Is it okay to date a fat girl?
Thanks for the A2A.Dating a fat girl is perfectly okay. If you’re into a girl who happens to be fat, and she’s into you too, then you can date her.If you’re asking whether there might be some social consequences, well, yes, there might.If you have friends, family, co-workers, etc., who are assholes about fat people, then they might make fun of you for having a fat girlfriend. It’s up to you to decide whether being with a girl you love is worth putting up with that. And whether you really have to. If the person snarking at you about your girlfriend is your brother or your mom, you’re usually kind of stuck with that, because family. :/ But if it’s a friend, you can explain to him/her that if they want to remain your friend, they’ll seriously knock that crap off. If it’s someone at work, you can ask them to knock it off, and if they won’t, you can complain to your boss that this person’s harassing you about your girlfriend and it’s impeding your ability to focus on your work. Most bosses take a dim view of that.If you’re into fat girls because they’re fat, as in, having a thing for fat girls the way some guys are into tall girls or black-haired girls or girls with large breasts, that’s maybe but not necessarily a problem. If you fetishize fat (as some men do) and focus on that to the point where you’re almost dating the girl’s fat rather than the girl as a person, that can be a problem. It’s like, looking at your picture, if I said I wanted to date you because I’m really into black guys, that’d probably be an issue, right? I don’t know you, can’t possibly be in love with you as a person, so that’s some serious racial fetishization. It’s the same thing with fat girls, or girls with large breasts, or tall girls, or anything else. It’s okay to admire, but much less okay to be focused on one characteristic in an unhealthy way.If there’s a fat girl you like, though, go ahead and ask her out. :)
My family set me up with a fat girl but I don't like fat girls. I asked her politely to slim down but she doesn't like that idea. What should I do?
My cousin got married recently in December. He had always been fat since childhood, it's in his genes. Anyway, he used to work out a lot since last few years and lost around 25% of his weight., now he looked completely different with toned down body. And he had been dating a girl for a year or so. The girl however, is fat (sorry there is no other word that I can use for her). My cousin asked her to shed some kilos before the marriage, so that they'd look pretty together during the wedding. It was impossible for the girl to do so. For the next few months until the wedding, my cousin put on much weight, and became quite bulky. It was surprising. When asked about this, he just smiled and said "I had to look good for my bride." :) Now they were looking the perfect couple together. :DAnyway, if you do not like fat girls, YOU DO NOT LIKE FAT GIRLS. There is nothing you can do to change your perception. And if the girl refuses to lose weight, it's her loss (No pun intended). It's for her own good health, if she agreed with you. She rather sounds like an adamant lady. So this "might" not be a pretty trait in future. Weigh down the pros and cons, and decide what you gotta do. Well, by now, you know well what you gotta do. It needs courage. So be true to your feelings and talk about this to your parents. Good luck! :)
Are FAT girls jealous of THIN girls?!?!?!?!?
I have read some comments where the larger girls have said thin girls are ugly! I'm thin.. born that way. Fat girls in my school and even in my family have said things like you need to gain some weight. Like one time a bigger girl's boy friend broke up with her and he liked me and asked me out,and I was all like NO! Even though I said no to her ex, she hated me she bullied me and called me bad names that had to do with my weight. She said things like so you think your hot stuff don't you and was mean to me for no reason! Then one day out of no where she was like skinny girls are sick and disgusting! p.s.s I'm not sick lolz
I'm ashamed I used to be fat?
So I'm a 22 year old female and for most of my life I was fat. By 14 I was 5'5 and 210-215 lbs. My friends would even tease me about being big, like pat my gut, make fun of my big a$$ ect. I was just used to being the fat chick or the "fat friend". But a few months after I turned 15 I started dieting and working out. By the time I was 16 I got down to 145 pounds. I'm now 125 pounds and very slender, I have abs, toned arms. I really wish I was always like this. I got rid of all my pictures when I was heavy, it's just a secret I don't want people to know. Thing is I just can't get it out of my head that I was a fat girl once.
I'm skinny and get teased about it?
Well I know for a fact some of the people that tease you are just jealous! Lots of women and girls would love to have your body type and it is great that you eat well too! When people do say things, really it is nothing to do with you being slim (apart from if they are jealous) it is more that they are insecure about themselves so they are throwing comments that mean nothing at other people to feel better! It is good that you are sensititive, as this is an important trait to have! Do not change, but if you act confident and happy with yourself, like you should be, people will be less likely to say these things. You will always get a few idiots, but they say things about everyone and it is nothing personal to you. To try and rise above this, make it known that you are happy with yourself! If they say you are skinny, say along the lines of 'well I am lucky I can eat whatever I want and not put on weight!' say it in a nice friendly way, as you are not taking yourself down to their level, but you are showing you are confident. You could even joke back to them and say 'Its a good job I can eat whatever I want or imagine what size I would be!' Only joke with them if you think it is the right situation though! To be honest, as most people want to be slim, they probably do not realise they are upsetting you! I do not think your figure is any reason for you not to have a boyfriend, as you have what can be called a models shape as they are naturally thin! You may not have curves, but this is to your advantage as you can probably wear any clothes you like and if you are confident and like yourself, you will attract a boyfriend who will love your figure and you, whereas curvy girls may attract less nice blokes who are just looking at certain things! As long as in a nice way you can answer back and show that yes you are thin, but you are lucky you are naturally that way, then I think you will be fine! Hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
What do people think of fat girls?
In country like India - “Beauty of a women depends on how she looks, how she behaves nd especially what her figure is ? .. A plump lady has to go through nightmares in country like India where she is hurled with infinite scoffs and always preferred second just because of her dimensions.If we think we are blessed with broad minds, liberated thinking then why does a girl sorry a fat girl ,( ooh sorry i prefer curvy girls) hear such things like -1.) “Try some green tea and cut down on your rice’’ are some of the generic things these girls hear…from almost EVERYONE!!2.) They are heavily judged on the basis of their looks and sizes rather than their intellect3.) Fat girls have one name in common that is “Ae moti sunn nah ( hey fatty listen na ) . Their real name doesn’t really matter to anyone.4.) They are never considered as an active girl..5.) They get teased even by strangers due to their healthiness….which is worse than eve teasing.6.) Many of their dreams and wishes stay incomplete and unfulfilled just because of physique.7.) They start feeling depressed lonely and unwanted.8.) They think they’ll never find a guy who will look at her heart not on her dimensions.9.) Finding perfect clothes online seems like finding a treasure; it never comes true.10.) They get bullied and harassed the most. No one thinks how much it might be hurting her ..11.) Even if they are intelligent, efficient, active and hardworking still they are considered as a burden by their own family12.) “Tujhse shaadi kaun karega?” is a common taunt hurled at them!13.) People think that fat girls eats a lot but in reality they have 1/4th of what people suppose.Those who fat shame girls, grow up and show some respect.If they are happy with their looks dimensions then you are no one to judge them they better know how they look what their figure is ? You people don’t need to tell them and please it’s a request stop harassing them ..Lastly i would like to say-“Never become a slave of this society”And lastly people who are thinking why i wrote on this topic i would like to tell them many girls face such problems- Me Ahaan no not really fat but a little curvy i m .. I really look cute but my mumma usually says- thodi patli ho jana after 12th then u’ll look more beautiful and i ignore her words because I am happy to be a little curvy ;) (haha)Happy reading :)
Why don't fat girls get friends?
Let me tell you a story.I had many friends till the age of 15 and I have always been fat. (By fat, i mean actually fat. Not a 58 kg girl considering herself fat :p)My family shifted from a small town to a state capital and I lost my confidence because of the people I met over there and at a point of time, I had no friends . Soon I started to think that it's because people here are materialistic and the way I look is the reason why people do not take an initiative and talk to me. I had no confidence, no friends, no hope. I will agree that the 'pretty' and 'thin' new comers in the school had many friends. And I further sank in my own opinion and judgement. At 17, I lost 10 kgs and started feeling positive about myself. But, before losing weight itself, I started making friends and I was in a happy state of mind.Finally, high school was over and it was time for college. From April 2012 to July 2012 all that I did was to sit, watch movies and eat. Result: weight gain.I entered college as a fat but confident teenager and felt good about myself. Though I was again fat, I made friends for lifetime here. I am not a very good looking girl, yet, I am surrounded by people 24*7. It is because when you are confident about yourself, people will not choose you. You choose them. College is about to get over and people know who I am. They might not be knowing girls who are half my size, but, they know me. Talking about finding love, if he loves you, your 100 kg or 25 kg will not matter. Seriously, it won't. If he is not able to see your inner beauty, you deserve better :DI hope my answer will be helpful. Cheers! :DEdit:I am not supporting the fact that it's good to be obese. Obesity brings a lot of health problems and one must lose weight. And thank you for the upvotes. :D