Why is it that the person you lose your virginity to so important?
The literal reason why the person you lost your virginity to is so important is because this is the first person who you are with in sexual capacity - this person physically has seen and felt more of you than anyone else. I don't think it's honestly the emotional factor - sex can be emotional, but if you're just losing it to lose it, then it's not special. It doesn't sound like you and your ex were ready to lose your virginity to each other. Even if you don't love the person you lose it to, they should be someone special who respects you and treats you right. Also, once you've had sex, you DO see things differently - you see how sensitive the other person is, you start questioning how other guys will be and this really sets a standard for how you bond with other partners. Whether you know it or not, your first time heavily impacts your view of someone's personality and sensitivity and caring. If your first time is a dud, you don't see it as special, so until you fall in love, it loses it's pizzaz.
What do you do if you forget someones name?
Just call them, buckaroo. "Hey there....... buckaroo."
If you ask someone to start over what do u really mean? when it comes to realationships?
It really means you want to try to forget something bad happened between you two, and move on with your relationship. Of course, it's tricky to do that, because if it's bad enough, you're never going to forget. You can forgive, though. It gets further complicated by the oft-used (and largely accurate) axiom: Women forgive, but the never forget; Men forget, but they never forgive. Good luck. A good relationship should be something you're willing to fight to keep, and sacrifice to keep. Just remember, the other person in it has to want those things, too.
Do you ever forget the one you lost your virginity to?
No matter how hard you try that memory seam to stick with you. A lot of the persons I spoke to, did not have found memories of their first time (including me). There is always the story of the older person who took advantage of your vulnerability. I think that all your sexual encounters should be well thought out, so that you will have sex with some one that is worth remembering. My first was 27 years ago and I remember her name, face, and every thing about the moment. although we only spoke once after, cause I really hated myself for being that vulnerable. Coming to think of it I forgot others but I never forgot her. I wish you pleasant and memorable experiences.
How to forget someone you'll never see again...?
Your description of the boy says that you loved him, they boy knew this, that's why he kept looking at you. He too was in love with you...but like you he too was shy of something...that's why both of you parted without expressing your feelings to each-other. There are always people whom we loved, and were loved by them in return, though the love is never actually expressed. What to do in such situation...such people always remain in our sweetest memories, whenever we are down...we can lift our spirits by just one memory of that person. What will happen to you...you should nurture and cherish this sweet memory. It is likely that you'll meet the person yet again (it has happened to me), but in reality nothing earthshattering happens, you meet, your heart aches a little, you part again...and the feeling remains.