What Are The 3 Most Important Things That Your Father Taught You

What’s the most important thing your father taught you as a little boy?

That life isn’t fair. My dad was 18 when his father died, and left school in the 10th grade to manage the family business. With a limited amount of education my dad was unable to replicate my grandfather’s success, and the business soon failed. My dad ended up selling the family boats, and other assets to escape from creditors. After his mother’s departure from India too the US, he was entrusted with the care of the family. My father had to cook,clean, and take care of his two drunkard brothers who simply did nothing except give a meager sum of money too my Dad to just keep everything running. The odd thing is, he has never sat me down and told me his entire life story, I have heard various stories from our close relatives of my dad’s perseverance through this phase of his life. I put this all in timeline, and realized that my dad never got too enjoy life as a young man he constantly had to work. Presently he tries to imbue the habit of hard work in me, so I don’t have to learn it the hard way he did. He realized life wasn’t fair too him, but he promised to make the most out of it.

What are the 3 most important things to a father?

You are aksing for three, I'll give you many.The world has always spoken about mother's love, rarely do we talk about fathers. Don't we belong to them? We do. Their importance in our lives cannot be forgotten.The man who finds his daughter beautiful whatever the world may say is a father.The man who behaves strictly with his son to inculcate discipline in him is a father.The man who fulfills all the wishes of his family forgetting his own is a father.The man who is over protective about his kids and the mother of kids is a father.The man who never cried in his problems but cried in yours is a father.I have disappointed my father a lot in life, I have been a pain for him sometimes but he forgave me with all his heart. I trusted the people I shouldn't have and I am facing the consequences but he never stopped motivating me and encouraging me to move ahead irrespective of his own bunch of problems. That day I realised that nobody in this world can love you unconditionally other than your parents and your family. I am trying to make him happy in whatever way I can because he deserves to be happy and it is my responsibility to give him all the happiness in life.Some time back I had come across this post on facebook, this brought tears to my eyes. So dont ask for the three most important things to a father, when you mean the world to him.

What is the most important thing your father told you?

“Badhaay pase kaik saru NE kaik kharab hoi, badhaay pasethi kaik saru lai levanu ane apdu je saru che ee devanu” balance. At first I didn't look up at this advice. Once while balancing Energies of my friends relatives I get to know how it meant.There are ppl who take good auras and spread bad auras. There are also ppl who take good auras and give their good aura part in return. Be the second one, dnt damage the pond u drink water from, take its care more than yrself. So, a Vishnu always takes more care of his shiv than himself. Thats why he teaches everyone to take care of yourself firs, the thing he lacks. Shiva is innocent and without intention thinks about the self worth w.r.t to all ppl so he advices all to think for others. To mantain balance.

What is the one thing your father taught you that you are the most proud of?

If you can't make it use your tongue.That statement that I remember from childhood has become so true nowadays. As a child I couldn't comprehend the meaning of this statement, although he tried to explain it to me by giving all the examples. Later on, it made all the sense when observing our social interactions and how people succeed in life on average. So judge it to yourself if you think those examples are quite coincident in everyday's life nowadays.My father gave these examples which didn't make sense at the time.If someone is not a skillful cabinet maker and has no artistic ability then he can just become a smooth talker to convince everyone that he is the best.If someone is dim_witted he can become a con-artist to appear the smartest.OK, compare these examples to the following:An idiotic politician.Non-qualified doctors who caused death and suffering to those who pray on. See the movie based on a true story“Catch me if you can” starring Leonardo DiCaprio.Criminals like Stalin, Mao, Hitler, Saddam Hussein who shoved themselves to the top by manipulating and smooth talking.Fake scientists who convinced the whole world that climate changes and environmental destruction are just a myth and conspiracy.Wealthiest elite who are manipulating financial crisis, disorder, misery, wars and destruction for sake of their profits (Neocons, Deep state, Nazi's, Zionists, Marxists).How many times have you heard that a smooth talker in an interview won the job opportunity rather than the most qualified one? So the highest paid jobs are occupied by the clumsiest (unqualified) but the best talkers. This is why the world is fucked up, as infested by criminals, swindlers, low-IQ politicians, narcissists, abusers, warmongers and idiots occupying the upper echelon positions.Do you think my father was wrong? I doubt it.

What is the most important thing you have taught your parents or grand parents?

This is a tough question! In my “black sheep” way I taught my Grandparents that being different, having a unique mindset, was really ok and could be freeing.My sister was the “perfect child”. I constantly heard, why can’t you be more like your sister. It really hurt deep down, I would say “I am not my sister, that’s why!I could understand my grandparents saying things like that. They only knew that women got married, raised baby’s & served their husbands. The interesting thing about that statement from my grandmother was she was a hairdresser & worked out of the spare bedroom. Clearly I was more like her but she hadn’t accepted that she was a trailblazer in her era lol. She worked from home so she still did everything that was expected but she also earned money for the household.Throughout the years my sister, the perfect child, married and divorced 3 times while they were alive. I stayed married but did eventually separate after they both passed. She dated married men, took money from my parents to pay rent etc. the little black sheep went to school for nursing, had 3 children, had the family dinners & celebrations & more.Basically, I toaught my parents & grandparents it was,ok to be different and it was ok to have fun sometimes. But the best thing I taught my grandparents was to Spend Their hard earned money on themselves, even on frivolous things like a color TV.I may have taught my grandparents a few things but they taught me much, much more! They shared family stories & some family sadness but I loved listening f learning.Hope this share helps - made me remember many great memories as I type this, so Thank you for the question!

What was the most important lesson you learned from your father?

I'm rephrasing this question as "What are the most important LESSONS you learned from your father?"Age 5Me: Dad, I can't cycle without those training wheels.Dad: Don't worry, you have my back. I'll be holding you. Let's hit a lap. Just don't look back while you cycle.Me: After cycling for a distance, I turned back only to find out that dad was standing where I had started my lap.. I hit the ground with a *thud*.The lessons learned were:1. It's not the lie that always hurts you. Sometimes, it's the truth.2. You can never move forward if you have an eye back.Age 7Dad: Why aren't you dressed yet? You have a fancy-dress competition in your school, right?Me: Yes but lately I have realized that due to my extra-curricular activities like sports and drama. I'm always second in my class. This time I'll skip these activities to pace my way to the top.Here are a few certificates to prove that this is not some story that I cooked from my pot :PDad: No, son. You always come first at these events. You must go. Just make sure to put in more effort in your academics this time.*Fast forward to Annual prize distribution day*The very same guy got the prize. I blamed my dad for everything and started sobbing in the middle of the event.Surprisingly, they announced my name as the "Best student of the school" for my all-rounder performance. I hugged my dad and said how sorry I was.Image source: My mom’s gallery!Lesson learned:When God takes away Tata Nano from you. Don't whine about it. God plans on gifting you a Ferrari.PS: I mean no offence to people owning a Nano.Class 8th:Me: Two girls from my school have asked me out!Dad: And why is that?Me: They said that they find me very cute :PDad: You should thank me and your mother then. You should be happy when someone praises your personality or how you talk or what you talk and not when someone appreciates you for something that you have inherited.Lesson learned:You own your personality and not how you look. Stop stressing over your looks. Build a good personality!This is something that I wrote for him. I love you dad. Thanks for all those lessons <3