My friend doesn't care about my problems?
So umm, lately I have been feeling like my best friend doesn't care about my problems... When I was really upset a few days ago she was just kinda like 'well I have problems too' and it sorta hurt because I can't really talk to anyone else about how I am feeling. About a week ago I tried to talk to her and this happened: Me: "Hey, umm, can I talk to you?" Her: "Yeah. What do you need?" Me: "Uh, well I need some help..." Her: "With?" Me: "I'm just sorta depressed and well, I feel as if nobody likes me. I don't really have any friends and nobody will talk to me..." Her: "Ohhh. Well, I'm depressed too! I have to get new clothes and I can't decide what to get aaaah! I need your help choosing." Me: "Oh. Okay..." This happens EVERY time I try to talk to her when I am upset. When she talks to me about her problems, I give her advice and comfort her, but when I try to talk to her she makes it seem like she's more important than me... What can I do? I just want to talk to someone :(
What do you think I should do? (friends problem)?
Well, me and my friend, let's call her Amanda? xD use to be best friends, like the best of friends, but she started going to a new school at the beginning of Gr.8. We've known each other since Gr.3, but didn't come best friends till Gr.4. Anyways, we use to hang out like all the time. I remember the summer before she moved to a different school we had a sleepover at each others houses like everyday and I kinda miss that:(. It's not like I don't have any friends, I have plenty of other friends, but she's been like the best. She's just really helpful and gives good advice and is just so fun to hang out with and I helped her a lot when her mom had cancer. So, now we're in Gr.9, but go to different schools. We talk sometimes. It's not like we hate each other or anything. The last time we hung out was in the summer a few times. How do I let her know I miss her without sounding like desperate for a friend, because I just miss us being best friends? How do we become good friends again? Thanks:)
Seiouse Friend Problem!?
Just get him to understand that it is his friend that u do not like and not him. Simply because u get along with him does not mean u will get along with all of his other friends. If he still can't understand that,maybe u should tell him why u do not like his friend,maybe this problem can be sorted out if u talk to both of them?
How do I deal with friendship problems?
Most interpersonal issues (from my experiences here on Quora as well as in "real life") stem from communication issues.Sit your friends down and talk about the problem. A few points I think you should cover:Telling mistruths about other people's opinions is wrong. It's mean and cruel. Sort out who it is who actually has this opinion of your friend (your other friend? Perhaps someone who would be seen as "less credible" than you?).Issues should be sorted out with the people involved. Complaining to people who don't understand the entire situation is often unhelpful. Your friend's mom has only one point of view and should probably be included in this talk.People cannot "steal" other people. People are not objects. If someone is spending more time with Person A than with Person B, it's because that person chose to spend more time with Person A. Determine whether you are actually neglecting one of your friends and whether it means you should rethink your friendship (i.e. whether this is a deal breaker, and if so if remedying it would be implausible).Just talk about it. Clear up the confusion.Best of luck.
I need advice on friend problems..?
Ok.. Hey my names Faith. I don't think you friend has any say in when you do your homework or not. Do you get better grades when you do it with her or do you goof off an not do it... Is the reason she's mad is that when you do you homework do you copy off of each other? I'm in middle school and I still have to do my homework I get home at three and I'm usually not done untill around nine or eight. I know that when I do my homework with my friends and I have to wait for them to catch up and it takes alot longer! I hope that you can work thisbig thing out with your friend and just tell her she's acting silly and that your sorry and tell her you forgot... lol Its not the best but Hopefully it works! bye!! good luck!! =D
Songs about friendship problems?
Hey everyone, so a friend and I are going through some tough times where things have been said, mostly on her side, but some on mine too. and music is my life and i try to listen to music that describes my mood. so can anyone help me find some songs about friends who are having problems? songs that are about wanting to reconcile are fine. thanks!
I have a problem with two of my friends. One is trying to get with a girl.And the other is jelious what to do?
Friends and Jealousy. One of my friends(frijealous is jelious over another one of my friends(#2) trying to get closer to a girl that lives close by. So Friend # one trys to go to the girls house to change her thought of Friend #2, i just want things back to normal. What do i do?
What do I do when I can't keep up with my friend's problems?
Take a breather. You need to focus on yourself if you are getting overwhelmed with your friends issues.You do not always have to save the day. It is not your job to fix anyone or to be their shrink. If they don’t understand this then you are better off without them.You don’t have to be readily available. You don’t have to immediately reply to a text or phone call. Leave your phone on the charger and go live life. Take a deep breath and take care of you. Eventually they will realize that you have a life too…and more than likely all of their drama will work out or he/she will move on to someone else.If you are concerned about your friends issues, explain that they might do good with a therapist or counselor who can better help with suggestions.You are not a free shrink and it’s a waste of time to continually listen to someone else’s issues when we all have our own.ETA: I had a ‘friend’ who did this. Everything was an emergency and I was constantly having to leave my family for her little breakdowns. I was recently Supeonad to go to her divorce trial to tell the world all she told me….did she care that I was now a wreck because she drug me through her mud? Absolutely not. She did not care at all.
What do you do when your friend doesn't care about your problems?
You finally realize - and accept the fact that this “friend” of yours is not a true friend, and not someone you can rely on. They sound more like an acquaintance to me, but most people consider acquaintances friends. I’m not one of those people.At 52 years old, I have 5 true friends in my life, any one of which would bend over backwards to help me with any possible problems that might come up. The newest friend of mine has been in my circle for 10 years, the others have been friends of mine for between 25 and 45 years. I’d bet my life on any one of them coming to my aid if I asked.A true friend will do anything and everything possible to help you with your problems.Find someone else to talk to. Someone you can trust and someone who will listen and help you.Best of luck.
I have trouble keeping up with friends. Is there a problem with me?
No one can provide a definitive answer to you, because it could be both ways. Either it was your bad luck all of those times, or it might have something to do with you.If I have to pick one, I would say it is more plausible the reason is you.Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying there's a problem with you, I'm just saying that it is most probably because of you that this situation has arisen. Maybe you are expecting a lot from your friendships - is that so? Do you expect your friends to behave in a certain way around you? If so, you might just be overthinking things a bit. In such a case, my advice to you is to stop finding reasons in everything. For some time, just hang out with them when you feel like it; don't look for the negatives in whatever they do.There is generally a barrier when you're entering into friendship with people. Once you cross this barrier, it becomes easier for the friendship to go ahead. Everyone has their own barrier. It's like a wall that guards them from the outside world. Some people have a short wall, some have high, well-guarded walls. Maybe you've not yet crossed the barrier yet. In such a case, you have to be patient. Let things take course.There might be several other reasons why people keep avoiding you. You need to introspect from their point of view and check what it is with you that's keeping them at bay. Maybe you have too much of an ego, maybe you don't listen to other people, maybe you keep on showing off, maybe you keep on complaining all the time -- there are several possible reasons, and I would just be speculating if I picked one of them at random. Only you can find the answer by looking into yourself. Try to adjust with them and try to be a part of the group rather than being yourself when you're with them. This is if you really want to be a part of the group. If you don't like their company, then don't even bother. But again, it might be you who is creating problems for yourself. It would be helpful to introspect, for the sake of future friendships if not for this group of friends.