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What can I do to change my life?

Hi Dear Friend,follow below setps and see magic in your life…1. Detoxify your speech. Reduce the use of cuss words. Be polite.2. Read everyday. Doesn’t matter what. Choose whatever interests you.3. Promise yourself that you will never talk rudely to your parents. They never deserve it.4. Observe people around you. Imbibe their virtues.5. Spend some time with nature everyday.6. Feed the stray animals. Yes, it feels good to feed the hungry.7. No ego. No ego. No ego. Just learn, learn and learn.8. Do not hesitate to clarify a doubt. “He who asks a question remains fool for 5 minutes. He who does not ask remains a fool forever”.9. Whatever you do, do it with full involvement. That’s meditation.10. Keep distance from people who give you negative vibes but never hold grudges.11. Stop comparing yourself with others. If you won’t stop, you will never know your own potential.12. “The biggest failure in life is the failure to try”. Always remember this.13. “I cried as I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet”. Never complain.14. Plan your day. It will take a few minutes but will save your days.15. Everyday, for a few minutes, sit in silence. I mean sit with yourself. Just yourself. Magic will flow.16. In a healthy body resides a healthy mind. Do not litter it with junk.17. For one month, eat home cooked meals.18. Keep your body hydrated at all times. Practice drinking 8–10 glasses of water.19. Make a habit to eat at least one serving of raw vegetable salad on a daily basis.20. Take care of your health. “He who has health has hope and he who has hope has everything”.21. Make a hobby (like dance/guitar/skating/singing/language learning etc.)22. Life is short. Life is simple. Do not complicate it. Don’t forget to smile.

How did god change your life?

everything in my life has been running very smooth and i always feel loved when my family don't show me any love he has been there for me for EVERYTHING!! he is my rock and i can't possibly love anyone else as much as i love god no else can compare...just like today my dog almost died but god gave me the courage to save her. to day my brother spoke to me and i have been praying for that he is soo GREAT!.HIS MERCY we all sin but once you ask for forgiveness it's gone who else would be so nice??

What does it mean to change your life?

Changing your life means changing your mindsets.There are many things we have no control over in life. Yet a lot of us [falsely] believe we do. I can’t control what other people think, do or say, death, natural disasters, what family I was born into. I could go on, but I think you get my point.You know what I can change? I can change how I look at things, my perspective.Beliefs about ourselves are typically formed through our past experience and the conclusions we make about ourselves during those experiences, good or bad. But who’s to say one belief about ourself is more true than another?The direction of our lives always follows what we believe. So, if you want to change your life, change your beliefs. If you don’t know what you believe, well, look at your life. If you believe you don’t have what it takes to become a business owner, you will most likely never own a business. If you believe nobody likes you, well, that’s probably what you’re experiencing. Like a ‘self-fulfilling prophecy.’We need to have a foundation on who we believe we are, because if my identity changes based on what I do, I’m constantly going to be hustling for my worth based on my performance + what people think of me.See, the key is to adopt the mindset of a child again. Children aren’t afraid of the ‘what ifs’ in life; that’s probably not even a thought in their mind. Even when children fail, they don’t beat themselves up over it, they try something new. They continue to move forward.If we could just take a step back and realize that we don’t need to prove self worth, we would open ourselves up to take way more risk, experience new things and follow that dream that has always been inside of us. We would save ourselves a ton of worry, stress, anxiety and competition. Because if my identity doesn’t waver based on what I do and other people’s judgements of me, there is so much more freedom for exploration and discovery.So, back to the question “ What does it mean to change your life?” To me, it means living from a place of confidence, that my identity has zero strings attached. Once we can learn to accept ourselves for who we really are, our lives will begin to transform. We’ll actually start living.

What would you change about yourself or your life?

I was thinking today about how everyday when I wake up I check my facebook, twitter, instagram, snapchat, the news, my messages, my e-mail. I waste almost 45 mins everyday doing this and once I get to school I get back on facebook while I'm waiting for class to start. I thought about how much time I would have for other things if I didn't do this. I might put my phone away and not use it at all for the next week. Kind of a detox on my part. haha.

I also made a goal a while ago that I would not be mean or ignorant to anybody, even if they are making rude comments towards me. (this has been hard after breaking up with my asshole boyfriend) Keeping negativity out of my life has made me happier.

What are some things you would like to change to better yourself or your life?

Why is my life so horrible and how do I change it?

Where to begin. So I’m 16 I’m a junior in HS. I’m male. I’ve had such a horrible life so far. I feel like there’s no way out. I don’t even know what it’s like to actually be happy in general. It started at a young age. I was in sports in good shape. I’m naturally gifted. Right now I’m 6’4”. I was in football basketball baseball and soccer. My grades were straight A’s all the time. There was always tension between my parentrs but it got worse. They ended up splitting up. I was too young to really care but this meant we had to move. I ended up living with my dad at my uncles house which had roaches. I gained a lot of weight and wasn’t in sports anymore. I had gotten chubby and by 7th grade I was very fat and also started failing school. I became depressed. I usually kept to myself as a result I was bullied a lot in 7th and 8th grade. Once I graduated MS I decided to lose weight so I did. I was still kind of chubby but drastically thinner than before. I even joined the football team but then I broke my leg. So I stopped that and ended up falling further behind in school. I had to do summer school freshman and sophomore year. This was mostly because of my depression/anxiety. I’m smart and most people will point that out after talking with me but I lost motivation and heart. My parents got back together a couple years ago. Now I’m on the verge of flunking out and my parents are separating again. There’s more but not enough space to tell it. I don’t know how much more I can take.