What should I do if my father beats my mother?
I feel very bad when I remember of this type of moment happened with my mom which my dad suppose to do same thing.I was tolerating this from past 3 years then my limit of patience have crossed then I've taken action against this. Said to day “Back off otherwise I'll do anything” he gave me bad words and pushed me again I said “Back off now it's enough” again he did same thing and I got uncontrolled and start hitting him and pushed him away he felt down and start screaming loudly then he was started making noises to attract neighbors of my besides. No one came in middle of our argument cause everybody know my father that how was he treating us. Then after hitting him I took my mother to local police station to give a compliant of this so we will be secure of giving first compliant.Then after giving compliant when I back to home he was not in the house went out even I grabbed his mobile phone cause he will call unnecessary people in middle of this fight. After this my dad never hits my mother. Then he felt guilt that my son hit me cause I made a mistake and did over.This was my experience which I shared with you. Dude it feels really bad when we see our mother is tolerating this. When we are still alive to safe them. Get up and raise your voice and take action. Don't get afraid of relatives and other people's they are just to have fun and watch action and nothing else. Please give me update if this works.
How would you feel if your child flinched when raising your hand to scratch your head ?
I've never hit my child and he flinches when someone raises their hands. He plays sports and has been hit in the face and head a few times, so its natural reaction if something is close to his face moving to flinch. It doesnt always mean abuse.
What do dreams about snakes biting your child mean?
For about a week now I have had the same dream of my 4 year old son being bit by a rattle snake. I am always in my house and can see the snake going towards him but am unable to scream or run to him. I can feel myself trying to wake up and when I do I always wake up and jumpy like when you feel like you are falling. And during the day when I am awake I see signs of snakes. Saw a shirt with a picture of a snake on it and the word snake above it, little nephew now has a stuffed animal snake, saw a huge billboard with the word snake in capitalized and bold letters. It's like someone or something is trying to warn me about a snake. All I know is I am exhausted from not sleeping well and it is stressing me out! Any ideas at all on what could be going on?
My mother slapped me across the face and i slapped her back. Should I feel bad?
You should never hit a woman. You are old enough that you could cause damage. Men have larger muscles than women even at your age. It does not make it ok that she hit you but instead of hitting you should have walked away. Do not let her turn you into a woman hitter. It will ruin your life.
Is it child abuse if a parent hits you when angry?
Hitting a child is child abuse, whatever the motivation the parent has. Having a “reason” for a behavior does not make it okay, does not justify it.So, whether a parent it angry or not, or whether the child “did anything to deserve it” or not, there is no excuse for hitting a child.I include spanking here, as well as slapping or punching or shoving.I call this abuse, but what the law may judge as abuse in one jurisdiction or another may vary. The last time I checked spanking was legal in all states but Minnesota, and I think that one or two Scandinavian countries outlawed it. However, it would be up to local authorities to judge whether the line had been crossed, even in spanking, to a point that intervention by the State was required.I once had a teacher say that he defines “abuse” as anything short of adequate nurturing. Also it is important to understand that the parent does not need to intend to be abusive. A parent who makes a mistake about parenting that harms a child, may have been abusive, such as a parent who is too harsh, etc. And again, intent is not an excuse. Anger is not an excuse. Custom and tradition is not an excuse. A child being particularly “naughty” is not an excuse.There is just no excuse for hitting another person.While saying that, most likely every parent has been guilty of child abuse or child neglect, without meaning to now or then. All parents make mistakes, lose their tempers. Most parents yell, and many parents may spank or hit their children even though it was something they said they would never do.Whether this is an isolated incident that can be mended to created a better parent/child dynamic or whether this is part of a pattern of escalating battery can’t be figured out from the question. Any child who has been hit can confide in a teacher or school counselor for further help.
A parent slaps a child so hard it causes a nose bleed,what does the parent need to do?
I hope these answers will be read and taken to heart. By people who need to see them. Even if it is the first time when anger over comes love in this fashion it is a strong warning! Help is needed. Just once is not acceptable. Just once could change a childs life forever or end it. Any parent under so much stress that they snap in this fashion, no matter what a child has said or done, is in need of assistance of some kind. Assistance is available and a parent seeking this kind of help will be seen as a courageous loving parent, top notch! Will be seen as a self sacrificing parent who truely has the best interest of thier child at heart