My dad is mad at me, what should i do?
Well i hate to put it this way..But approach him at the right time..Everyone has a time in the day when they're in a good mood rite whether its eating or goin for a walk Or something.. Just come up and approach him and tell him what you told us. make sure you sincerly apologize and explain the misunderstanding it will be ok..xoxo goodluck
My dad beats me, what should I do?
he just beat me up like about 20 minutes, I cant just stop cryings. It hurts soo bad it actually burns me! I feel so bad! I just hate him. He's always saying im so disrespectful and takes off his shoe or belt, and beleive me, the belt is the worst that ca happen to you. He has anger problems but seriously nobody need to tell him. When my brothers were little, we would jut hit and hit them. Im out of school today, and yesterday he asked if i had school on friday, i said NO. And kept bothering me with the im gonna wake you early. So minutes ago, He comes in and says: do you have school on firday? And i made a duh sign and he beat the crap out o f me. ,y mom always protects me and stops him, otherwise i would be dead. I swear. I just feel like crap and actually weeks later he left the biggest bruise on my leg you can imagine. My friends were shocked, but i lied to them. I just need help, please ):
What should I do if my dad is abusing me?
I’m very sorry you’re in this position. And you didn’t mention your age, but I’m assuming you’re still a minor?If so, I realize it can be difficult to know how to reach out for help. But do you have any other trusted adults in your life? Extended family, school counselor, teachers, youth leaders, etc.? Perhaps you could approach them about what’s been going on and see what direction and intervention they can offer.Or if that’s not an option, I’ve even heard of an abuse hotline for reporting issues like this called the National Organization for Victim Assistance (NOVA) at 1-800-879-6682. So, that might be something to consider.I hope you’re able to reach out for help…
My dad just hit me, what do I do?
Unfortunately, your question is very generic without possible extenuating details, working with that, watch for triggers that anger him and always have an exit strategy, do not get cornered, if your mother is in the picture, where is she in all this? If it is bad enough, are you prepared to go into foster care? Is there another family member you can reach out to and possibly reside with? If you are female, do not make the mistake of leaving with the first man that will have you. Try finding activities outside the home, like volunteering or sports, maybe church to help lessen time there. It is a very difficult situation, and you will live with the repercussions the rest of your life, let it shape you into a better person, do not follow in his footsteps, and realize that you can not control another’s anger, only your own. Work on making yourself a better, self sufficient person to get out of this situation in a good way..
My dad is hogging the TV what should I do?
How much of the family bills do you pay? If the answer is not more than 50%, then let him keep hogging the tv, or learn to like what he is watching. You can watch many shows on the internet, if you are truly interested.
My dad choked me; what should I do?
I am a fifteen year old girl. One day my dad insists helping me on my homework. After growing increasingly frustrated with me, for the last few hours of helping me with homework he starts physically hurting me for my homework mistakes. This included harshly slapping my face, arms, and thigh; pulling me by my ear (it was mildly sore for awhile afterwards); and choking me a few times (firmly clutching and lightly but firmly squeezing my neck and not letting me go,) Now I know many parents have done the former two but when he started choking me I was more than a little concerned. The morning after he chokes me again in the same way as the day before, for not packing my schoolbag earlier. Throughout his physical contact these two days, he yells threats intimidatingly. I remember him telling my mom during this time, "The only way she's going to get any homework done is if I keep hitting her." My dad has always hit me and spanled me but ever since my dad slapped my face in eighth grade (it was enough to leave a hand-shaped welt on my face for a few minutes) for not putting my dirty socks away, I've had a nearly nonexistent relationship with him. For months afterwards I could not let him be near me without me sweating, feeling nervous, cringing, and facing him so he doesn't hit my rear end. I could barely look him in the eye and oftentimes I still can't. For about a year afterwards it (along with all the intimidating threats and voice-raising he's done in the past) would always hang in my mind and I'd spontaneously cry about it. I don't ever let him get physically close to me now and I absolutely hate him hugging me. I'm not emotionally close to him because he thinks I talk nonsense all the time. What should I do?
I caught my dad in a lie, what should I do?
My dad had a piece of land that he promised me ages ago would be mine. In 2018, we discussed building an investment property on it. But I found out that it was sold in Jan. Last week I brought up the investment property again and my plans to start building soon, but he avoided admitting sale and kept changing the subject. The land was sold for $120K. Knowing this, I asked him for $3K. He said he doesnt have it. Should I bring up that I know he sold the land and has money? How should I say it?
What should I do when I see my dad crying?
A2A !!If they're openly crying, I'd just keep your mouth shut. Sit next to them, maybe give a support and see if they'll tolerate you or move off to cry in private. If they don't get up, it's a pretty good indication they're okay with you there.Lean into them a little to test the waters. Seriously. They might not want to be touched. But if it's all okay, work your way into an embrace.I honestly recommend saying nothing. Not even “You'll be okay.” Let THEM talk.Don't ask if they want to talk about it. Don't ask if they'll be okay. Don't say you're here for them. Just wait until they open up. Your presence should be enough for them to know you're listening.Just let them cry and say you're there for them. Best thing in my experience they will do that talking that is necessary and you respond but being there is most important.Hope this helps Pranav Yadav