Is my dad always right?
No one in this world including you, your Dad and me is always right.Don't follow anybody even your Dad blindly even if he is right most of the times.Everyone has a unique perspective and you should develop your own. See the world from different perspectives as it will broaden yours.Don't be afraid to be wrong at times. Learn from your mistakes and move on.Listen to others' advice but follow your own heart.
Does my dad have the right to look through my phone?
I'm 14 and my dad always takes my phone away if I get into an argument with my mom or teachers. When he had my phone, he went online and saw my text messages, contacts and calls. He called my mom to tell her that he wants to talk to me. He came over to my house (I live with my mom, I see him on the weekends) and he says "So who is calling you at 2:00 AM?" I played dumb & said "Nobody calls me at that time" He wasn't my boyfriend though, he's my bestfriend. But my dad won't buy that. So he says "Well I called the number back & I'm not going to tell the conversation but you do not need to be calling anyone at that time. You won't be getting your phone back" Then he reads my texts and saw the msg I sent to my friend tha said "UGH I hate Andrea" (That's his wife) and he got very mad. So I guess I'm not going to get my phone back for a long time. When my dad keeps it, he keeps it for almost a year.. But does my dad have rights to go through my phone?? well he IS my dad but why does he go through my stuff?
Just caught my dad sleeping with another woman. What do I do?
My mom works at night. I came back home at 12am and boom, I caught my dad with another woman. My mom and dad aren't on good terms, they don't even have sex from my understanding. They live together just to raise the kids. BTW, my Mom knows the woman, in fact, they're "good friends" She's married. We're very good friends. Everyone in my family knows her family. I don't want to disclose a lot of info here, but I'm sure you get the whole thing. Should I tell my mom Or just stay out their business to avoid adding damage to an already damaged relationship? I'm 20 btw. Advice, advice!!
My dad is so negative about everything. Do you have a negative parent?
Ignore it! There is a small percentage of the population that aren't MISERABLY unhappy, they're quite contented that way! He may be one of them.......Don't let him take you down with him into the negativity.
I have a crush on my best friend's Dad? What do I do?
She's been my friend since elementary school, we are in high school now. Lately I just been really thinking about her Dad a lot. I know it's super weird and he's an older man, but he's so cute, fun to be around, and how he is protective over his daughters. I know this is so bad to think, but I've been day dreaming about her Dad a lot lately. It came out of nowhere. I knew him since elementary school and these thoughts for him just started. I know it's ridiculous cuz he already has a wife and 2 daughters and 1 son, so how can I get this out my head? His wife is so lucky. I only live with my mom, and she's not around a lot. My mom is divorced with my Dad and I hardly get to see him either, he lives in a different city and always has a new girlfriend every time I see him, smh. And all my mom and dad do is fight over money when they are together. But my BFF even said its like I'm part of their family cuz I'm with them a lot and even go with them when they go on trips to like Disney Land. My friend said its like I'm the 3rd sister of the family, despite I am not in their actual family, and they are Hispanic family, while I'm very White. Her Dad has stood up for me once, and he has told me I am beautiful when I wasn't feeling good about myself. I love how Hispanic families are so close.
Why is my dad so annoying and retarded?
I’m 16! I’m an adult! He won’t let me go to my boyfriends house tonight because he thinks I’m going to have sex with him. He’s having a birthday party for another friend and I know his friend and we’re good friends. My dad thinks I’m just going to have sex with him! It’s completely unfair!
If my dad hits me, should I hit him back?
No, do not go down to same level of using violence instead of words, especially with a relative. There are other ways to respond, to show him how this affected you. If you think it safe, find an opportunity to tell him in a calm and measured tone that he should not have hit you and that you will defend yourself next time. Do not pick a fight and do not respond with same physical aggression, I don't think it is a good idea and is not safe.Think about why he hit you. Did you deserve it? Did he overreact? Who is truly right? If you feel that you absolutely did not deserve it and there was another way to send the message that you would understand, try to tell him this.My father used to hit me, but not strongly, and very rarely. Maybe 3–4 times over the whole childhood. A couple times he used a spoon to hit me on the forehead during a family meal. The reason was usually mundane, such as not properly doing something related to table manners in spite of being warned previously, or 'acting up' a little maybe.Each time it happened, it made me want to cry, or I cried later, not due to pain, but due to a sense of deep embarrassment. It was a feeling of unfairness and betrayal on his part. I never felt that I deserved it (though I did other stuff where I probably deserved it, but he never found out about that). It felt unfair because he knew I would not retaliate. However, it completely ruined my relationship with him, which was never the same after the very first instance of using force on me. I lost trust.And that was the seed from which my attitude toward him developed. It was not violent, it was more of what I did not do: I did not choose to live with him after I got older, and I moved away. I wish him well, but I wish it from a distance. You know, sometimes relatives simply must not live together. It's better this way for everyone. Realizing and acting on auch realization is the single most important thing you might ever do to ensure a better quality of life for yourself, and probably for them too.
My dad is acting like a jerk?! HELP!?
your dad probably feels liek afailure and thinks he can not provide for his fmaily and is getting depressed about it and taking his frusterations out on his family. I think you should try and calm him down, tell him everything will be ok. your gonna start pitching in more, and tell him taht you understand he is stressed out. same with your mom. Good luck