Girls what would you do if a guy asked to make out?
this girl asked me to prom b4 idk if she likes me but she asked a month in advance and im starting to like her. she has been a good friend of mine for a long while. idk if im interested in a relationship right now, but would it be weird to ask if she would make out with me? say just ask her to the movies and do that? would you do it? thxx :)
This guy asked me out and I blushed?
I know exactly how you feel! And then when you realise you're blushing, you blush even more because you're embarrassed? Yeah... same boat. But I've come to deal with it in two ways. 1) Take a deep breath and think of something random to get your mind off blushing. Thinking of something cool like wind or ice helps. Sounds stupid I know but sometimes it works. 2) Laugh and say " oh my word you're going to make me blush", you'll come across as sweet and humourous. It's an endearing quality and can actually help you get out of tricky situations. If all else fails... blame it on sunburn
A boy asked me out ?? im 13?
Hi, two days ago i was gonna get a pencil on the teacher desk and the boy (I love him so much) said '(my name), would u go out with me ? no jks!' And i said to him 'Are u being serious ?!' and he was like 'yay no jokes' But the thing is that sometimes he plays with me x One day i wrote 'I love me' on my hand has a joke and then he shouted '(my name) loves me!' and he was telling everyone about it and i was really shy and when he was telling people i was like 'no!' behind him (without him knowing). Back to our story... So when he asked i was like 'r u serious or is it a joke ?!' and he was like 'no jks i wanna go out with u' So i went back to my seat wondering what would i say if it was real... And then he came 5-10 minutes later to know what was the answer and i thought is this really happening ?!... he was like 'i'm being serious' and i was like 'yeah but if its a dare, i swear i.......' (in my class people are doing those kind of dares) And then he said 'ok look into my eyes' and then i turned awayy to look into his eyes but then the teacher said 'what r u doing out of ur seat' i was like wtf she just ruined it all cos i was gonna say yes to him! He is my first crush in that class and i keep thinking about him! I really love him but if he changed is mind and he dont want to go out with me anymore ? what should i do ? He is a year younger than me but i really really love him ;/ And my friend say i bet u was gonna say yes to him, u love him! And i didnt deny it x but when he's going out with girls i feel bad because it looks like he is cheating on them with me, he look into my eyes and say we're going out and we're playing dare with my friends and his, and people dare us to kiss but because he was going out with someone he couldn't and that made me feel bad because she was there and he kissed her . (they're in my class exept the day he asked me out because we weren't in the same grp), pls tell me what should i do, plus i haven't been out with anyone in my whole life (well when i was little yes)
What is the best way to ask a guy out?
I asked out a few guys in college and got rejected only by 3, as two had girlfriends and one was gay. If i had waited for them to ask me out, i obviously would have have been left waiting…..so i’m glad i was upfront and direct and got a direct answer back. In terms of technique, the few incidences i am most proud of is when i was 19 and bumping into one guy while making a coffee and very flirtatiously saying ‘so….how’s about it, you and me?” now, while i did get flat out rejected by him (he had a girlfriend, but i only found this out way later) i followed up with a confident matter-of-fact ‘well, that is your loss!” while smiling and i finished making my coffee and strutted off! The other incidence was the very first guy i asked out (i was 18) and i was too shy to go up to him so i got my friend to ask for his number on my behalf and again, it was a no, as he was taken! The next time i saw him, he gave out to me for not being brave enough to ask myself and we had a nice laugh about it and it wasn’t awkward at all! One of the successful times was when i was at a party and when alone with this guy I just upfront told him that i liked him and well….he was shocked but happy and we hit it off! So I think when you really like a guy, its worth just going for it and if he’s taken or not interested, it is certainly his loss and see it the way i did, that he’s done you a favour! I met my husband at 19 and directly attribute meeting him to my directness in dating!! good luck!
A guy asked me out today and I told him "no", but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?
Hahahaha..!!! I can’t control my laughter... !!Hold On.!! *Sigh*. What you have done girl.!! He is a gentlemen.!After reading answers of many experienced persons.You already got your answer.But i also wanna add something here.Did you watch Pink Movie?No?Then Watch it girl. You will get your answer.He must have watched “PINK movie”.In which Amitabh Bachhan says: “ ‘Na’ sirf ek shabd nahi… apne aap mein pura vakya hai. Ise kisi tark, spashtikaran,explanation ya vyakhya ki jaroorat nahi hoti. (No, its not only a word…Its a complete sentence in itself. It doesnot need any argument and no further explanation)”.*These boys must realise that “No” ka matlab “No” hota hai. Use bolne wali ladki koi parichit ho, friend ho, girlfriend ho, koi sex worker ho ya aapki apni biwi hi kyu na ho. ‘No’ means no and when someone says No, you stop.(These boys must realise that No means No. And a girl who is speaks this she might be any known , your friend, girlfriend, any sex worker/,or even she could be his wife. No means No and when some one says No, you stop).When you said “No” he did the same. He took your No gracefully. He did not force you. He must be a gentlemen.If he would not have taken your No as No and try harder to ask than you were the same who would have said him cheap, stalker, creepy, nagging guy and then ask question here.So stop doing this.Boys also have a soft heart and they too have emotions like us.If they are not saying anything it does not mean that they don’t get hurt.They are.!
What do I say when a guy asks me to make out?
Am i the only one who finds it a tad bit awkward when a guy asks you to make out instead of just doing it. I would rather them just go for it! (: But like what should i say in that situation, just say yes or like sure why not orrrr something more like why do you have to ask then bomb go in for the kiss ;) hahaha
Why do a lot of guys ask me out?
There are two possible reasons why guys might ask you out. There are only two possible modes when a girl interacts with a guy: 1) she can be his toy or 2) she can be his treasure. You've all seen a little boy play with a truck. He pushes it this way and that, then, when he gets tired of it, he throws it away and grabs another toy. It is very hard on girls when boys get tired of them and throw them away.I have no way to know whether the guys who ask you out are seeing you as a toy they might enjoy playing with or whether they see you as a potential treasure whom a man would want to care for all his days.There is a simple way to tell if a guy wants to play with you or stay with you - just what my wife said to me when I first asked her out. It went like this. After we;d talked for an hour or so at our first meeting, I told her I was going to date her. The wheels turned in her eyes for a few seconds, she gulped, and said, "Yes." As a woman, she was more interested in being wanted than in wanting.She acknowledged my claim on her, but she laid out a few terms and conditions which are described here:What My Wife Told Me Before We Were Married If you read it, you will note that she insisted that before she'd date me at all, I had to acknowledge that she was a treasure and not a toy, using those exact words. We've been married since 1971. It worked because I wanted her strongly enough to meet her terms and conditions, she wanted to be wanted, and because she really did want to be a treasure for her husband.There's an old saying, "It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that ZING!" The zing is the man's desire for one specific woman. If it isn't there, there's no way he'd be willing to commit himself to you.
A guy asked me out and I said yes, does that mean we are dating?
You are on a date. Nothing more. Nothing less. This ain’t “in sickness or health” level serious. Just a date. Two people who are romantically/sexually interested going out for a cuppa, or caviar, or whatever food the place has.You have to understand, there’s a difference between “going out on a date” and “dating”.The first one is exclusive only from the time you meet to the time you separate. The second one can actually lead to a happily ever after with a couple of kids to boot.
Why do i get scared when guys ask me out?
well,the first guy that asked me out was when i was 12.Nothing was wrong with him, but i think i felt too young to be doing that kinda stuff. That's what i told myself everytime a guy asks me out.M 19 and in 2nd yr in Uni. But still m not ready.. Well hia's the million dollar question " When will i be ready? Last year, i said yes to this guy. I just wanted to know how it felt to have a boyfriend. And we've talked over the phone almost every night. It was mostly jokes,movies and other kids topic. So i enjoyed it. Everything came to a big fulll stop when he told me one night over the phone that he was in love with me. I freaked out and never spoke to him again. Changed my sim card and am always ignoring him when in the same atmosphere. Iam sure it wasn't love because i didn't have the "symptoms".(i researched on it) But i feel so bad and m having second thoughts in going back to him because i know it was my fault to agree in the first place. What do i do?
This really nice guy asked me out today in a note and asked me to be his gf. but he is kinda unpopular.Help!?
First off, being popular SUCKS! Listen, i maybe a guy but i am in 10th grade. Thats HIGH SCHOOL and you know wat? Most all the pop. girls i know are whores and sluts (sry about langwage) but anyway you shouldn't care what people say and think about you. If he is a nice guy and he is sweet. It doesn't matter, you said yes. thats not a "stay together forever" thing but you said yes and gave him hope and alot of self confidence. Not to presure you but if you break up with him that could really make him .......well, sad. But if you dont like him or if your really into this popular thing then you NEED to stop it ASAP. If your like me and you dont really care what other people think (Good way to be) then stay with him and maybe you can have some fun and have a nice bf not some stupid mean jock. Just to let you know, your in 6th grade. about 99/100 you meet in your ENTIRE school experience you'll NEVER even SEE again. I would say you got two choices: You are a pop girl = Break up now Your a "I dont give a crap" pop girl = stay with him and have fun, be young and do things 6th graders need/want to do. Cuz when u get to high school then college you'll never have this opertunity again to be so young and foolish. I just turned 16 and i realize how grown up you have to be. And now that i look back, i missed ALOT of opertunities to have fun with a girl i liked, some of the time i wish i could go back even if i only had 1 month to stay there i would in a heart beat. Just think about it, do you like him or do u not and only went out with him cuz of ur friends. eather way, it wont be easy. you should have asked this be4 u said yes. If you want to talk more about this with me ( love to talk to yea ) my aim is cgdeathreaper or my yahoo is derk4392, msn is cgdeathreaper@aol.com hope i helped -derk