What should I do about my boyfriend’s best friend that keeps trying to break us up?
This is an incredibly difficult situation.What I think you should do is really examine your relationship, and the other relationships you share with your bf. It’s entirely possible to love a bf, and realize that you don’t get along with anybody else in his sphere. So look carefully. How about his other friends? How about his family? How about your family? Do your family and friend care for and embrace your bf as your partner?You may realize that it’s you and your bf, and everybody else doesn’t really fit. This situation doesn’t bode well for long term relationship happiness. Life is impossible to live in a bubble, especially once you’re living together. Not getting along with family and friends is a red flag, not to be ignored.The other problem is that your bf isn’t telling his friend to knock it off. He isn’t standing up for you and the relationship. This is also problematicIf I’ve analyzed the situation correctly, it looks like you have two red flags to figure out.
What are good ways to react when women are hitting on my boyfriend?
My guy attracts predatory females like mosquitoes. Unfortunately, he's WAY too polite, so we have this down to a well-worn routine. If we're at a party or purely social event, we just pretty much stick together unless everyone knows us. I'm short and skinny and easily overlooked, but for some reason I have a reputation for being intimidating, so most women who know us leave him alone, or at least won't go past a light flirtation unless they are really drunk, in which case I recruit some of our soberer friends to help me ease her away.Big receptions and fundraisers are a different story, since we're expected to split up, mingle, and work the room. We stick to a rule of not getting out of sight of each other for more than a few minutes at a stretch and I check on him regularly. If he gives me that old-married HELP ME! look of desperation, I wander over with a "Hi, hon! Having fun?", collect a kiss and a hug, and let him introduce me. I've found that if you're standing close together and he has his hand where your neck and shoulder meet, and you absent-mindedly rub his hand with your cheek, even the densest of dames will usually get the hint.(The downside to all this is that he flatly refuses to go to social events by himself, so if he has to go I have to go too, even if I'd really rather curl up with a good book.)Okay, that's what works for me, but that's because he wants it to work and he gratefully does his part when I come to rescue him. I have no idea what I would do if I found him being utterly happy to be seduced by some sweet young thing. I'd like to think I'd do just what I described in the cocktail party scenario and hope he came to his senses, but I might do something else completely counterproductive, like bursting into tears or kicking him in the shin.My feeling is that every monogamous couple needs to work out unmistakable body language and behavior that says "we're together," and then stick to that script. If I were in a fairly new committed relationship with a guy who enjoyed being hit on by other women, I'd probably have a serious discussion with him about what each of us thought "committed relationship" really meant.Good luck!
Was Eminem ever in a gang or did he ever have any gang affiliation?
Nope
How do I please my girlfriend when she is depressed? I always do sweet talk and compliment her. I do my best to make her feel special and tell her that sadness isn’t for her, but it never works.
If your girlfriend is depressed, there may be nothing that can “please” her at times. Depression often involves anhedonia, or an inability to feel pleasure.So you need to ask a different question: When your girlfriend is depressed, what kind of support does she want from you?Does she want to talk about her feelings and have you listen empathetically? Does she want you to help her brainstorm solutions? Does she want you to distract her with jokes or games? Does she want you to sit beside her quietly and simply make sure she’s not alone? Does she want you to remind her to eat and go outside when she feels like doing absolutely nothing? Does she want you to encourage her to use particular coping skills she’s learned over the years but may lose sight of when she’s feeling low?These are all things I have wanted when my depression was bad. And often, I have specifically, explicitly asked for them from people who love me. Often, people who love me have inquired about my wishes, and I have responded. And often, people have guessed; sometimes they have guessed right, but other times they have guessed wrong. I recommend asking rather than guessing. Especially since your first guess — giving her compliments and telling her not to be sad — has not worked.Ask your girlfriend what you can do to support her when she is depressed. If she doesn’t know how to answer, list some of the options I mentioned above. You could also show her these two comics, which have spoken to many depressed people I know. They might be good conversation-starters.From Robot HugsFrom Things Without Arms and Without Legs
Why do all the bad things happen to me?
I used to ask this question almost every day.. and ended up with frustration.But then one day I met a kid, I was lost in my thoughts sitting at window seat in DTC bus.That kid came and said “ didi shoe polish karwa lo" ( Can I polish your shoes), I thought he was begging. I simply ignored.He got out of the bus from front door and I saw him carrying a small school bag and that polish rack.And we were waiting for green signal and was stuck in a traffic jam.He sat on foot path under tree shadow and opened his school bag and took books out of it and started writing.I was shocked, I watched this type of scene in Bhagbaan movie, I got out of the bus and tried to talk, he was studying GK(general knowledge).I asked in which class do you study. He said I study on my own. I said GOVT is providing free books and meals ypu can join GOVT school. He said if I will join school I will get food but my mother and younger sisters won't get.I am the only son and its my responsibility to make them happy as I will be the man of the house. I laughed as he was only 8yrs old. And he was talking like 20yrs old guy. But at the same time I overwhelmed.I offered him 100bucks, he denied.“ Didi, I dont beg, I do my Job and earn money".I asked him how much do u earn?He said 50–60. But oneday I earned 70. I bought chocolates for my younger sisters.I learnt a lesson. DONT SAY Y BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO ME?Either try to solve your problem, if you can't do anything to solve it, THEN STOP WORRYING.Everything happens for a reason.Good Luck :-)