may or may not want to tell them and take it from there.Hope that helps.
Should I tell my parents about my grades?
You haven't said much about your parents expectations. Are you a straight A student? I presume you are undertaking higher education? College? University?I guess the perceived threat is important, also. Are you likely to lose your parents’ support? Do you fear they will look down on you, or degrade you? How will you suffer as a result of them knowing your grades?Preparation is the best method of defence. Anticipate their response. If it's bad news, be prepared for the disappointment and what they might say to you. Being your parents, be respectful whatever they say.If you are disappointed with your grades, evaluate your term and your work ethic. Was there anything that could be improved next term? Are there priorities that you must consider? Anything you need to cut back, or do more?If you know you have done your best, and you still didn't meet your goals, then celebrate the things you did well. Tell your parents any improvements you have made. Don't make empty promises, but tell them any steps you might take next term. Don't be so hard on yourself that you forget you're only human, and we can err. Look at your improvements and feel proud. Know you are unique, and that academic achievement isn't the only measure of a successful person. There is character, your creativity, your craftsmanship, and the way you treat others in your class and significant others. Some of the most successful entrepreneurs today didn't necessarily get straight ‘A’s’. Some even flunked school!All the best. Be strong and be courageous. You can do it. Whatever decision you make - do it with integrity and with the conviction it was the right thing for you to do.
Should I just tell my parents on their face that how much I hate them?
Before you do that, sit down and write down the reasons why you hate them. Make as long a list as you can. Then go back over the list. Are you to blame for any of the reasons?For instance, “I hate my parents because they won’t let me stay out past midnight.” Why won’t they do so? Did you crash their car? Did you repeatedly violate your curfews? Did you use their credit cards without permission? Did you get drunk on your parents’ wine?Or, “I hate my parents because they always think they’re right.” Well, there’s a reason for that. They’re older than you are, and they’ve lived through more. Have you worked for a living? Have you bought a house, raised children, started a business, dealt with customers? Do you buy all your own clothes and pay your own tuition? Unless you can say yes to all those things, your parents have a leg up on you in the wisdom department.Make sure that you are absolutely, 100% blameless for any of the reasons why you hate your parents.Let’s say it’s all their fault. Then, before you talk to them, think of any reasons why they might be acting in a way that you don’t like.Has your dad had any problems at work? For instance, have some of his co-workers been laid off and he’s worried about keeping his job? Or, has your mom had issues in the company she started? Maybe prices went up on something she regularly orders, and she’s trying to figure out how to make up the difference?Are either of them sick? That can cause people to act in ways that might seem unusual. Are they worried about another family member, perhaps your grandparents or one of your siblings?Don’t say anything that might hurt them, unless you’ve given it a good think.