What should I do if a girl I like talks to other guys?
Alright man.I am going to break it down for you a couple of ways. All intended to help you, I promise.Girls will always talk to other guys. Will she do something with them if she likes you and you make her feel special. probably not.So, the more you develop a relationship with her the more she will begin to focus only on you (in the doing something with other guys sense…you will be the only one).However, you have to be a man about it. If you are not making her feel like a woman and being the leader. You will not gain her respect, especially if she is the type who talks to other guys and has guy friends in general.So what does that mean?It means that you have to be confident in everything you do. Be assertive not aggressive.Don’t be apologetic when you do something but at the same time don’t be offensive.Be brave and bold when you make moves on her. That means be smooth but don’t hesitate.When you make eye contact with her, be calm but take the time to really look at her. Make her feel special.When you take her on a date (which will happen all the time because you are a confident man who deserves it!) hold her hand. without hesitation just go for it when you get out of the car or whatever. When you feel it do it!Don’t be afraid to validate her. If there is something she says that you didn’t find funny or didn’t like. Let her know, but don’t insult her. For example, if she talked about cheap beer and how she is so in the mood and you didn’t agree with it. Tell her “cheap beer is not my thing tonight…looks like we are going to have to get a divorce (cheeky smiley face here)”. Same thing for the things she says or does that you like. Let her know she passed your mark in a good way.Finally, don’t break your personal rules for her. Go out of your way to do nice things that she likes but not something you don’t agree with.If you follow these steps. You will maintain sanity in a relationship, get her to be closer and more focused on you. And get her to respect you, and ultimately that will make you enjoy her more.Hope this helps!
Is it bad if a guy talks to everyone but you?
In all fairness, I haven't paid super close attention to him so I don't know if he does talk to literally everyone. He does seem to get along with everyone, though, and it's not like he doesn't smile at me when we do run into each other. Still, I don't get the sense that he WANTS to talk to me (I tried small talk a couple times but since we were both walking the opposite way we never made it past "I'm good, how are you?". And honestly, I don't know how to start an actual conversation with him without knowing anything about him.
Do guys like girls who have a dirty sense of humor? Like kind of talk and think perverted things like guys?
Naturally, I have a dirty mind, so I been told by many guys and girls. Most people find me very entertaining, for I am very open and can be explicit. I just love laughing and having a good time, and I enjoy making others laugh and smile a lot. It's kind of funny... just by some of the conversations I have with the guys many of them just assume I am not a virgin. When I tell them that I am they are very shocked and refuse to believe it. Let's just say I know a lot of things and have friends/relatives that talk openly about those things often. And I grew up with many guys as a child. What got me worried is that some girls told me that it isn't very lady-like to have a dirty sense of humor all the time and it isn't attractive to most guys because they want a nice lady, not another "one of the guys" to date. But most guys seem to enjoy talking to me and get out a good laugh with me. Plus, it's a part of my personality, in a way. I like being able to joke about stuff. Phrases like "that's what she/he said" and sometimes making things more sexual that it is just makes everyone laugh and have a good time. Playing with food sometimes like licking ice cream in that perverted like way gets the guys going or playing with hot dogs and biting it lol. I am just so used to it I picked it up from guys often when I was young. Although some girls enjoy this and think I am crazy in a good way some others really get bothered with it.. a lot. Now I am worried that guys won't like me in a romantic way and only see me as a friend just because I can "act like one of the guys." Should I change up my personality? Be that quiet feminine girl that most guys seem to like, the girly girly ones who talks about fashion, cute stuff, and paint nails all day long? Do guys not find girls like me attractive at all? Of course I can be quite classy and lady-like but when I am with friends I can get wild and dive into conversation with the guys about almost anything--politics, life, sex, whatever.
Do guys talk nonsense when they like a girl?
i'm 16. theres this guy who sits at the same table as me in one class. he is normally loud and he is popular. but when he sits next to me he doesn't speak a word to me...it's like he can speak to anyone except me. but he is constantly staring at me. when i handed him a pen he wrapped his whole hand around mine and then grabbed the pen. when he tried to talk to me the other day, he tried to explain something that he used when he was younger, it made almost no sense what he was saying...it was kinda weird...but i finally figured out what he was trying to say i think. he is usually not like that. why is he so quiet around me and why when he was talking he said a bunch of nonsense? i sometimes ask him to help me with a problem and he always is very nice and helps me out and afterwards he gets louder in class and shouts stuff out in class like he normally does. could it be he likes me? what should i do? im kinda shy.
Is it right for me to tell my girlfriend to stop talking to other guys?
Going anonymous on this one for obvious reasons.Back when my wife and I were first dating, she cheated on me. It was rough, we broke up, didn’t get back together for years.When we started fresh, I had one condition for the relationship - that she not have any communication with the guy she had slept with. If she wanted to be friends with him, she could not date me. She had apparently long since having stopped talking to this person, they never spoke since, we got back together, and we’re married now.I don’t do anything to enforce that rule - she hangs out with whoever she wants to hang out with, I’m not keeping tabs on her, I don’t invade her privacy, go through her phone, etc. I never attempted to dictate my wife’s actions, I only expressed my position that if he came back into the picture that I would not stay. I leave her to make her own decisions.Does my situation justify what you want to do? I have no idea.Now, here’s the deal… I think it’s fair to have circumstances that you can and can’t accept in relationships. That’s setting boundaries. But you can’t try to control another person. In situations like these, a slippery slope between setting your boundary and trying to exert control on another person. You can draw a line and say “if you do XYZ, I won’t date you”, but you can’t say “don’t do XYZ”.And yes, we are married now. What worked for me was trusting my partner.Trust is earned, but it is also reciprocated. If you treat a person like you don’t fully trust and accept them, you create incentives for them to be dishonest with you. On the flip side, if you treat a person with trust, you create incentives for them to be open with you and to honor that trust.I can’t tell you what’s right for your case with the context given. There are people here that will tell you you’re wrong or being controlling for feeling the way you do. There are people who will tell you to just end things. I was in a similar situation with my girlfriend years ago and we’re married now. It’s all in how you approach it.
Do you agree with the saying “Show me who your friends are, and I’ll tell you who you are”?
Do you agree with the saying "Show me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are?"Yes.Your current friends are a reflection of you, and are 100% your choice. A friend is someone you chose to spend time and associate with. The people you choose to be around shape your personality, the way you think, the way you speak, and the way you perceive the world.Whether we are aware of it or not, the people we choose to pay attention to and consider friends frame our reality. They are a barometer of what is normal, what is possible."Show me your friends and I'll show you your future" -Dan Pena"You"re Only As Good As The Company You Keep"It is difficult to learn to play basketball if you spend your days with a soccer team. The truth is, your choice of friends reflect the person you are today, and will in turn affect the person you will become tomorrow.
How do I handle my girlfriend talking to a guy friend a lot more and more often than I am comfortable with?
3 guidelines here to assess a male- friend intervening in your relationship: 1) How much time do you spend together? How much time do they spend together? Both in person and over the phone. You should be the person she talks to the most. If you aren't, then you aren't her priority. And that's exactly how this conversation should begin. Don't apologize for being jealous or insecure, those are emotions that have various causes. It seems clear that the cause of those emotions in this situation is the amount of time she's spending with this friend. You don't sound controlling. Tell her to treat you like you're her priority. If you aren't, re-assess your relationship (which is fancy language for get your ass out). 2) Assess the trust levels of the relationship. How much do you trust her? There must be a certain amount of trust issues going on from your end, however that is not necessarily your fault. Examining your situation, her actions of hiding her phone and having skype convos late at night is sketchy. She isn't making moves that make you want to trust her. Relationships are built on trust, so it sounds like this relationship is on it's way out. 3) Self-reflect. Why did she start this new flame?This relationship sounds pretty much over, so it's time to think about the future. What made her lose interest? I don't mean to piggyback from the other answers, but are you too nice?Best of luck, I'm sorry about your relationship and the pain she's causing you with this new guy. Remember your self-worth. You don't need to deal with anything you don't want to.
Zodiac Signs Stereotypes; Do you agree ?
Gemini Man : Common stereotypes Smooth Talker, Cheater The kind of guy you see girls always talking to. He's got a way with words and looks to kill. He will rile you up as fast as he breaks you down. Woman : Common stereotypes Well spoken Mediator, Tyrannical cookiemonster This girl could talk your ears off. She figures out her own problems long before you even get to open your mouth during a conversation. Communication is her specialty. Often has the potential to have a supermodel figure with amazing hair. WILL slash anyone to pieces verbally if offense is perceived.