(HELP!!) Should I tell my best friend how I feel?
I wish i had a friendship like that with my bestfriend. You are special to have her. Go ahead tell her how you feel at the dinner. But tell her to be honest. If she doesn't like you like that don't feel bad, you still have a perfect friendship to fall back on. I secretly like my bestfriend too. But when i finally decided to tell her it was too late. She already knew her boyfriend was the perfect person for her to be with. I lost my chance when she was single. So go ahead. I hope she feels the same way about you.
I feel that I need my friends more than they need me?
I will go out of my way to help a friend or hang out with a friend, even if it means making a sacrifice myself, and yet none of my friends (even my best friends and my sisters) are willing to do much sacrifice for me. It makes me feel very unworthy because I don't feel like anyone cares for me as much as I care for them.
What should one say to a friend who is feeling sad?
Usually all you can do is let them know that you are there for them and will listen if they want to talk about it. What you CAN'T do is tell them why they shouldn't be sad, or that the reason for their sadness is unimportant. That will make them feel worse.
I have no friends and I feel very sad and lonely. What can I do?
It appears that you think you're sad and lonely because you don't have any friends. That's probably not true, though.What's probably true is that you don't have any friends because you're sad and lonely.It's also possible that there's something else about you that is pushing people away. I don't know. I know that, in my case, I have very few friends and spend a lot of time alone, but I'm not at all sad or lonely.How does it happen? No one can know for certain except you and the people you hang around. Would it be possible to contact some people who used to hang with you and no longer do? Just ask them. Tell them they have nothing to lose by being honest with you. And be grateful for their feedback.Maybe you'll have another question to ask Quora soon.
Best friend lost virginity, I feel sad?
Girl i tottally understand you the same exact situation happened and i was really mad at her not so much sad... and i think you should tell her how hurt you are.. and to me if you are besties and you have always talked about everything that shouldnt stop when it comes to her having sex. and dnt think of it as her putting you second.. just try to put yourself in her position at that time it could have been peer pressure whether he is the intimidating kind or not.. plus she is 15 so hormones may have been raging all at once whether she wanted to or not her body obviously wanted it ( if you get what i mean) so be kinda light on her and dnt stress yourself out over her problem okay! :)
Is it normal to feel sad when best friend leaves?
We are together almost every day, and as soon as she leaves after staying or is hanging out I always feel so sad and empty and I miss her. Is this because we are so attached to each other and close? Why does this happen?
Should I tell my friends that I feel really sad and lonely?
I don’t know. Are you ready to discover they don’t really care?I only had one good friend growing up. He knew about the violence and rapes. He knew more than anyone else my home life wasn’t good. It got worse as I got older. I couldn’t cope. I came to him absolutely beside myself. I was fighting the suicidal urge that washed over me when things got rough. It’s not rational. It’s C-PTSS. People who undergo extensive sexual and physical abuse don’t want to be drama-queens. We are really falling apart. It’s not indulgence. It’s terror. I hope you aren’t feeling that desperate. But feeling bad to any degree makes us long to connect.He told me he didn’t want to hear about it. Told me I was in my 20’s and I should knock it off. It was annoying to him. My best friend since 7th grade.I didn’t mean a thing to him.I understand now how trying broken people can be. The thing is, it wasn’t just that one day. It’d been like that all along. I had to pretend to be happy to just have this one friend. I never understood why spending the day with him left me utterly exhausted.I know there’s a lot of room to define the word ‘friend’. I understand now that almost all ‘friends’ are really acquaintances. The onerous of any deep emotions is often too much for these flimsy relationships to bear.Make sure they really are true friends, and not just people who want to keep you on their friend list.
My friend just moved and I feel so sad and depressed, what can I do?
Oh man I’m so sorry!! That must be really rough! How far away did the friend move? I have some super close friends, and I know I would feel the same way if they had to move away. There are things to do, though, to limit the pain! Thanks to technology, you can stay in contact with your friend in a myriad of ways! Use it to your advantage as much as possible, without letting your communication become shallow or hollow like it so often can become over text. Good ole fashion phone calls work really well to stay personal and in touch! One of my best friends actually lives 1000 miles down the coast from me, so this is what we do. Don’t feel like you need to call every week though; just be consistent in what you do end up doing! (my friend and I call once a month and text inbetween when we have something to share) :)Also, find ways to visit once or twice a year if possible! I flew down this spring for that friend’s birthday. I arranged it so it was a total surprise, and then I stayed for almost a week!!! It was fantastic! Your friendship can actually grow deeper with this friend if you are willing to put a little extra effort and money into keeping the relationship! The distance just makes the times you do have together that much sweeter!
Is it okay to feel sad if all my best friends forget my birthday or should I feel good that I know beforehand that no one is going to be by my side when I need them?
Birthday Wishes and people being there when you need them, are both totally different. I find it irrelevant to link the two. Like my birthday recently got over and 2 of my friends called and wished me and 2 more Whatsapped me. Funny part is that all the four are hardly acquaintances and I probably won't think of them in case of emergency.That day I spend the entire afternoon untill late evening with 2 of my closest friends and neither of them wished me. All 3 of us stay in different cities and hence I wouldn't be calling them for emergency though. There's another set of 5-6 friends, who meet regularly and nor did they wish me. Now you may say, may be I'm not a good friend. But these guys have been there for me through the thick and thin of my life. So the point I was trying to make was that Birthday is just another day. To be blunt with you, what is the guarantee that you were born on DD/MM/YYYY and not on ED/MN/YYYY? So many people don't even know their birthdays. Like my uncle, on paper he is 2 years older than in reality, is what he claims. This was done so that he could join school early and began to work earlier. Now he isn't happy about it, as he would be retiring from the Government Service 2 years earlier.Hence stop worrying and try to bring a small positive change for someone who is lesser privileged than you are. Make the year ahead better than the previous one.