How to stop being friends with your best friend?
So I've been best friends with this girl for about a year....and I used to love her.now she is just a ***** to me all the time and brings me down ...she says she doesn't to that when I try to talk to get about it but I still always feel bad...she gets pissed off at me at the littlest things...ugh and we have totally different personalities ...we'll we've had some god memories but I'm getting real tired of her and I don't want us to stop being friends completely ,just not as close you know ,we hangout about everyday and all we ever do now is piss each other off. I still want to be friends, but how to I break it to her I don't want to be her " best friend" anymore? I'm thinking of ignoring her a lot then we can drift apart a bit.but I might end up regretting it,oh well I'm just getting tired of her bs and being treated like **** from her...comment what you think I should do?D:
How do I stop being friends with my best friend? We have been friends for years but nowadays all she does is hurt my feelings and make me feel humiliated, I still love her but I just can’t deal with the constant rudeness anymore.
You should talk to her about it if you have any desire to save the friendship. If she doesn’t change, you should start making friends with others and cut the time you spend with her. If she feels guilty, she will probably pull away when confronted anyway.Often the friends we make when we are young don’t last, because we don’t know how to be good friends. Be the kind of friend you wish she was, and move forward.
Should I stop being friends with my best friend?
So, here's the story. We've only been friends for almost 3 years but it has always been like we were meant to be. I could describe our relationshioship like.. Fusional relationship? We shared everything. All our thoughts. Our belongings, our friends. Everything. We were always together. But... I think it's been several months... That everything started to be awful between us... My friend just gets on my nerves. I can't do anything with someone else without her getting jealous. Buts he never includes me when she does things, even with people i knew before her. I once dated someone and she was jealous that i spent time with my datemate. She never includes me in group things and when I want to include her she never wants to. But she likes to invite herself. So... we have this group of friends and she's always doing things with them behind my back. They never tell me they're doing things. I can't even just stop being friends with her because she knows everyone I know and they love her. Even more than they love me because i'm often the bad one in our duo. Like she's the one who's the angel. Everyone would hate me for hurting her if we end our relationship. Like some already hate me because she talked to them about the issues we have and of course i'm the bad one... Also I'd terribly miss her if I ended everything. I feel stuck... I would feel even more lonely if everyone leaves me because of that... I don't know what to do...
Should I stop being friends with my best friend of ten years?
Sure why not. Everyone stops being friends sooner or later. Might as well get it over with. You know what the problem with this question is? You don’t give a reason for why you want to stop being friends or why you think you should stop. You sound like a budding sociopath learning how to act insensitive and careless of people’s feelings.
My girlfriend wants me to stop being friends with my best female friend. Should I?
In my past experience with adult clients and hearing their stories, this is a classic test. Will you obey or won’t you, essentially.Let’s give your girlfriend the benefit of the doubt. Let’s say she genuinely doesn’t understand your relationship with your female bestie and it’s easier for her to ask you to stop being friends. This is generally a more lazy, adolescent approach. Most adult women would approach you about this directly and try to understand these types of close interpersonal relationships in your life and adapt accordingly.Of course, you’re not going to stop being friends with your best friend just because a girlfriend told you to. That being said, let me dig a little deeper with you here…Have you had any sort of physical relationship with your best friend that your girlfriend may be aware of?If the answer is YES, your girlfriend has every right to be skeptical of this relationship as it is much more complicated than just a “best friend” connection and you should consider honoring her request.If the answer is NO, I would kindly describe to her the full nature of your relationship to her, acknowledge that you understand her female *primitive* concern and that this other woman is far from a threat to her and your romantic relationship with your girlfriend, and finally that based on those items, you feel it’s an unfair and unrealistic request.
My best friend doesn't make any effort...Should I stop being friends?
I have been best friends with her for about 4 years. She started dating a guy 2 years ago. I don't like this guy and she knows that. He is a little flirt, and he gropes other girls. Anyways. Lately for about 6-7 months now are friendship has died down. I have been the only one making effort to contact her, or ask her to hangout with me. I have to initiate the conversation between us. When we hang out it's all the same. Boring and she's uninterested. Not that she's any help trying to make it better. Her motto "I don't care." Literally. Where do you want to go? "I don't care." What movie? Do you want to do this, or do you want to do that? "I don't care." It drives me insane. I mean I wish she would put in some effort into this friendship. I have a couple of other friends that I spend more of my time with now-a-days (they're guys). I invite her all the time to come hangout with his, and its somewhat of the same. But I have fun because its not just me. Sometimes she seems to wrapped up in her relationship. Her boyfriend has got her under his spell. And she hangs out with other friends...then she has a better time. Maybe its just me? I am no good..huh? I feel that I am the opposite in some cases. Like I am a bit more mature than she is. I am too caring, and I tend to be more into getting things done...worrying about things etc. I'm not exactly sure what I am asking...I still want to be friends, but its complicated..
Best Friend stopped being friend what should I do!?
I had been best friend with this guy named Jared for a good year now,He lives in a different state from me. then all of sudden he takes me, my girlfriend and my room mate off of his MySpace friends list. I begin to think OK that is strange so I called him many many times, unfortunately he only had his friends answer the phone for him, who I might say were all pricks to me. He block me from his AIM. So one day finally get talk to him and he say he does not want be my friend anymore because he do not believe in ghosts. ( It is s omething I am very interested in) He say I am insane for believe in ghost and that he believe ghost can only be seen after death, and that I should not believe they be seen otherwise. So I tell him why should we not be friends because of ghosts? I call again and again he not talk to me one bit. Even on my birthday last week he refuse to speak to me. What should I do?
Can I ask my very good friend to stop being friends with someone else who used to bully me?
That right there……damn…..I swear to god, if I could have done that in college, I’d have probably turned out normal.But I’ve since gotten wiser and figured some stuff out. More often than not, your pal knows what’s up. In the rare case that your pal doesn’t know what’s up, you’re going to loose your pal anyway. (Heads up, yes you will….) Because logically speaking, why would your bully decide to become pals with your pals.A reformed bully will not do that, and if they’re going to do that, they’ll first talk to you, and make sure it’s all cool first.So…urm….get another very good pal……someone nicer.