What did someone do that made you think they were really smart?
In my town, there was a homeless guy loaded with facial tattoos. Silently, he would sit at a turn signal with just a ratty wool blanket draped over his shoulder. No cup, no sign, nothing. I would see people feel sorry for him and hand him not coins, but CASH out of their purses and wallets.One day, I asked him how much he made a day. His answer completely threw me off-guard: minimum $150 a day! “Troy” told me he migrated from a nearby farm town, to Silicon Valley simply because he knew he would be a more successful panhandler there. He told me he regrets getting facial tattoos at 16, because nobody gave him work. He did not drink or do drugs. He stayed at a local Motel 6 because the management knew he always paid by cash, and silently kept to himself. I asked him why not just save your proceeds and get the tats lasered-off, but he told me it was too painful. He has so much money, because complete strangers actually gave him checks too. The local bank asked him to start an account and gave him a Debit card because they were too embarrassed to see him inside their branches. Troy showed me his ATM slip and I was blown-away his balance was more than mine!One day, Troy passed-away at age 41… complications of Malignant Melanoma, from sitting outside 12 hours/day all these years, without proper shading. The State seized his bank account which I was told amounted to $17,000+.
Is it true that when you think about someone a lot they are also thinking about you?
I had a "dark side" boyfriend for about three years. The attraction was magnetic, animal, profound, exhilarating and terrifying. I didn't understand what kind of effect it would have and I allowed it to carry on for far too long. For most of our relationship we lived about forty miles apart, but lived together as well, and whether we were on or off I could tell when he was thinking about me. I could also literally feel a tether of energy between us, no matter the distance and often felt feelings I was certain weren't mine. I've never before, nor since felt that I was literally experiencing someone else's emotions (this is not like empathy) or I would just chalk it up to my being crazy.Four years of no contact and a few months ago I started thinking of him, obsessively all day. I told my current boyfriend about it and my best friend because it was so visceral. It terrified me. I know what the consequences are now, and I actively resist when I feel this (whatever the hell it is) happening. I spent a long time during that relationship denying that it was real, it wasn't rational to believe that it was possible, it's crazy to think it is possible...but not anymore. It always induces a panic (was a very strange, covertly abusive relationship) and it feels like an intrusion into my mind and body. The next day I received an email from him asking how I was. That's it, four words, nothing more. I didn't reply, haven't felt the feeling since and haven't received any more communications. My sister and I had this connection as well, especially when we were young, but it wasn't to the same degree and was more like a knowing of what the other was feeling, not an actual experiencing of her emotions as if they were mine. My father can sense me, but for some reason I can't sense him very well. There is the random awareness of friends and acquaintances I know are thinking about me and that in a moment they will call, and they do. These are experiences I feel are verified, though that verification is only enough for me and I don't expect to convince anyone else.
Why do you cry when you think of someone?
It sounds like you have feelings for this personYou careAnd it brings up a wave of emotions for youEither a sadness, regret, or missing them, missing their company maybeThis person has captivated your feelingsAnd you cry due to expressionLet this happen, feel them through this truth, what is alerting you, worrying you, is there an attachment, can you solve it, or move past itThese memories will fade with timeFeel it, talk it over with a loved one, and focus on the good feelings too :)
Is it true that if you think about someone, then the same person also thinks about you? Is this a psychological fact?
Consider how many people are there in your life about whom you would think with some regularity - especially when you don't meet often, or even not at all. That number wouldn't be very high. Maybe there are 15-20 such people, on an average - maybe less.Now the same applies to these people, and they too remember you with some frequency. In most cases you wouldn't call them and they wouldn't call you, but sometimes one of you would and the other one would acknowledge that they too had remembered. That's how you find out that this mutual reminiscence worked. But instead of attributing to chance and probability, we attribute it to some invisible force working between people's minds.
Does thinking about someone make them think about you?
Yes, we are very connected moreso than we think and we are also much more sensitive to psychic energy too. Not only can people sense that you are looking at them from very far away (you may not even be able to see their features, and be daydreaming out of a window for example) but they also turn and look exactly where you are o they know where the stare was coming from. Often the time this happens without you even having to think about the person. So we are psychic enough to kno when being looked at.We also know when people are thinking of us sometimes -this is usually people who are more right hemispheric i have noticed it is always people who are more spiritually open than they realise and have good intuition. I will think of them and immeditately they call me. This has now been happening for years and there is no such thing as coincidences, only syncronicities
Would you think someone who did this is weird/ pervert? Mistake I made freshman year?
My freshman year of hs was very hectic. When I first started at my new school I was being bullied, talked about and friends turning their backs against me. I’ve always suffered from anxiety and depression. I was a 13 year old girl who needed friends. There was a girl around school who I thought was really pretty and nice body shape just like mines. I wanted to be her friend. She was a senior. I found her Instagram and found her number under her picture. I was texting her pretending I was someone else, (a boy from school) and asking personal questions like are you a virgin, it doesn’t look like it, it looks like you’ve had sex already. After a couple of hours I finally told her who I really was, and asked her not to get mad or tell ppl that I pretended to be someone else. she said she wouldn’t. She ended up telling the boy who I said I was at first and he contacted my sister and told her. My mom asked was I texting a girl pretending to be someone else and I made up a lie saying someone stole my iPod and was doing that to ppl. They ended up believing me and dropped it. I’m now 19 and I really regret doing it and just needed a friend. Was that sexual harrassment? Could it come back later in life and ruin my career and reputation? I made a mistake. No one got hurt or anything like that. I just desperately needed a friend and took the wrong route for one. I was a dumb kid. It’s not something I’d do again. Also does it seem pervertish? I’ve been feeling terrible about it lately
If you fall asleep thinking of someone, will they have a dream of you?
When You Fall asleep you brain rest from all the thoughts you had in the day..& its most likely to dream about the last thing you thought about doe to the fact that that is the last thought your brain had so yea u will probably dream of that person but i doubt they will dream about you unless they was thinking bout u too ...
Why do I miss someone who hurt me?
Well the psychological explanation for this is quite easy. And knowing the exact reason why you miss someone who has hurt you can and will help you to heal better. With that being said, let’s jump right into it.The most fundamental reason why we miss someone or something is that once it made us feel good. Our brain functions in a very different way than we might assume. It’s job is to keep you safe and happy at this particular moment. That is all it does.Now you may think how is it helping me by reminding me of the very person who screwed me over! Isn’t it the very thing that is causing me pain!And to answer that I will have to tell you that Your brain does not know the freaking difference.If you were in a relationship for a long time, (or even if it was short and you were very much attached to that person) then the chances are whenever you were alone, sad, felt hurt, were happy you shared it with that person and they listened to you or supported you that made you feel good. Our brain releases a hormone call Dopamine that makes us feel good. And it is Highly addictive (It is the same hormone that is released when we smoke, drink and do drugs).Now when they have left you, have hurt you, chances are you are feeling lonely, afraid, empty, sad. And guess what you brain is trying to do to make you feel good. Reminding you of the person who was the reason for that sweet sweet dopamine at times like these,hoping it will make you feel good (Interestingly, this can be a reason why people tend to do drugs and consume alcohol after a heartache, it gives your brain the dose of dopamine it is craving for). But as our brain also knows the very fact that they are not in our life anymore, it causes conflicts between what you know, and what your past behavioral patterns are. This causes the feeling of helplessness. As we know we want something, and can’t get it anymore.To change this just change your behavioral patterns. Talk to someone you like when you feel lonely (Like your crush, a friend, your family), Do things you are passionate about, travel, talk. Do anything and everything (Except drugs, if you don’t want to ruin your life) to give your brain the necessary dose of dopamine so it doesn’t crave it from that particular person. And with time, your brain will form new habits, connect your happiness to new things and people, and one day you will wake up and realize that you have moved on.