How do I know if a woman rejects me when I ask her out because she was actually busy?
Oh, this is an easy one. I have given advise to a ton of people over the years and this question comes up pretty often.You do what I call the "Acid Test." The acid test is basically this:You ask a woman out. She basically has two options:She says "yes" and goes out with you.ORShe does not go out with you and will generally give you a reason why she cannot. Sometimes she will be clear (great), sometimes she might not be.If her answer is vague... Assuming this is the first time you are asking the girl or that you know she is not lying to you, then you accept her answer as fact. Perhaps she is very busy.However immediately after that, this is what you do:You ask her “When would it be a good time for us to go *insert whatever plans you had in mind.”If she likes you, she will try to give you an exact time -- "Next Saturday I will be free." If she says something like "in about two weeks," in a flirting manner ask her when, specifically but don't be pushy, tell her that "you might be free that weekend, perhaps the Saturday but you can discuss details at a later time." If she is okay with it, then give her a window that you can confirm with her.If she still cannot give you a time, at that point you have come clean about your intentions and she will know it, thus if she wants to go out with you then she will call you back because she ultimately wants to go out with you.If she does not like you, she will be vague and will keep it vague. Remember not to press her decision. If she is vague then right there you have your answer.If that happens then respectfully and gracefully bow out and keep your dignity. Do not pester her or cling to the idea that all of the sudden you will ask her and she will be like, "But of course!"She knows you like her and if you keep on asking her then you will only look desperate and you will be wasting your time.At this point, your best bet is to just move on. It is better for you and chances are, she will also want you to move on too.
Ever have a woman bump into you with her...?
I'm just trying to get the truth from women out there. When a woman is standing next to a man, and lets her breast touch your arm, is this intentional? Is it flirting, or just carelessness. Or, better yet, how about when a woman bends over and exposes cleavage...is this intentional? Are all of these things just carelessness, or am I getting hit on?
When a girl says she was busy working that's the reason she could not message you back, does it mean I should back off?
During normal awake hours, say 10am to 10pm, if a woman regularly takes longer than 60 minutes to respond to a message…she is not interested in you for dating.if she regularly takes a day or longer she is not interested in being friends with you either.I know lots of women. They all check their phone every 10 minutes. So if they regularly take a long time to get back to you they are doing it on purpose.Unfortunately as a guy you have to be prepared for rejection. You should be talking to 3 or more girls at the same time until one shows you real interest. Girls are talking to more than one guy as well. So you should do the same. Stay polite but don’t be a pushover.When women behave like they’re not interested after a few weeks of you trying you should forget about them and delete their number. They are a waste of time.
I love a girl who told me that she had feelings, but not anymore. I don't want to give up, I want to get her feelings back. What are some suggestions about that?
Before I answer your question, let me tell you my story.I dated this guy for about six months, but we broke up. I missed him like crazy, and I still miss him so much. I tried talking to him several times, but left me on read. I thought that I could still make him love me again, and didn’t stop trying. I was really dumb now that I think about it. I should’ve known that his feelings turned away long time ago, and I should have really stopped it there. I feel like I ruined our good memories together because of how I acted afterwards. I still like him, but I know that there is a 0% chance that we would ever be together, so I’m not hopeful anymore. I learned to be a little more chill and not care so much about him. I miss him to the point, where if I’m talking to someone I like, it feels so strange because it’s not the person I’m used to. It makes me want to stop everything and just tell my ex that I miss him and love him so much. Many times I had to stop myself from calling him. But I need to let it go. I know that it won’t work out, so I need to let it go. I regret so much of the wrong things I did to him when he was next to me, but there isn’t a point of regretting anymore. I learned my lesson from him, and I just need to stop making more. It just pains me that we won’t ever be the same, and he cannot be the one I can cry to, and say I love you to.Okay so your question, I think that maybe you should stop and leave it the way it is right now. It can ruin the good memories she had of you, and she might even grow tired of you. I know that it’s hard, and you want to seize the chance every time you can, but you gotta let it go. It takes awhile, and it might even take a couple of years. You’ll get better as time goes by, and it’ll slowly start to get dull. Her feelings are gone, and there isn’t anything you can do to make her fall for you again. You need to act naturally and live as the person that she liked before. You cannot force her to like her, but you can make her fall for you again naturally. She did love you at one point, so you just need to know what kind of you that she liked. Don’t text her or call her, no matter how sad you are. Be the same old you and if she falls, she falls for you. If she doesn’t she doesn’t. Find another woman who will love you. I can really relate to your question.
Why do women have to be so spoiled?
i walked up to a girl i thought was cool i wasnt even tryna get with her i just thought she was cool and i walked up to her and said like any polite person would say......hi she said-HI????????? (as if she expected me to say more) and ignored me FOR SAYING HI why do girls expect guys to always use come extravegent pick up lines or do back flips for them why is it that you have to be rude to get there attention because im not about to degrade myself and do magic tricks for some broad i dont even know they seem to expect you to have so extremly catchy introduction why cant i just introduce myself like a human being and not a sex starved desperate guy
Is saying "Yes Ma'am" considered rude?
I get this at least 3 times a year, "Don't call me ma'am, I'm not a grandma!" then stomp away like a two year old. I use to feel bad but I've worked retail so long that now its hilarious. You did the right thing don't let her get to you. Its women who have issues w/ their age, that's their own fault. Don't think you have to change just cuz of a few idiots. I'm super nice to all my customers but I hate the ones that to turn my polite cheeriness into something I should feel bad for, which is at least once a day. I ignore it or like an other answerer said I'll overreact too just to be spiteful :) They think I'm already being rude so I'm gonna give them a real reason to say so! I say ma'am to any girl, its just a habit. A little girl comes up to me and asks if I can reach a candy for her, I'll say "Yes ma'am, I sure can" I always had ppl say ma'am to me no matter my age. My uncles, the pharmacist who'd always give me a lollipop when I was 5, I never knew it was meant only for women. If you want to avoid angering petty women then you can drop the sirs and ma'ams all together. I find that saying Miss seems to piss ppl off more. A coworker said "Here you go miss" handing change to a young lady w/o a ring and the husband appeared and grabbed the lady and said to ALL of us "We're married!!" I tried just once, I never did it again. "Just cuz I'm eating alone you think I'm old and lonely, fyi I am in fact married, I don't need your miss, Miss!" I was 16 at my first job. I don't see why ppl look for reasons to get mad over stupid little things, can't evil ppl just get their crap and get out w/o ruining my day too.
My girlfriend beats me up and hurts me but she is pregnant and I wouldnt dare touch a woman. What should I do?
Do you do something to trigger her to hurt you. Being pregnant has a lot to do with it too, her hormones are going crazy and even the slightest irritation can set her off. Just try and understand that shes sensitive, and try not to get in her way so she wont have a reason to hit you. Give her foot rubs and cook for her would be the best thing.