My dad hates me. What do I do?
Sadly, its true that some parents actually do not like or may even hate their own child, or one of their children, or all of them. There are several reasons why that can happen, none of which are the child’s fault.Sometimes an emotionally immature parent will blame the child for their own sexual irresponsibility; the parent shifts the blame to the child for “trapping” them in a marriage that he or she didn’t really want.Sometimes, if the mother dies in childbirth, the father may blame the baby for “killing” his wife. That’s another example of emotional immaturity.Sometimes, the parent has a serious but untreated mental disorder like Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and hates their child for not being “perfect” enough, or the parent has an untreated psychotic disorder and develops negative delusional beliefs about their child.I recommend reading the book “Toxic Parents”, to learn how to create a healthy emotional distance from a parent who doesn’t love you, so that you can in effect become your own “good parent” and give yourself the love and validation that your parent can’t give you. Therapy can help.I found this short article to be interesting and relevant:Parents Who Hate Their Children: The Truth No One Wants to Admit
My mother in law hates me! What do I do?
I've been married to her son for a few years and I have to twin girls but she always wanted her son to have a baby boy which I might not be able to give her so now she hates me! She keeps telling me what to do! I was going to my parent's house a few weeks ago with my husband and kids so first I was wearing a skirt up to my knees with a cute top and it wasn't slutty at all. Then she said "no, you can't wear that,go change" so then I changed into capris and a another pretty shirt and she was going to say something but we just left then. She thinks I'm a slu* and I'm not, I never was. I don't know why she thinks I am though! I don't think she likes my kids either because their girls and she wanted a grandson. Help, what can I do?
My oscar fish hates me?
He's probably just a little nervous because of the accident. Keep the tank clean and let him heal. Give him time to recover. If you keep trying to make him like you he's going to get more stressed. Fish don't hate. Once he has time to get over the accident he'll be back to his old self again.
I Still love him but I think he hates me, how do I get him back?
There's a movie called He's Just Not That Into You. There's a lot going on in this movie, and in particular one takeaway is this: you cannot make someone love you. You cannot control another person's feelings, actions, or decisions.Period.This is not to insult you or your intelligence. This is as much of an objective statement as I can make about our ability to control others, which is not at all.What's my point?My point is this: you cannot make someone love you who chose not to, and you shouldn't try. Why? Because you are a failure at life and unworthy of love? No. Because this person's choice is his own, and he chose to let you go. That doesn't make you inadequate as a person. It makes you someone who needs strength to move on.In the same way that I can't make you believe me - only you can make that choice - you cannot make him stay. What you can do is choose what you will do with your life now. It is all you have. And as it turns out, it will be all you need.
What do you do when your husband says he hates you.?
First of all dont jump to any conclusions that would be the worst thing you could do. Hate is such a strong word because of the power that we as people give words. Maybe it was his purpose to hurt you with such strong words, and his intent was not that he hated you as a person, but maybe something you had done. If he cant come up with reasons of why he is still married to you its because he really doesent want you to know or he is not being honest. When you are arguing it is a war, and at that moment you will do anything to win by not revealing your strategy. What I advise you to do is wait. Words are nothing unless they are followed by action. If his actions suggest he doesent love you then you need to talk. If they were words, and nothing else. Then when the dust has settled tell him how hurtful they were and that I have respect in this marriage even when were angry we must find a way of expressing ourselves without using such painful words. And if this man loves you he will understand, and will take caution the next time a debate develops. Dont listen to people when they say divorce him that's ridiculous. They dont have to walk your path and it is much easier to give someone advice when you dont have to endure the consequences. This could be his cry for help. Listen to his cry, and help each other
I Broke Up With My Boyfriend But Now He Hates Me...?
The Genius of Patience Friend, was there ever a time in your life when you felt stuck? When your life was bogged down with no way to move forward? What did you do? Well, most of us respond with frustration and anger, whether it’s a car in the mud, a life put on hold or a relationship on the rocks. When we get frustrated, most of us reduce our options to one: force. So we jam our foot on the accelerator and lunge ahead with all our might. And succeed only in digging a deeper hole. However, there is another way to handle the obstacles in our lives, and that is to have the patience to keep trying something different. Friend, patience involves courage … the courage to back off, to keep looking for a more creative solution to the problem. Patience means you can, and you will, endure whatever you must to accomplish your task. Patience means you will not allow any frustration to deprive you of reaching your goal. One day, an assistant came to Thomas Edison, discouraged at his lack of progress on a research problem. “How often have you tried?” asked Edison. “At least two thousand times,” the assistant explained. “Well, don’t give up now,” said Edison. “You have already found two thousand ways in which it cannot be done.” Comte de Buffon said, “Never think that God’s delays are God’s denials. Hold on; hold fast; hold out. Patience is genius. ~ I found this quote for you, I hope that it helps. Have patience and he will get over it. I take walks to get over my breakup with my girlfriend and it still doesn't work, she is on my mind all the time and I am sad but as long as I am going to have a heart ache I may as well get some exercise in the mean time.
My boyfriend says he hates me in arguments?
When my boyfriend and i argue it's usually because i've questioned something he's said or done. There is a slight lack of trust because of things he did behind my back at the very start of our relationship. That's not to say i question his every move because i don't, and we've moved on alot since then. However sometimes the past comes back and i have worries and i question things, but now all i get is a horrible boyfriend who has a go at me and says he hates me and i've made him really mad. And then he doesn't talk to me. This is the third time he's said he hates me in the last few months. After the last two times when he's calmed down i've said he can't say that if he doesn't mean it and it's seemed like he's taken it on board but he obviously hasn't. Thing is at the moment i also have other things on my mind. I have a new job which is really stressful and more importantly we've recently found out my mum has cancer, i need support all the time at the moment to cope with that and the last thing i need is a boyfriend who treats me this way. We've been together for 3 years now, what do you think?? Thank you for any help.