Should I Tell Him Before Summer Break

Is it better to ask my crush out before or after summer break?

Stop strategizing and just ask her. All this strategizing, trying to figure out the best time to do it. You know the best time? NOW! Always NOW! Tomorrow is never guaranteed. You may be gone, she may be gone.You have an opportunity, take it! Not just in asking women on dates, but everywhere in life. Take that advice and you will go far.I know you may be waiting until you’re comfortable, or the best chances she’ll say yes. You know what’ll have her say yes? Confidence. The confidence to do it NOW instead of later, the courage to be afraid and ask anyway, the confidence to ask her out even if you don’t know exactly how to do it, or she might even say “no”.And she might say no. And then you move on and ask someone else.

It's summer break and I can't see my crush anymore. What should I do?

Read books. Lift weights. Find hobbies. Travel. Make money. Play sports. Learn something. Spend time with friends and family…Chances are, if none of these resonated with you, you’ve made your crush your world. And don’t find any of the above as appealing as spending even one minute with your one “love”.I’m sure I won’t be the only one to break it to you, but there are hundreds, thousands (and maybe even millions) of other things you can be doing.Now, I’m aware I may have missed your point. But the above is a preface to what I am going to say below…You’re most likely asking what you should do in regards to your crush, now that she’s gone.And I’ll give you the answer…Talk to other girlsYou’re being too needy and desperate for her. And you certainly like her more than she likes you… You’re putting in more effort than she is trying to talk to you… You’d put away everything just for her, but she probably wouldn’t go even a mile for you.I’ll even go as far as to say while she’s on vacation, you’ll be spending every second thinking about her, but you won’t even pop up in her mind (unless you have her number and chat with her)How do I know?Because your crush isn’t going on the internet and asking the same question as you.So again, go talk to other girls. And stop focusing on just one girl who isn’t even going to be around.You’ve already put yourself in a weak position because of you’re neediness.Learn from this mistake and go forth with a new girl.

Should I tell my crush I like her, before she leaves for the summer this friday or wait until she gets back in 3 months?

Whilst I am usually on board with Karen Tiede on such matters, this time I suggest you wait. I fear this is a good chance that the idea will be rejected because its such short notice, no time to think about it, and why add an additional burden to a 3 month vacation. I believe what happens next is what is most important and a 3 month separation is not a good next. Give yourself the best chance for success and that is when you’re both together. Presumably you can communicate over the summer and build your friendship.

My boyfriend wants to break up before summer begins since he's leaving to college, he feels it will hurt more if we spend summer together because we will be more attached but I don't believe in this. What do I do?

Break up with him.His mind is already made up. You can’t ‘unmake’ it; I mean by that the thought is in his mind, that is what he wants—breaking up.I agree that his excuse is not even an excuse but his message is clear: no matter what, he will leave you, that’s what he wants.The nice thing from him is that he is trying to spare you more pain—he already knows he wants to enter collage with a fresh start and being single.So break it off with him now. For yourself. You deserve someone else; someone who will appreciate you and will want to be with you! Don’t waste any more time with this person.

How can I motivate my child to do a little schoolwork over summer break?

I’ve been a teacher for 30 years and each child is motivated differently. But I know that most every child responds to a parents presence as he does his schoolwork. If a parent sits with him, is available to help him, and pays only attention to him, he will thrive. Half an hour a day, he does his homework with you. Time and time again I have seen it work.if a parent would have him read out loud for 15 minutes most every day, he will become a reader. It’s the interest and the presence of a parent makes it a fun time for both. Boring? Maybe…but worthwhile.One more ore word of advice. Parents, turn off your cell phone. This is time for the two of you.