Why do only younger guys approach me?
Perhaps it's part of you. I'm assuming that the guy you divorced is older than you, or you wouldn't be asking this. Some guys (and gals for that matter) just seem to be born with "old souls"...they are attracted to older people of the opposite sex, and it is in turn reciprocated because they sense this. I know this to be the case because it has been a pattern in my life. Chances are they are truly interested. Guys that are attracted to older women aren't looking for a mommy, they are looking for someone who has experienced life and do not need to be pretensious about who they are, what they want, and what they like. As you say, you were "just curious"...not annoyed, frustrated, etc. So chances are you have it in you to be with a younger man.
Are there any hot girls who don't get approached by guys?
My best friend from high school is gorgeous.Drop dead gorgeous. I’m quite pretty myself, but if I went anywhere with her, all of the attention was always on her, I didn’t exist. Guys would approach her everywhere we went and mostly ignore me because she is so beautiful.Guys approached her at Starbucks. Men tried to talk to her when we went to the pool. She was hit on at every bar we went to. Men would even approach her at restaurants. The stream of men coming on to her was endless, and she loved every second of it. It got kind of annoying.Two years ago, she got married. They really love each other and they had a baby together almost immediately. However, her genetics are so good she still has abs after her first baby. She’s still breathtaking.Over the summer, I went out dancing with her. We went to a two-stepping bar in Houston, Texas. Not a single man approached her to dance. Nobody looked at her. Just two years ago men had swarmed at her at every angle in the same bar. I could tell she was upset. She wanted to leave.My best friend didn’t get any less gorgeous, one thing changed. She stopped acting available. She used to smile at every man she saw. She used to make eye contact with every guy she found attractive. She used to laugh and dance and invite men over to talk to her.She stopped acting available. My best friend was now happily taken and that made all the difference.Being hot doesn’t get men to approach you. Being available does.Sure, a certain level of attractiveness is needed for a man to initially take interest. But, some of the most average girls I know pull the most men I’ve ever seen just because they act so available.
Why don't girls ever approach guys?
I have asked out 13 girls in my life, all 13 said no and a few were mean about it and the next day the whole world seem to know what i had done. Also many 1000's of girls online have said no. As a result I have not approached or asked out girls since then. I will not let myself be rejected and let women feel all the power as the rejector. It feels emasculating and I feel worthless, angry and suicidal for months, sometimes years afterwards. So, why don't girls approach or ask guys out? Do you have to be exceptionally handsome guy or something for that to happen? The common reasons I get from girls why they don't approach guys are - fear of rejection - don't want to appear desperate - shy Well, don't you think guys feel the same, ladies? Especially appearing desperate. Also men are seen as sexual predators or creeps, whilst women are not.
Do attractive guys get approached? I know I'm attractive. I catch girls checking me out but am rarely approached. I guess I'm just wondering what goes through a female's mind.
I am not an attractive guy but I had one bizarre experience while chatting with buddies on Facebook. I accepted one friend request of an unknown girl and we had a conversation.It is something like this :Girl: HiMe: Hey, How are you doin’ ?*********Casual conversation with literally no meaning *********After 20 mins chat she finally dropped the bomb :)She: Do you have a GF?Me: Nope , I don’t ,neither I ever had .*** 4–5 mins casual chat***She: I will actually never forgive you for what you did.Me: Film plot of *I know what you did last summer* popped in my head and literally it created a montage of all devil deeds of mine but still managed and replied “ What?”She: You did wrong to my sister .Me: Can’t understand , please clarify .She: You are cheating on my sister . My sister told me that you are her BF and you cooking some different story.Me: Wtf? (In my mind I was trying to figure who can be that girl though I literally don’t have a Gf neither I had one back at that time. )She: I will tell her that you are not loyal unless you don’t accept it right now.Me: Who is your sister?She: You better guess.Me: I was about to inundate her with the flow of names , but restrained myself as I smelt some wrong in it.*****She kept on doing this drama for next few minutes . As I was in real dubious condition ,had no enough balls to cut the conversation out without knowing the reality behind it*************** She tried to make this a real one by pretending to tell me some of my own information that she projected to hear from her sister******After few minutes we had real argument and I quit .She: I was just kidding I don’t have a sister . When you said you don’t have a Gf , I never been able to eat it so I did this to you to know the truth as I still believe a cute guy like you should have a Gf.Me: **Speechless**(P.S: All the info she told me to make it believable were really open for show to my Facebook friends)Most probably it was my FACEBOOK Profile picture that time.
If men never approach me, does that mean I am ugly?
Definitely not. I used to wonder this question myself. It took me years before I was approached by men but I've been told almost all my life that I'm attractive or beautiful, but guys never came knocking down my door or more the ones I wanted didn't. Another thing is women can be more intimidating than we realize. Men are terrified of us, especially if they are attracted to us. They may spend a whole semester admiring you from afar but can't work up the courage to approach you, so you'll never know.“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” in other words beauty is subjective. I don't know what you look like but I doubt you're unattractive. Nobody is unattractive, someone is always beautiful to somebody. What's beautiful to one man could not even register in another; one man melts for a woman with freckles but for another it's the waviness of her hair that makes his knees buckle. Does it make one a more attractive quality than the other? I don't think so. Or maybe one girl’s laugh makes a guy cringe but is the reason another fell in love with her. Is her laugh ugly? Men may initially be caught by a physical quality but it's everything else about that will keep them (the right ones) coming.The way you feel about yourself will show through the way you carry yourself which will affect the way others will see you. I thought I was unattractive so I most likely carried myself as such for a majority of my life. I wouldn't be drawn to someone who I didn't think liked themselves. Humans like confidence, it's a fact. When I realized I was making my own energy and it didn't depend on others’ opinions I started carrying myself differently and began to see different results. I still work at it, it takes time. Maybe you are confident in yourself and this isn't an issue :) but with your question there is a sense of doubt and perhaps you're young. Don't doubt yourself. Let your light shine and the ones with the proper rights will see it and come to you. No woman is unattractive to all men. Physical qualities aren't the only things that count or matter.Who knows, one day a man may approach you in the most unexpected way in the most unexpected place.
Are guys too scared to approach a pretty girl?
Does it depend on the place and who they are with? Like a wedding, would a guy approach a pretty girl that is dancing alone and seems single or would they be cautious? What would you do so guys would approach you?
Why would a guy not approach a really pretty girl, and instead go for ones who are less pretty?
Because pretty girls usually know they are pretty.And this is what causes the problem for boys. Girls that know they are pretty develop an attitude that is really hard to overcome for a guy and the fear of rejection is therefore too great.In comparison, girls that are ‘less pretty’ usually have to go out and be social as well, since they might also be searching for a good looking guy themselves. This makes them more open and sociable, as they will occasionally also walk up to someone in order to get what they want.The prettiest girls are used to guys walking up to them, and being able to ‘pick’ the finest looking guy they can find, and this gives them an attitude of arrogance, ignorance or generally being uninterested. And that is precisely what boys are NOT looking for.What ultimately decides that guys walk up to ‘less pretty’ girls before approaching the hottest girl in the room is the fear of rejection. Especially during puberty and adolescent life, this truly is one of the worst feelings for both boys and girls. Since the ‘less pretty girls’ are less likely to reject the avarage guy in a disturbing way, boys will choose to approach them first!
What is it about Singaporean men that many Singaporean women would rather remain unattached than date them?
I’ve stayed + worked at Singapore & with Singaporean friends for many years, and here’s my outsider’s observation:Singaporean guys grew up too pampered - noticed how there are too many overgrown mommy’s boys even as they approach 30? I’m shocked and sadden to see this - Dear moms, your boys will one day be men, so give them a chance to learn life while they’re young and stop treating them like your human toy pet.Singaporean guys are excellent online but most disappoint when face to face with girls. Write cheesy pick up lines can be prepared in advance & referred from Google, but no Google can teach you better than to actually meet a lady and be down to earth. Unfortunately, many choose to “replace”, when they should be “face”ing their problems.Singaporean guys wants to get laid. Admit it, it’s no secret as Singapore has a very open culture. But Singaporean girls wants to love, too. Ideally it’s a compromise, but due to #2 as above, most end up switching instead of staying. It would help great to be honest and tactful on this matter….with oneself.Singaporean guys thinks being a boyfriend is literally best friend that is a boy, but actually Singaporean girls wants boyfriend to be their one and only man. Big gap there, between expectation and reality. Fill it up with some Singapore Laksa or some goddamn self improvement!Lastly, Singapore being safe meant all guys become old, but few boy actually become men. Maybe that’s also why Ah Boy to Men is very well received - because deep down, everyone knows it’s true.Don’t hate, I’m just sharing my observation & personal opinion.Anyway, guys - here’s some tips:Be a gentleman. Class is permanent.Stay overseas for a few years to see life beyond Singapore’s reality.Train yourself to wear the shoes of a man, and train yourself to be attractive to the ladies.That’s all.Took me years of meeting women & understand myself to see things much clearer nowAnyone have their own personal experience similar to mine above?Do share in comment section, I would love to hear it too!If you like my writings, do Follow me & I’ll contribute more to Quora community :)