What would you do in her situation?
My best friends family is into drugs and she isn't. It tears her up because they make her feel like and outsider and not apart of the family. She is going to school and is married and planning a future for herself but she wants her family to be apart of it. She wants them to see through her that things can be better. She has been through so much and anyone else in her position would be a crack whore but she has an inner strength that they don't have. She needs advice on how get through this. She loves going home and visiting but what makes it nice to go home is only because no one talks about the problems or issues they have. What should I tell her
I lost a friend, was I wrong in this situation?
So we were hanging out for a few months, I’m 19 & they’re 21. I had issues going on and they came over and we’re there for me. I genuinely cared about them but one day they texted me asking if I could come by & we could do something because they were going through stuff with their family. I didn’t get back to them because I wasn’t okay mentally myself, how could I be there for someone when I am not even good myself?! I wasn’t being fake, and I told them this, & they blocked me. I have to put myself first &a if someone doesn’t like that then that’s their problem. What do you think??
What should I do in this situation with my friends?
Let them go . There is no forcing people into a relationship even friendship. Your devastation is natural because once you were a gang , a single entity and now divisive forces have crept in and you want to hold it together , but you cannot as the effort has to be mutual, for your own peace of mind stick with the one friend who shares your opinion, stay in touch with others and find out if there isn't something else that is troubling them .Let them know that you are there for them and if they value your friendship they will come back some day , if they don't then consider yourself lucky because the pain of staying in a one-sided friendship is nastier .
What should I do in a situation where a friend has taken money from me promising to return it in 4 days but still has not returned it even after 45 days and keeps giving silly reasons and dates?
It depends up on the amount of Money being lended... If it is affordable by you to payback to your own bank account, forget money and as SAID FRIEND...If you are not affordable to Leave the money, Pray god for the same....Cheers,Sridhar Alluri.
What should I do about my friends abandoning me in this situation?
I think you are already doing the thing you should do about this situation. You are staying away from this group of friends.What happened is bad and will affect you for a long time. It is a learning experience. While it would be right for these folks to show care and concern for you and what you went through, and it would also be right if the girl or her mother paid for your expenses, that isn’t going to happen. Yes, that is unfair. These kinds of things happen in life. It isn’t right, and it isn’t fair. But they happen.So thankfully you have someone who helped you out. You have a working car again. You are not having anything to do with that group of friends. So now you continue to move forward with your life, and leave these people in your past.
What should I do or say to my friend in a difficult situation?
Thanks for A2A :)Well you are his friend so you will know better how to console him. All i can say to you is just be with him. Because in situations like this people feels lonely and they wants someone who can stay near to them.He won't say anything to you but from your side you have to understand him and just be with him and support him. Just try to motivate him.
A drunk friend kissed me. What should I do in a situation like this?
So I went out with friends to a party and then a guy who I have crush on kissed me. And yeah, we made out a bit. He sent me text next morning that he hope he didn’t give me impression that he wants to jump into relationship, he was drunk and was caught up at the moment, but definetly opening up to hang out and see what will happen next.So I texted him that I’m no ready for relationship but I’m willing to hang out and see. Now we met at school and barely talk about things and I feel like he’s avoiding me. I’m not a popular girl or cute girl, or is attractive.I think he’s regretting of kissing me and trying to avoid and let me forget. Is it better that I forget and just pretend nothing happened ? Or I’d better text him or something? I really need some advice here because I’ve never had this experience, a crush kissing me. Thanks for reading this long question.
What should I do in a situation where the closest friends turn into enemies and spoil your image behind you?
If you are innocent then Simply be silent and don't react ! Some time existence gives us chance to come out from negative company , Dont miss this opputunity , you will miss if you react in any kind , Your very reaction will give them juice to act more ,yes you may respond to others regarding the issues but don't react in answer referring to them , your any reaction will create a bridge towards them so be cautious about the reaction , reaction is a chain and if you don't react then by the period of time that little past chain will also finish ! So be aware about the reaction which is natural because that's what a common man can do ,the common attitude is to prove through debate , fight blah blah which is simply a waist of energy , so don't act as common man , rather respond wisely , if you remain silent and pateint on issues then you will come out as new man ! A new man free from garbage which he was carrying .Think over it that what you want .want to proove yourself or step ahead !That's what I have done ! Step ahead !