What should I do for my Future?
Hello, I need some advice... I'm 21 years old After finishing college, I did nothing for 2 years. I did apply to some jobs and apprenticeships but never got accepted. So at 20 I decided to apply to Uni and got it, but I backed out just before because I dont want to do something I woudnt enjoy. So now I got a job as a chef , which I dont see me doing after 6 months... I really like doing diffrent things, such as sports, arts , languages, nature, science and more. I like all these things but I dont see a future for myself in any of these, due to lack of education or dedication for one specific subject. Ive thought of doing a lot of diffrent things but I dont have love for any specific job. My only option right now seems to be working my *** off for 5 years or more,to start a business and I dont even see that happening because life never goes the way you plan it. I just dont see myself having a good future, I really want too for myself and my parents but its just depressing because I am stuck in this spot that makes me incredibly hopeless. Should I go to uni? For something I would probably lose interest in... Work a job I dont want to for 5+ years to start a business? I just dont know... I would really like some advice.
I feel lost about my future, what should I do?
You are trying to solve a problem with your intellect that it wasn’t created to solve.Here’s what I mean:The logical mind works linearly: Step 1, step 2, step 3, and you’ve reached your goal.The problem with this is that the world isn’t linear.Life is a living organism, which means it is unpredictable and nonlinear.If you doubt this to be true, just take a look at how practically any company was founded.Or how your relationship with your significant other came to be.Or how you came to live in the place you currently live in.Practically none of it is the result of a linear plan.It follows from this that the logical mind isn’t very well suited to map our way far into the future or to accomplish more complicated things.What the intellect is actually intended for is to be a lookout, to warn us when we’re about to steer into trouble.When used efficiently, the intellect’s only role is to have veto power over anything we are doing.If something looks like a bad, irresponsible idea, the intellect can veto that plan of action.To mutilate a famous proverb, the intellect makes a great servant and a terrible master.If you let the intellect run the show, you are going to drown in thought through analysis, doubt, second-guessing and anxiety.You are going to get stuck, because the intellect doesn’t have the ability to guide any further than it can see (and it can’t see very far).You ARE intuition itself.Let it guide you, and just remember that you have the right to veto if what you are doing seems like a bad idea.
He says maybe in the future.. what should i do?
So me and my ex have been broken up for almost a year or more, its been a on and off thing but off for a year but we always tend to still hangout eventually. So he says that for right now "hes not feeling me" that im his first love hell always love me but, hes not in love with me so he wants to do him, and just be free that if its meant to be for us that itll be. He doesn't stop me from not dating other poeple, but he says it does bother him but that for right now its the best thing for the both of us to move on..... my mom today told me something that bothered me.. she said that she doesn't think hell ever look at me romantically again to date again... but that maybe hell always have this special love for me but not like that... it hurts and i need good advice from other people just to help me rationalize everything better instead of thinking inside the box so much. Thank you.
What should I do if I am so tense about my future and career?
Why not try to do something in order to achieve your goal.Try to do something everyday that takes you one step nearer to your goal. Rather than stressing or getting tensed about it, why not do something to achieve it. Trust me when you wake up with dedication and determination in your eyes to acheive a good future and work really hard for it the whole day, then when you go to sleep at night you will have satisfactpry feeling within yourself that- “Yes you really did something productive today.”Try to make the most of your day, everyday and soon it will become a habit of yours. Work towards your career and try to make yourself better everyday. This way you won’t be tensed at all and will be achieve what ever you want to in life.Hard work, dedication and determination can only help you achieve your goals. Stop procrastinating and get your things done!
I am confused about my future. What should I do?
learn some valuable skills that you can use to make a decent living. Don't worry about whether or not it's your passion, just do it. Learn not to complain or whine about you situation. It's unattractive and nobody wants to hear it. Find something to do that you don't hate, and learn how to do it very well. Make sure it's something that will provide everything you need. Your job needs to provide for your expenses, fund your future, and cover any emergent issues that arise. If it doesn't do all of those things then you can't have that job, regardless of how much you like it. Go out and work and try to have a good time doing it. Avoid drugs and alcohol. You'll be fine.
What should i do for future reference?
there is this guy that i recently met and we've gone out a handful of times. i make myself seem very indecisive, when in actuality i'm not. since i don't know him very well, it's hard for me to suggest things to do, or places to go. so every time he ask me about something, i just say it doesn't matter. the other night we went out to eat and he paid the bill and i was going to leave the tip. i asked him how much he wanted me to leave since i didn't know how much the total was and he told me, "can't you decide anything" i was a little taken back, but i just let it go. i don't want him to get annoyed at me or turn him off, so what are some suggestions on how i can seem less indecisive?
I'm really worried about my future. What should I do?
Try to analyze yourself, Think in this way 1) Since you told, you have social anxiety, i hope i picturing your state in correct manner,You might be speaking less to people, you might have less close friends. so you might have an impression from the school scenario, one who speaks well and communicates well are successful. Only in schools, colleges, one who communicates well may appear successful.In higher positions in very big companies, people who speaks less, have successful records. How smart you think is matters in higher levels. I m damn sure you are smart kid, because student at your age never used to think about future. You have thought about it and you have taken steps to sort out the problems which you might encounter in future. Brilliant !Being social is no guarantee for better future. I had the same feeling at your age.2) Whatever be the future, if you are smart and ready to handle anything, you are a hero. If you want to handle anything, try to learn and make keen observation on everything you encounter and experience. Just relax and observe. You will attain all the knowledge of universe. The knowledge will destroy all your fears.3) Live at the moment. You cannot change the past and you cannot keep on panic about future. Try to do everything in the best manner. Love the people around you and enjoy the moments, do the work at your hand in best manner.4) You will be guided then and there by people, so just keep moving on.