What do you hate the most about life?
For me, i hate how busy everything has to be, there is so much to do so that life can 'improve' e.g. studying for more knowledge, working for more money, and if i stop and relax i know in the back of my mind that i could be 'improving' life with this time so there seems to be a constant rush with no choice as if there is no more true freedom no relaxing or reflection on the beauty of life but one destination of gradual improvement. what are your thoughts on this?
3 things you hate the most in life?
why... and... what...
What/who do you HATE most in LIFE?
I don't hate anyone. I don't really hate anything. Hate is a very extreme emotion that people casually throw around without really understanding what goes into real hatred.
Which people do you hate the most in your life?
Like everyone else I too have some people whom I hate. They are.The braggers- These kind of people are hated by almost everyone. They brag about each and everything even though they do not deserve it. I feel when people start bragging about themselves when they are begging for attention. Good qualities of a person seek the attention of anyone but it does take time. Bragging sometimes is fine but always talking about yourself is really irritating.The backbitchers- They have a sepearte place in hell. These backbitchers seem to be your friends and then they start bitching about your bad qualities. In our school there was this girl who was pretty infamous for this reason. Girls used to say “If you met this girl on the road and say hi to this girl the very next moment as your back turns she will start bitching about you. I mean these people don’t have any other work than gossiping about other peopleThe backstabbers- In case of backbitchers you at least know the person who is like this. But a backstabber disguises like your best friend and leak all your secrets. I too have been decieved twice in school by a group of school friends who later made my least known secrets spread like a wildfire. The third time it was luckily not me but my college friends who were decieved by someone who not exactly backstabbed them but was Friends with Benefit with us.So these are three kinds of people I personally hate. Maybe all of us hate these kinds of people… A sad world we live in :(
What is one thing you hate the most about life and why?
I guess, the worse thing about life is you don’t know what kind of things you will face. Because as everyone knows, life is unpredictable. If we would have an ability to see the things in the near future, we could arrange our life according to things that’ll happen. But it would be boring. Because if something is unpredictable, it means that it is going to be a surprise for us.
Is there someone you hate the most in your life? Why?
Up until recently, about the last year and a half or so, it was me. I hated myself. A lot.You see, I was bullied for being overweight and smart and different. But, I'm a cisgendered white male and that's not possible. Yes, it is possible. You see, overweight is seen as weakness. Smart is seen as threat. Different is because I have ADHD. Undiagnosed until I was in my 30s lead to impulsive behaviors and lack of focus.I am smart, but I was called lazy. I can outwork many physically and literally broke my body to prove I wasn't lazy. I have bone spurs and pinched nerves, torn muscles and broken bones, and many ailments most get in their geriatric years. I was a boilermaker and I was determined to work harder and longer than anyone. I got hurt a lot. Not accidents, just overworking my younger body to make up for laziness accusations.See, I hated myself enough to hurt myself to prove to others I wasn't lazy. That's self-loathing.I heard how terrible I was from teachers, students, peers, family, and saw the dissappiontment in my mom and dad's eyes. They never beat me or told me I was worthless. They were so supportive superficially. But, body language doesn't lie. I was smart. I knew I was a mystery to them.I really did internalize all of that criticism. I knew what I should do, but couldn't do it. I treated romantic partners like fools for being with a piece of crap like me. I sought out people that were as broken as I felt to have sympathy for me. That backfired. I allowed myseld to treat people and be treated like crap.I entered therapy several times. Then, a magic thing happened, I was diagnosed ADD. With treatment and medicine I found out how to be better equipped at life. It's helped me face my demons and admit my shortcomings. I also learned healthy ways to cope and released my anger from years of abuse from my peers and teachers. I absolutely hated myself. I absolutely believed I deserved the abuse. I didn't. So, I don't hate anyone anymore. Not even myself.I hope anyone reading realizes that there is help and you shouldn't hate yourself.