My best friend is being abused by her dad?
TELL YOUR DAD.
Scared of haunted houses, please help?
Every year a bunch of the people from my school go to this haunted hayride. They always talk about how much "fun" it is or how "scary" it was. Or it wasn't that scary. And this and that person was so scared and it was hilarious. But, I am in the 8th grade and I am 13 years old and I have been easily scared of haunted houses. I'm not claustrophobic or anything but I hate the feeling of being like "stuck inside a haunted house" and just wanting to leave and knowing i have to keep going through it and being scared. Like last year, my friend and I went to a very small haunted house at my church. I knew most of the people there! LIke one of them I hang out with at school all the time! And I was terrified! I screamed, I cried, it was a disaster. So, this year my friends have insisted that I go. And I kinda want to to go to know what it's like. There's a hayride, a corn maze, a haunted house, and an alien invasion. I don't think I will go in the haunted house. But, I heard they are allowed to touch you and I've never been in a place where they could. And, I heard people pop out at you and chase you with a chainsaw in the cornmaze. And that if you loook like you r scared, they'll bother you more. So, I'm trying to get over the EXTREME fear over haunted houses and such. ** SO I KNOW YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE SCARED IN A HAUNTED HOUSE. BUT HOW DO I NOT ACT SCARED AND MAYBE NOT BE SO SCARED TO THE POINT WHERE I'LL CRY?! How do I just have fun? I hate the feeling of missing out on these things and I already promised my friends that I would go. -p.s some people say sing a song but I can't do that. Cuz if I'm singing and someone like scares me, it'll be even worse because I didn't expect it. thanks in advance<3
What is it like to find out one of your parents cheated on your other parent?
In my case it happened when I was 13. My stay-at-home mom had shared her suspicions at some points with me, I thought her dramatic. I was a daddy’s girl, I didn’t think much of it then. My dad was a responsible man, he always seemed so focused in duty and family, I’d never suspected.One night they had a terrifying screaming match and then there was a very tense silence. Next thing I know my mom slammed their door open and came to my room to ask me to go and listen to something my father had to tell me. He confessed he had been unfaithful and apologized, I listened and then I told him to pack his thing and leave. Mom was histerical, crying so hard she fainted and my crying father had to pick her up and put her in bed. It was a disaster.Ultimately, she decided to tell him he could stay at the couch. She thought about the situation and decided to forgive him, with some conditions.The whole incident changed our family dynamics completely. Where my dad used to be in charge of important decisions, money and discipline, after all that my mom became the only authority.As for me, I initially was shocked about my perceived image of a ‘perfect family’ and ‘dutiful father’ being torn, then I got cold and angry, I spent years hell bent in giving him the cold shoulder as revenge and being my mom’s self proclaimed protector. Eventually, thanks to my mom’s efforts, I forgave him.As you asked about difference the age factor makes, in my case I was starting puberty, and the cheating thing resulted in changes to my character. It made me less naive, and rather realistic… I don’t expect much from people, and always foresee the worst possibilities of every situation as to not be too surprised. I guess it made me distrustful. As time passed I came to accept such things as cheating can’t be prevented, just as other people can’t be controlled. Even so, I don’t think I could forgive cheating.
I got my period and I'm afraid to tell my mom?
just be like my stomach hurts. act normal like you dont know why. later on like if ur gonna take a shower just come out of the bathroom and be like i found out why my stomach hurts. just give her a minute to process it and she will figure it out. thats what i did and it wasnt very awkward. but remember she went through the same thing and she probably didnt want to tell her mom but she had to. you will have to do it at some point so you might as well just get it over with
How do i tell mum that i am scared of asteroids?
Hi. This may seem stupid but I have a massive fear of outer-Space. I have a Anxiety Disorder, and I see a psychologist, but i have trouble opening up to him about what brings on most of my panic attacks. I haven't told my mum that most of my panic attack comes from thinking about outer-space like asteroids, 2012 end of the world, blackholes. I am scared that an asteroid will hit Earth and will kill everyone. I know that NASA watches the sky to detect asteroids but if one was on a collision course with Earth and was going to kill everyone NASA would hide it to avoid us from panicking. I watch the sky alot and I'm always alert and worried that bad things will happen to Earth and kill us. I also get scared a blackhole will swallow up Earth. I always search up on google "What happens if a blackhole swallows earth?" and i get really scared. Sometimes i get scared that Earth will run out of air and then my throat gets tight and i feel i cant breathe. How do i tell my mum 90% of my panic attacks are due to this?
My dad caught me having sex with my boyfriend and i dont know what to do I'm 19 and his 21 (almost 22)?
my boyfriend came to see me at my house but we where outside but my older brother left so i let him pass inside we stared to make out and told my why dont me go upstairs, well i told him that it had to be quick because someone could come. I'm without pants and he has a little of this pants down too and well like 5 minutes pass and i hear my dogs steps (my dog was outside that means someone let her in) and my dad opens the door and just screamed this must be a joke. I entered in panic and my boyfriend just left and my father went after him screaming get out i dont want to see you ever again or im going to hit you; my father came to my room and said he couldnt believe this and i have to break up with him.my father told me that it was just going to be between us my boyfriend called me crying and told me that he was sorry that he loves me and told me not to break up with him he had plans for us and he wants to apologize to my father.I needed to talk to someone so i called my best friend and my dad came into my room and told me that i cant see her anymore,again the tears came out my best friend told me that she isnt going to leave me alone. I'm really sorry for what i did and theres no turning back put i just cant stand rhe way my father lookes at me i cant talk to anybody i dont know what to do. Please help i just what my father to forgive me.