How do introverted guys flirt?
I don't necessarily consider myself an introvert, but that all depends on the situation. It is generally difficult for me to walk up to a woman I find attractive and strike up a conversation. It really has nothing to do with confidence, it's just trying to find the right words to say without sounding like you're dropping some kind of line. The thing that has always worked for me is eye contact and a smile. That's a big indicator that someone is interested in you. Once I get past that and I get the acknowledgment from the woman that she is also interested, then I don't care how stupid I sound, I'll just walk up and say hi. As far as knowing what to look for from someone you already know, that's a little more difficult to answer. I would suggest see how he is with other women and compare that to how he is with you. If he acts differently towards you, in anyway, then I would say this means he's into you. And, unfortunately, this may also mean you would have to make the first move. There is nothing wrong with a woman letting a guy know that she's interested. The rules of gender have changed, and dating should be no exception to that change. Good luck.
What should I do if I’m an introvert?
You don’t need to improve yourself. Just enjoy being an introvert. We introverts have gifts that the world needs. First of all, introvert and extrovert are not polar opposites. The truth is that most people lie somewhere in the middle of the extroversion-introversion continuum.The very fact that you are asking this question reflects the societal perception that being an extrovert is somehow better. Hogwash! We introverts are good listeners, self-sufficient, focused and find joy in the simple things in life. We are also observant, good students, trustworthy and committed to our goals. And here is our ace in the hole. We are in touch with our feelings and always have interesting things to say when we join a conversation.In my former life of being a manager of people, I valued the ideas and suggestions of introverts. While extroverts would say out loud whatever they are thinking, introverts were initially quiet. They listened and absorbed, paying attention to their feelings and intuitions. When they finally spoke, their answers were right on, well thought-out, encompassing the meaning and importance of the issue being discussed.So… never demean yourself by trying to be like someone else. You are unique and gifted with beautiful qualities.I am a student of the wisdom of Kabbalah—the science of the correct perception of true reality: what it is and how it is manifested. The importance of unique individual qualities is valued because each of us has an important place in creating a unified whole. If you think you might be interested, go here.http://www.kabbalah.info/bb/kr
Do guys like introverted girls?
Yeah, if they want a real connection. I'm just not into girls who dance their youth away and worship high-living. Nothing's wrong with being a little shy as long as you have a deep personality to back that up.
What does introvert mean?
Being introverted and being anti-social are two different things. A person can be introverted, meaning you are more inwardly centered and concentrate your interests upon yourself, like being alone and spending time doing things you enjoy which one can only enjoy when being alone, such as reading, writing, painting, thinking, etc. Don't label yourself or let anyone call you anti-social merely because you enjoy solitary pursuits. Anti-social means actively violating conventionally accepted standards of behavior. I find more extroverts do that. You may be shy and quiet and prefer your own company to spending time with others. Only you can determine if you need time to yourself or if you are intentionally avoiding others. In my experience, extroverts seek out other people so they never have to think about of deal with anything going on in real life. They are popular for this reason for a short time in their lives, but eventually they have to grow up and deal with their own problems. Personally, I think it is better to know oneself and it takes a certain amount of introspection to figure that out. The extrovert never knows themselves other than through the opinions and perceptions of others.
I'm a very shy and introverted person, what can I do to seem more approachable to people?
You will have to make the “extra” effort to approach them instead of seeming “more approachable to people”. It’s also important to understand that people love talking about themselves so you must show interest in them first. A good way to make and maintain good conversations is by having various topics prepared to talk about. Most people (especially extroverts) are into very basic and shallow things like as sports, popular TV shows, celebrity gossip, and family. Have things to say about those topics as a “back up” if the conversation starts dying down.
Can introverted people be good leaders?
An introvert can be a leader of people and be very effective. However, this is not a natural attribute of an introvert. Leadership for an introvert is a learning process. The learning requires years of experience dealing with people and situations. It requires a person to appreciate himself or herself as well as the ability of others. The learning process requires an introvert to be very good, not necessarily an expert, in a profession, a field or line of work. An introvert that is a successful leader finds his/her role to be highly rewarding because of everything overcome to do well. In summary, an introvert can be a leader of people, whether the followers be introverted or extroverted. This person can be an excellent because it takes so much hard work, persistence and a kind nature.
What does it mean to be highly introverted?
Being an introvert means you get energy from within yourself, you recharge if you like by being alone. Extroverts get their energy from other people and mostly like being around others. I heard about 25% of people are Introvert. Introverts, once they understand themselves, and accept themselves, can be very deep thinkers that are simply brilliant at making connections and breakthrough ideas that others simply don't see. A clear disadvantage of being an Introvert is that we live in a mainly Extrovert society. Introverts can easily feel uncomfortable since they do not and cannot conform with Extrovert expectations. That said, an Introvert that knows his/her self, and is comfortable and happy with the gifts that come with this, can behave very happily and confidently and for limited periods of time come across as an Extrovert. What people don't see though is their need to recover from this alone later on.