My Wife and my Parents HATE each other. What should I do?
You can't, sadly. Just keep them as far apart as possible. Let your parents know that their animosity toward your wife will keep them from spending time with you, since the two of you are a family now, and you won't see them without her. That should make them tolerate her, at least. And ask her to respect them because they are your parents, and at least be civil. The time this will get complicated is when and if you have kids. Just hang in there. My husband and my parents do not get along so well, but I have made it clear that they will at least TRY for my sake, and for the sake of our daughter. OR, my parents just won't see their grandchild, which is unacceptable to them, so everyone does their best to get along. I really wish you luck. I have been married for 10 years. It does get easier over time.
How should we behave with our parents?
How should we behave with our parents With out any wrinkle in face when they say something to obey. We should talk to them with a low voice as respect We should ask forgiveness to our parents when we commit a mistake knowingly or annoyingly. Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) said that if you do good deeds with your parents it is worth Salah, Zakah, Fasting, Hajj, Umra and Jihad. We shall obey our parents with a good behavior like show respect when your parents are talking. It is our duty to look after their needs and comfort them with your respect. and last not the least.. ""When they are old we shall take care of them so that they will never feel neglected."" Sending them to old age house , sending them somewhere away just because we are busy in our life and cant take care of them. This is will be betrayal to Allah(swt) first , then injustice to our parents.
My parents saw me making out.What shall i do?
My parents had gone out for a few days and i called up my friends for a movie at home.By evening everyone left except for my boyfriend.We chatted for a while and then he thought of the inevitable.I too complied.However, while we were making out in the kitchen my folks turned up.Though i was nearly dressed up they saw him fondling my breasts. Embarresed , they left for their rooms and my friend after apologising left for his home.I felt very ashamed.My mom scolded me a bit but probably understood but my father has stopped talking to me since.It has been a week.What shall i do now?
How can i stop my parents from having sex?
My parents are having SEX!? i hear my parents are havimg sex alot every single day and its disturbing you could here them all the way in the living room and sometimes they think we are asleep and they have sex really loud i am 14 and me and my sister hear them alot it makes us trow up becouse its SO loud! and they scream saying "HARDER" its GROSSSS!!!!!!!! how can i make them stop! ahhh help me!
Why should we respect our parents?
It must be our natural duty/responsibility to respect parents as parents give you birth, love you, rear you,educate you unconditionally. Parents don't expect anything in return from children for caring them/feeding them/ educating them. Parents wish always that their children would do well in life and be useful to the family and society. So if you are grown up children doing some job and started earning, keep talking to your parents regularly,share with them some good experiences you had in day to day life . Remember, talking to parents over phone if you are in different place once in a while say weekly once should make you and your parents happy. Parents also should make it a point to talk to their children whether young or grown up. You show your respect/concern to your parents by your words and deeds also. For example, if you are doing a job and busy when your parents call you, tell them that your are busy now and you would call back later once you are free. Don't ask them to call you back later at so and so time, instead tell them that you would call yourself once you are free. Telling your parents that you would call back and call them as promised would mean that you respect your parents wholeheartedly. These are small things, but reinforce mutual bonding which is necessary in leading a meaningful life for both the children and parents alike. Talking frequently would avoid communication gaps between children and parents.
Should we tell everything to our parents?
Should we? I have a difficult time saying "yes" but that's because I don't. In reality, I don't think you should because the information that you tell your friends and other family members is separated as well. I don't think there are things that other people should ever know about you because of the personal nature. On the other hand, you know the audience that you're divulging information to and you know what their reaction will be if you divulge something.There's at least one example that I can think of that should never be discussed with anyone and that's sex. When I say sex, I'm talking about what you do during your performances, the props you use, how you like it, your fetishes, your fantasies. Are these things that you'd be comfortable telling your parents about?Now for negative type information, I have a personal situation that I still haven't informed either of my parents about and that's the long distance relationship that I'm in. I haven't told either parent for two very different reasons.I haven't told my dad because it would surely mean that we wouldn't be able to see each other as often as we do because I'd be moving out of state. Knowing that I'd be moving out of state would break his heart but it's something that he'd be more supportive about than my mom. When I do make the choice to pursue the long distance relationship to the next level, I will tell my dad.As for my mom, I haven't told her about the long distance relationship for one reason and one reason only. The reason is the age difference between her and I. My mom severely frowns on large age differences in intimate relationships. I have asked my mom why she feels this way and she's never been able to give me a clear cut reason. I know in the end, if I do decide to leave the state, my mom will know the reason and it's something that she'll have to overcome.When it comes to sharing information, you will only divulge what you want to individuals (this encompasses any friend or family member) based on the information you have about that person and whether or not you'll be judged for what you say. No one likes to be judged, especially by their parents because they are supposed to love you unconditionally.So in the end, should you tell your parents everything, my answer is no.
How often should you visit your parents?
I think it all depends on what kind of relationship you have with them. Me personally...My fiance and I do this Sunday dinner with our parents every Sunday...it gives us a chance to catch up on things that happened through the week...yet we don't feel tied down to see them through out the week.
Should I follow my dreams or do what my parents say?
In my entire span of career counselling, i have come across students who very timidly put this question across, “Should i follow my dreams or do what my parents say?”Lets understand why children feel the need to follow what their parents say, and why they are so uncertain about following their own dreams.Many Parents, bury their children under a mountain of guilt. They hope to achieve their unfulfilled dreams through their off-springs. They pin great amount of hopes, build great pressures on their children to achieve what they “think” their children should achieve. Hence, they very subtly and sometimes not so subtly force their opinions on their children.Their children, out of their sense of duty, try and fulfill the dreams of their parents.Sometimes, children are not left with enough options to exercise their own will, they are often told that they have no clue what is good for them.The age at which they need to make a career choice for themselves is quite a vulnerable age. They generally are indecisive and uncertain in their decisions because they don’t have the years of experience to help them navigate through their options and make clear choicesNow, coming to Should you follow your dreams or do as your parents say. I make the following recommendations.Are you absolutely certain of your Strengths, Weakness? Have you made an honest introspection about yourself?How badly do you want to do, what you want to do? How far have ‘You’ made the effort to research the courses available, options available, scope for the study as well as the career?Are you revolting against your parent’s career advises for you because you are being a Rebel or because you really think what they have advised you is really a bad choiceOnce you have asked yourself the above mentioned questions, you will have a fair understanding of should you follow your dreams, or the advise of your parents.