I'm gonna get made fun of, I was rejected?
So I asked a girl over txt with my friend at a sleepover. I sent it and 2 hours later answered with I'm flattered but don't want our friendship ruined. But don't worry i will keep it between us. So I said ok :( Then she quickly called my friend that was next to me at the sleepover and was like he asked me out. Then he was like to her you should have said yes and I was upset. Then she talked to me and said she was sorry and we r still bro/sis. The next day I asked who she told. She said my sleepover friend and her best friend from a different school then we go to. People probably are going to know. If I get made fun of and stuff like that how should I respond to them? I'm scared
Is the Sims 2 Pets Fun? I don't want to spend $30.00 then it be stupid?
It depends. Did you have The Sims 1 and Unleashed? The Sims 2 Pets adds...well, pets. There are a lot more variety with the animals...you can make almost any cat or dog that you want. There are also womrats and birds in the game. There is also a new decor theme, atomonical (spelling?). It's pretty cool. But you should consider it first. If you get pets, are you going to adopt an animal or buy one for every family? I have only adopted a couple pets in my game. There are also strays that can come and dig up your yard if you're not watching. Pets can have its moments, though. My suggestion is that unless you are dying to have animals in your game, get a different expansion pack. Do you have Seasons? That adds so much to the gameplay? Nightlife? You get Downtown and Cars. Bon Voyage? You get a lot of new interactions and stuff, and best of all, your simmies have awesome vacation destinations. Freetime? It just came out, but it seems like other simmers adore it. You get hobby objects for your sims, like violins and soccer and sewing. I would recommend Pets above Open for Business, however. Unless you really want to build a time consuming business and try to run it, don't buy it. I hope this helps! Have you checked out the website? www.thesims2.ea.com
My friends make fun of me, (don't respect me?) should I leave their company and make new friends?
Making fun and insulting someone are two different things. Friends make fun of each other because they love each other but targeting a single person regularly can make that person feel disrespectful.If you feel disrespected you should talk to them instead of just moving on. If they are making fun of your body appearance or your habits ( but don't let them make fun of your beliefs ) then don't take it personally because every friend does that.While they are making fun of you just observe them carefully and you'll figure out what they are trying to do. If they are making fun of you they won't stick to one topic for long and will keep finding new ways to do that. Sometimes they may say something that might seem like an insult but most of the time its not intentional.Yes, on a scale from one to ten, ten being the dumbest a person can look, you are definitely nineteen. - Chandler Bing**Chandler always makes fun of Joey and they are best friends**** and here's Chandler making fun of Monica being fat**If you want them to stop making fun of you , start making fun of them. EASY ! Backfire with even more witty joke , and next time they will think twice before saying anything about you.PS : Try finding who are your REAL friends , let go of fake ones. Make fun of each other this will strengthen your bond.
Why don't I have fun at parties?
Lemme guess… one or two of these might fit you and be true: you’re intelligent and/or highly intellectualized. You have problems being spontaneous or irrational in public. You tend to relax when you’re mostly alone or with a few people you’re used to; You feel overwhelmed when in the presence of a bunch of strangers noisily gathering around you.Something most people don’t realize:Thinking kills partying;Getting crazy enhances it.Not a big secret, of course, but most people don’t have true CLARITY on this. Knowing this one doesn’t have to wonder why so many people drink and do drugs in parties. Some people aren’t terribly good at just letting go and being crazy, so they use alcool and other substances to force them out of their boring and mundane logicality.I realized this quite a while ago. So when I was a teen, actually I’ve had people who thought I was drunk and even thought I had snorted ‘something’ to be so free and “crazy”. Nope. Not the case. I get chilled and philosophical when I drink and I don’t do drugs. (Doesn’t mean I’m no saint. I’ve tried some stuff but being choicelessly out of control doesn’t fit me.)So. Ok. Wanna have fun and be sociable? I’m gonna be the Quora asshat and tell you to drink a bit - say a couple of shots, no more than 4 or max 5 tequila shots or the like, I’d say (sure, being of the legal age for it) if your party muscles are so out of shape. When you’re more experienced at letting go, you’ll see alcohol is not such a good (not to mention expensive, depending on where you are) way to let go and be free. But you can enjoy nevertheless.Remember: letting go and getting crazy and irrational MAKES YOU ENJOY PARTYING.Now GET THAT RIGHT BRAIN PUMPING!!P.S. It will cost you nothing to show appreciation for this answer I wrote for “Why don’t I have fun at parties?” using psychological research, my hypnosis & NLP knowledge, and personal party experience! Thank you. :)
How should I respond to friends who unnecessarily make fun of me? I really can't ignore them, as they are either my friends or fall in a friend circle. I sometimes try to fight back but I fail at their level of making fun.
There is a good chance they are doing it because they are insecure. If you want it to stop, use operant conditioning - basically, train them to stop. Here is how.1) figure out something you can say in retort that lets them know a) their comment didn't bother you and b) that it was pretty stupid.This can be - "thank you very much for that information" (in a deadpan voice) or "that was a mean thing to say" in a matter of fact tone of voice. I know someone who simply says the word "respect." and leaves it at that. As long as it is calm, not rude and lets them know what they just said wasn't ok with you, but that it didn't rile you up either.2) Practice saying this so that you can deliver the line/retort in as calm and matter of fact way as possible. You aren't mad at them, it just isn't something they should continue doing or saying.3) practice making eye contact when you deliver the line. If you are incapable of making eye contact, look above their head or at their ear.4) Whenever they say something mean or stupid, say your line, the same line. EVERYTIME! No exceptions. They will most likely be confused at first and then they will try to make fun of you for actually responding in a way they don't like. This is their attempt to get you to go back to the old way of responding, which they clearly liked. Don't go back. Continue as if you are a broken record and repeat until they stop. It is the consistency of your response that will get them to stop. If you sometimes do this and sometimes don't you will be variably reinforcing them and that will cause them to get worse and escalate their behavior. (The dynamic you are triggering by doing this btw is called an extinction burst).5) Whenever they behave respectfully and nice, smile, talk and engage with them and basically positively reinforce their good behavior.Hope this helps. If you want to learn more check out http://thebullyvaccine.com
What will happen if I don't study?
What happens when we don’t study, huh? Well, during the school year-Chilling with friendsPartyingWatching TVOther stuff that seems just so freaking fun that you keep on choosing them above your studies (which, by the way, are gonna decide your future)Wasting timeProbably becoming fat cuz of overeating and not really workingWasting away a very important thing that makes you human- your brainAnd thus, having an unproductive and wasteful life in generalYeah, not studying is super fun during school year, but this is what happens during exam time-Last minute crammingPulling an all-nighter resulting in dark circles, crappy mood and sleepiness while actually writing your exam (not to mention that all-nighters are not really effective ways through which you can score even decent marks)A hell lot of stress and mental pressureA hell lot of guilt too cuz you wasted all the time that you hadA horrible, sinking feeling when you see the question paperAnd finally, this is what happens after the exam when you get your result-Disappointment when you see others scoring good marks and you struggling to get that one mark cuz of which you have failedExtreme guilt, sadness, remorse etc etc.. if you have even the least bit of sense of responsibilityTaunts from several people around youProbably an hour long lecture from your parentsEndless prayers to God to reverse time (until you realize that whatever you do that’s never gonna happen)A resolution to work harder and consistently for the next exam which you might or might not keep (depends on you)
If I don���t feel “butterflies in my belly” around someone, does that mean I am not in love with him? I enjoy being with him, he is fun, good looking and we share many interests.
Question: If I don’t feel “butterflies in my belly” around someone, does that mean I am not in love with him? I enjoy being with him, he is fun, good looking and we share many interests.The question infers that infatuation is a prerequisite of “love”. I disagree.Infatuation (the butterflies) is by definition transient, “an intense but short-lived passion”.So it is, of course, great at first but it doesn’t necessarily last beyond a few weeks, a couple of months, or a year or two in rare cases. If the love is dependent on that feeling, then what is left when it subsides? In my experience, the absolute, 100%, deal breaker requirement for a long term relationship is “enjoy being with him/her” and “fun”. If you are not “friends” (BFF) with your S.O. then, IMHO, it just ‘ain’t gonna work for long’.I guess it all comes down to “what do you think love is”? If you’re basing your definition on romantic novels, ‘chick-flicks’ and pop-songs then I’m sorry but I think you’re going to be disappointed. It isn’t all about the impossibly handsome prince, riding up on his white charger and sweeping the super-model Princess into his arms (or Richard Gere in a white limo, sweeping the reformed hooker off her fire-escape – ‘Pretty Woman’).I enjoy being with him, he is fun, good looking and we share many interests.You’re in the lucky minority. You have found someone who might be your soul-mate. So take a chance and, who knows, maybe you’ll get larvae or pupae and they’ll undergo metamorphosis into butterflies later.
HELP i am gonna get slimed! and also pied in the face.?
It's my birthday soon, and my friends who i invited to my party want to do this to me, and i said yes. But im kinda nervous. Parents won't be home. And I don't want it to create a huge mess. Where should i ask my friends to do it? What should I wear, barefoot? And i may need to visit the mall afterwards to get some addition food. Maybe I should stay barefoot the whole day? And walk to the mall barefoot too? Thanks for answering, im kinda nervous. :S
What song is this........?
Breakthrough by the cheetah girls There's a word of kindness from you I've never heard it Nobody else but me, and spend around this lousy day until it's perfect Just you wait and see Chorus: Woh, woh, I'm gonna break through I'm gonna have some fun That's what I'm gonna do Woh, woh, we'll go without you I'm gonna have some fun That's what I'm gonna do La la la la la, la la la la la Don't bother me I'm too busy having fun La la la la la, la la la la la Don't bother me I'm too busy If there's a key to this hidden door I'm gonna find it No one can keep me out of the sun And when the winds starts to come I'll never mind it There was never a doubt Cause I have the power to change my life from one day at a time hour, by an hour I'll be fine I'll be alright Chorus Cause I have the power to change my life from one day at a time hour, by an hour I'll be fine I'll be alright Chorus There's a word of kindness from you I've never heard it Nobody else but me, and spend around this lousy day until it's perfect Just you wait and see Woh, woh, I'm gonna break through I'm gonna have some fun That's what I'm gonna do Woh, woh, we'll go without you I'm gonna have some fun That's what I'm gonna do La la la la la, la la la la la Don't bother me I'm too busy having fun La la la la la, la la la la la Don't bother me
If we're going to die anyway, why don't we just kill ourselves and bypass life?
Yes, we are going to die. All of us. We'd rot in Earth and there is most probably no afterlife, no God to bring us back from the dead or give us a hereafter in heaven or hell. Even the Earth and Sun would vanish in a billion years of time. Just as they didn't exist in their present form some billion years ago. We don't really know how they come into existence. There was nothingness at one time and you & I didn't exist for more than 5 billion years. Plain nothingness. Was that good? Was that bad? I can't say. But simply existing, here and now, is it not better than not existing at all? What's the hurry to kill oneself? What do you lose by living? Emil Cioran was one of the greatest pessimist we have come to know through his writings. He writes the following in his classic work, The Trouble With Being Born - “When people come to me saying they want to kill themselves, I tell them, “What’s your rush? You can kill yourself any time you like. So calm down.” And they do calm down.” What he didn't directly stress here is you are gonna die anyway. Why rush through it by killing yourself? Just like Cioran, many great pessimists and nihilists lived their lives even when they found it meaningless and painful. They choose to live till the end and express their thoughts about life and death in their writings and other art forms. They too were not in any hurry. As long as we are alive we can feel. We can wonder and think. We can choose to create. And we can live for a chance to seek pleasure, happiness and joy, however transitory or ephemeral; we can live for a chance to help others and bring happiness in their lives. By choosing not to exist, you are relinquishing that very possibility. What do you gain by not existing? What do you lose by living? I am a nihilist and still for me the answer is vividly clear. Death is inevitable, I will be dead any way and I don't see the point of hurrying myself to embrace death and bypass life. So I shall live. And do things. Anything I wish to and can do. Feel all kinds of emotions and burn myself out till I'm not dead. Death will follow when it follows.