How to get a sad song out of my head?
So I just watched a movie called "My Name is Sarah" from 2007 about a girl who falls in love with a guy she meets at an AA meeting. Anyways, the movie had a lot of sad songs in it and I have like 2 of them stuck in my head. Thinking of these songs make me cry and feel emotional. They just hit that "spot" in me. How do I get them outta my head? I have been listening to upbeat songs and stuff that I like listening to but they're still there! Anyone have advice on how to kick them outta my head? Thanks!
I have an image of the perfect guy in my head. Do you think this can affect my relationships in the future?
So I have an image of the perfect guy in my head. His looks, his personality, job, number of siblings, parents, favorite music, show, his laugh etc. I think about this made up guy so much that I sometimes forget he is not real. I imagine having a relationship and everything with him. I feel this is the perfect guy, everything I have dreamed of. So my question is: Since I have this made up perfect guy in my head, do you think it will affect my relationships (if I have any) in the future? Like, do you think I will compare every guy I meet to the made up one? If so, how can I stop my self from thinking of him? It's so hard not to think of him. It brings me peace and makes me happy. Thank you. PS: I am almost 21 and have never been in a relationship. I think this is why I make up guys in my head. I have actually been making up guys in my head since I was 11 (or younger). The personality is usually the same, but the looks change sometimes.
Guy friend kisses your head?
I have a guy friend that I am good friends with. We flirt with each other and what not. A couple of days ago, he kissed me on the top of my head when we said good bye. Is it just a friendly gesture? We also danced together since it was a party. Don't know if that matters or not.
9/11 made up story by Tania Head!?
It's terrible what she did, to play with people's emotions like that, especially of the family of the man who died saving other people for real. I'm sure the family wanted as accurate portrayal as possible of how he spent his final moments. So lying to them like that is cruel and inexcusable. Part of me feels sorry for her, because her life must have been very, very sad and lonely to have to live a false story in order to find any kind of relevance or inclusion. She didn't do it for any financial gain, so she must have had a real emotional need to feel important and wanted and a purpose to her life. It doesn't excuse what she did at all, but the pain of being sad, alone, and that you don't matter to anyone can drive people to do crazy things, because the way they finally get to feel is so intoxicating. I do feel sorry for anyone that lonely that they would resort to that type of deceitful behavior to feel good inside. She is not an attractive woman. Living a fantasy life with a fantasy fiance was probably less painful than living her real life with no fiance or anyone ever loving her. Still, the emotional wounds this must be opening with the real rescuer's family who she has met and posed with, is just terrible and that is not okay.
Is the guy supposed to lay his head on the girls lap?
me and this guy (we are 14) are "talking" and we have kissed and made out even. everyone says hes gay but i dont really think a guy would make out with a girl. so when we were on the bus going on a trip for school on the way home he layed his head on my lap and i just played with his hair and he fell asleep. the guy next to me said that i looked like the guy in the relationship and that my head should be on his lap but i have seen other guys do that with their girlfriends.none of the other girls thought it was weird but some of the guys did.
Is this guy messing with my head, or is he genuine?
So i started seeing a guy at the end of January. I really liked him and he really liked me... things moved really fast, we were staying with each other almost every night, hooking up, always talking exc. Things drifted apart after like a month, and I found out he was seeing another girl on the weekends when he went home from school.. (they only made out, but still enough for me to be upset, even though we werent officially dating) So for a few weeks he was torn between this girl and myself... I found out on March 15, that I am pregnant with his child. He spent the weekend with that girl.. but tells me he wants to have me get an abortion and we can just start over, he stopped talking to the other girl.. but I haven't seen him since the 14th. He tells me he cares, and all this stuff, but is he only being nice to me so i get the abortion. I really truly love this guy... the pregnancy has made things ALOT different, but I don't know if I am getting fooled by a guy i love who doesn't give two sh!ts about me.
Why do guys push your head down when your making out?
Me and my friends (We are both girls) Realized that every guy we made out with always forcefully pushes out heads down with their head or lean on you to make you seem shorter even though they are already taller than you? So their back is slightly bent and you have to face up. Thank you for your answers :) xx