Our friendship is like a rollercoaster :(?
My best friend and I have know each other for a while now. But lately we've been fighting every other day were nagging at each other for something! And shes ALWAYS trying to make me jealous with her other friends by linking arms with them and laughing historically cause she thinks it bothers me. Also when I hang out with my friend she gets a cocky attitude and gets rude.and Shes always mad for no reason. And I dont know why, but lately the smallest things get me in a crappy mood too. I dont know what to do. I love her like a sister but we've just been falling apart. I need help. Soon I dont want our friendship to end.
I love roller coasters but my girlfriend is terrified of heights how can she over come her fears?
Making her go on with will not get rid of her fear of heights, it will just make it worse. If you want her to enjoy going to the park, don't make a big deal out of her not going on. She can decide for herself if she wants to go on or not. She can have fun doing other things and low height rides. If you guys point out to her just how much fun she is missing out on, or try to talk her into it, she may not go to the park at all. I got talked into going on the Superman ride at Six Flaggs, and being extremely afraid of heights, it was the worst thing ever done. Three years later, and I'm still not over it.
Why does my girlfriend have a rollercoaster sex drive?
my have a problem with my girlfriend of about a year...im 23 shes 21 we get along great and we are together the majority of the day and most of the nights besides the nights we go out with our own friends for a few hours the problem is for about 2 weeks we will have sex 2 or 3 times a day and then it just comes to a stop for about 3 weeks she wants nothing to do with it then everything goes back to normal we both have pretty bad rosters when it comes to how many people we slept with in the past and im not a jelous guy i just feel for the time she doesnt want sex its a guilty concious on her part, when i do try to initiate it she always comes up with shes sick and doesnt feel good am i just over analyzing this or does this suspect there is someone else on the side?
Whats the scariest roller coaster ride you have ever ridden?
It ain't a roller coaster, but it was that one ride Supreme Scream, that scared the **** outta me. I don't think I ever yelled so loud in my life! I had my eyes closed while we were going up and I had thought that we reached the top, so I opened my eyes....BIG MISTAKE. When I saw how high up we were I started screamin and hollerin, beggin them to stop the ride I wanna get off, I don't wanna die. Mmmmm. I screamed myself hoarse. After that ride I could hardly talk my voice was so hoarse, my legs were like jello. I love roller coasters and scary rides, but that one did me in. I was done. I never went back on that ride.
Scared of riding a rollercoaster. Help :(?
Hi. im phil. I was also afraid of riding roller coasters when i was your age. now, i love them. the honest truth is that you are more likely to get hurt while taking a bath than you are riding a roller coaster. the rides are designed by experts in physics. The design for the ride goes through a series of safety tests before the ride is even built. still after all that testing, the rides still go through test runs, every morning every train or car of a coaster must run once empty and once with an employee riding. Maintenance works all night checking and approving all rides for operation the next day. Without their signature we could not run the ride at all. As for the safety restraints, they are also designed specifically for that ride and to accommodate any rider. Before they start the ride, trained employees manually check each and every safety restraint to make sure you are secured and safe. There is nothing to worry about. Downtime and E-stops are fairly common on roller coasters so DO NO FREAK OUT if a ride stops while you are on it. This happens daily on some rides. You will be unloaded or continue the ride ASAP. If a ride goes down while you are in line don't be afraid to ride it. People always assume something serious is wrong with it but it is often just an out of place proxy (the little sensors that monitor where the trains are) or something like that. It may also mean that a guest needs to be taken off the train for security reasons.
How do I convince my friend to ride roller coasters with me if he's afraid of them?
My story is similar to David's, but I am the son who was terrified of large roller coasters for my entire childhood.I was OK with "easier" rides like Space Mountain and such at Disneyland even as a young child, but large drops made me uneasy and I was exceptionally scared of anything that went upside down.My parents tried everything to get me to try bigger rides: bribing, threats, etc. Nothing worked. My fear overrode all reason and I would rather be in trouble or miss out on a reward than face it.During a trip to Great America in 8th grade I managed to work up the courage to ride The Grizzly (a wooden coaster), but that was all and I spent most of the day alone while my friends rode Top Gun, Demon and other thrill rides. Even their peer pressure and scorn wasn't enough. It wasn't until Senior Ditch Day when I heard some friends were going to Six Flags Magic Mountain that I made up my mind that my fear of roller coasters was irrational and I needed to get over it. So, I asked to go with them and resolved to ride everything.And I did. We hit The Viper first, and I was instantly and irrevocably hooked, and rode almost every ride in the park. The exceptions were Batman, Riddler and Deja-vu. I exceeded the maximum height for Deja-vu and the restraints on Riddler and Batman would not close fully due to a combination of torso height and girth.The moral of the story: You are unlikely to convince your friend to relinquish his fear. He has to decide to overcome it on his own. If that happens, he may lean on you for courage, but nothing you do can "force" him to face his fear.
What makes you feel your life is like a rollercoaster ride?
Your boss says she’s impressed with you. You grin. Yeah. You’re impressive. The next day she finds what you did disappointing. Your heart sinks. This sucks. You suck.You’re up. You’re down. Surely the way to stop this is to get everything perfect.You finally realize something essential: your boss gushing or your boss disenchanted has nothing to do with you. The only way off the roller coaster is to not let her disapproval – or approval – affect you.This is hard. It’s taken me years. I fall off the wagon, but can tell you that sometimes I’m told I’m awesome and know I didn’t do my best, and sometimes my boss doesn’t know what I’m working on and I know I accomplished something enormous.I love approval - but the measure of my work is me.Then there's the relationship roller coaster. The guy who tells you he's into you. He very much wants to hang out.Except, when you make yourself available, he’s not. Because, it’s complicated. You understand (you really do) and retreat and he’s back, persistent, filled with regret. You make yourself available. He’s gone.Surely the way to fix this is to do it right. If you get it perfect, this thing that feels special may stand a chance.It finally hits you: that both the interest and lack of interest have nothing to do with you. He’s going through whatever, and as justified and understandable as this whatever may be, the one on the roller coaster is you.The way off is to cease to engage.Roller coasters are particularly dangerous for those who rode roller coasters during their upbringing, because we interpret drama as love. That's the hook. It's hard to create healthy relationships: the absence of drama feels like a lack of interest. Roller coasters feel like a fix, but you know what? They are not healthy.You deserve better than something that isn’t good for you. You have to go. Your departure has nothing to do with him. This is about you, and what you want for yourself.
How do I put to an end a roller coaster relationship with a girl?
Coming from a fellow Brozone victim, here is my advise. Usually I would have said to propose to her so you don't have any regrets but with your religion differences you wont be able to marry.( if parents aren't willing to marry her to the bf your chances are less than him ). Here is what you do:1) Delete her number because as long it's on your phone sooner or later your gonna contact her. Block her on both on whatsapp and Fb if she tries to contact you. 2) Concentrate on your life, people or job or studies.3) Move on, she was a bad fish but there are plenty in the sea and you will find the right one.P.S Next time she contacts do not reply. Take a deep breath and remember You are your best friend and this is best for you. Repeat to yourself THIS IS BEST FOR ME.Comment here whatever you decide.
I have fallen in love with one of my best friends who already has a boyfriend. Should I tell her and risk our friendship or wait to eternity for her breakup?
I agree with Bhaskar. Nevertheless I would also like to add this: you can try only if she says that she is unhappy in her relationship with the guy. If that is the case listen her out. Support her through that tough time, not because you are pursuing her; but because you are her friend first. See how it goes with them. If they are able to pull it off together again, leave her alone for a while and try finding peace elsewhere. If they fall apart please don't hit on her straight away. She will be vulnerable, make her feel protected and comforted. After some time you can gently provide subtle hints that you like her. Watch how she reacts, if it is positive, go out have fun dating. If she isn't ready, then my friend; you can't force your emotions on her. Phew. If you're ready for all this, all the best buddy. You are in for a bumpy emotional rollercoaster. Hope everyone is happy at the end. :)