What should I do about my family problems?
A2AWelcome to the Real Life!Who does not have family problems? Who does not have issues which take up their time and energy? Is there one family on this planet without a problem? Even Ambanis have had their share of problems and being rich does not solve them - you can take my word for it, I've been a part of an affluent and wealthy family since I gained consciousness but we have had our issues.Calling your father useless shows your mindset. He's sick - that's is misfortune. Tomorrow even you can be sick. Nobody can control that. Even richest of the rich people have had diseases like cancer and no, their family members do not disown them saying that they're useless! If you have an ill father its your responsibility to take care of him. If you don't want to do that then somewhere you're proving the point that he did an extremely wrong thing by caring for you when you were a child and making you capable of writing this question here on a social media website! He should've abandoned you in your childhood and let you beg in streets, you'd have grown up in an even poorer environment and then maybe you'd dream to be a part of this family!Its just that sometimes we do not value what we have until even that is lost and we are left with nothing. We don't understand the value of our family or parents until they're away from us or we lose them.Your family problems aren't something to worry about - but your mindset is! Till the moment you do not change your mindset you can never have a content or happy life. Tomorrow even if you become a millionaire you will again be desolate and depressed about something or the other. Mark my words! Money does not reduces your problems.Today if you die of a disease for which you cannot afford a treatment, tomorrow you might die of a disease which is not possible to cure in this world. The bottom line is - YOU WILL DIE. Death comes to all. Rich people aren't spared and its better to change your mindset before its too late!
Do you have any family problems at home?
as most, i dont want to spill my life over a computer screen but ill say a few things that dont bother me so much to say. my parents got divorced before i could talk. now i live with my step mom and my dad because my step dad and mom were drug addicts, and alcoholics who didnt give a damn about me. i was 14 when i left their house and went to my dads because they were always out somewhere, always high, never paid attention to me, and had me sent away to ten brook (if you know what that is) its a boys home because they didnt want to deal with me. keep in mind, i didnt do a thing that was bad at that time, they just didnt want the responsibility of a kid. now that im at my dads and step moms house, its okay. my dads really cool, but my step mom hates me. shes always popping pills and trying to get me kicked out of my house because she wants it to be just her and my dad and she sees me as an intrusion. we dont get along at all, and makes it even harder for me and my dad to be cool because he tends to choose her over me. shes called the cops on me twice just to get me sent out of the house, when i had to go to court for a possession charge she lied and said i had beat her just to get me sent away. my dad knew nothing about it until i called him from jail. he got me out. because of all of that, i guess you could say ive acted out. i do a lot of drugs, i drink, i want to drop out of high school.. etc. ive really given up on life. ive attempted suicide more times than i can count. many by overdose because im too much of a panzy to want to feel pain. every time ive tried to overdose, i just end up getting myself really really high. my family has told me time and time again to kill myself, that no one wants me. and its worked. the only reason im alive today is because of my friends and juggalo family. they have done EVERYTHING for me. they comfort me when i need it, they always have my back, and they never leave my side. they are the only constant comforting thing i have in my life. i would die for them in a heartbeat. i get judged SO much by people who have no idea how i live, what i deal with, and what ive become. i wish more people could see what people have to deal with, but then again, i wouldnt want anyone to have to experince what i have.
What should we do when we have a family problem?
Each and every member of the family is responsible to maintain the decipline and systemToday we find nuclear families were both husband & wife are working they are just busy in chasing thier own career needs, in this race they forget to look after a house, thier own kids needs his academic performance these couples have lot of money but no time to be at home even on weekends also they have different plans in advance to be with the other people but not with the family and saying flawlessly it's part of our work or we too have our own life. Ultimately inviting problems.How disgusting. ..Windup your work in time shut your phones sit with your own family your kids talk share laugh help each other at your “HOME”give the best you canwhich may help to sort out your N no of problems.
How to comfort a girl with family problems?
why does her mom hurt her in the first place? she needs to ask herself if she had done wrong or is doing something wrong. if yes she has to correct her own mistakes. If no, but her mom hurts her still why not run away for a while? but not totally cutting communicating with her mom. Tell your friend that she is someday going to have her own family and this is only a lesson in her life to better prepare her in becoming a parent. She should learn from her mom's mistakes and become more loving and caring. Tell her not to take revenge or grudges but to do her very best to make her mom feel that she is loved by her.
Can I tell my teacher about my family problems?
Learning need good atmosphere mentally and physically. As a learner is important to maintain such good atmosphere. Every teacher try to maintain that too, so as the lesson can be well understood by students. It is good if you have family problems to tell or consult your teacher. No matter what kind of problem you have just do it. It is important to do so due to the followings:. Teacher is professional in matters of guidance and counselling. So he or she can help you to do the right decisions.. You are the one who fill the gap between teacher and your parent or family.. Teacher will be aware of what is going on with you. So he or she will create suitable means and methods to help you understand and concentrate on your studies.
How can I help my boyfriend with his family problem?
Getting involved in a loved one’s family problems is like going into a deep mineshaft without any light at all and never finding your way out. You can’t help your boyfriend with his family and even if you did, they wouldn’t appreciate your interference.It’s time for your boyfriend to grow up and face the music. Mom isn’t going to love him as much as the daughter and that’s why he has a girlfriend. He’s a man now and it’s time to accept the love of another adult and return the love as well and forget about mom. He doesn’t have to shut her completely out of his life but his concern needs to be with his life and responsibilities, which includes you.Thanks for the request.
How does one tackle family problems?
Hi Family problems is the most common issue in almost every house(India). Family problems arises when there is a lack of mutual understanding between the family members.First of all find out where the main problem is coming from eg. If there is some money related problem then sit along with your family members and discuss the problem, tell them it's just a bad phase of time and will recover fast if all tie together. 90% of the problems can be solved only by discussing and taking the facts and analysing them.Most of the problems are psychological rather than being a realistic problem. The environment at the time of a bad phase is the very affective on the thinking of the family members.Lack of trust among the family members,generation gap, mismatching of thinking of the family members etc. are some of the main reasons for family problems.Tackling of family problems depends only and only on the family members because nobody else can understand the real cause of the problem other than the members itself.Generation Gap- Kill this thing! Kill it!!Today 90% of the youth problems are due to this devil!Young generation should understand that their elders are far more experienced than them. Their thoughts may seem like old fashioned but are full of wisdom. Elders have seen the way much before on which young generation is now going on.Youngsters should respect their elders and must not let this chance of getting experience from their elders. Elders effectively know how to tackle family problems.Have conversations with your elders and and must do analysis on their words of wisdom.Break the ice!- Don't feel shy in sharing your feelings or thoughts with your elders and family members. The more you speak the more they trust.There are many cases in which the matter could be solved in no time but was extended so far just due to lack of conversations between the family members. Feel free to discuss your problems with your parents they'll tell you what's wrong or right. Never hesitate in talking about your personal experiences with parents. This makes a bonding of trust between parents and children.Well these are some key things which one should do to tackle family problems.I know it's not a proper answer but still satisfying.Thank you.
Should i tell my boyfriend about my family problems?
well, my boyfriend and i have been dating for one year now but we broke up for the last 2 months and now we're seeing each other again. So today i'm gonna see him just for talking and spend some time together and i'm sure that he will tell me everything happened to him during these 2 months when i was not around. My problem is, should i tell him that i'm going through big family issues? i'm scared if i tell him that he will change or accuse me for being like my parents (in other meaning maybe he will think that i might leave him or cheat on him just like my parents did in their relationship), which will reduce his trust in me and this will probably lead to a serious damage to our relation. I feel like i insanely need to tell him but very scared at the same time. Am i exaggerating with my fear? please help :(