Should I ignore my alcoholic mother, or help her?
My mum has been an alcoholic even before I was born and for years I have been on/off with depression. She promised she would stop, or not drink some nights and just let me down. So i've basically prevented myself from getting hurt anymore. But just recently, she is claiming she wants to give up, however I don't want to listen to it anymore because I will just be setting myself up for a fall. She's even proven she doesn't mean it because she hasn't showed up to any of the AA meetings she'd looked in to. I don't know what to do. Things are getting worse. I'm being verbally and sometimes physically abused by her. We now live again with my dad, although they are divorced, but they are not a couple and he just ignores it and pretends there are no problems to speak of. I want my mum to get better, but I have no one to turn to. Please, I'm begging for advice, please =[. Thank you.
What should I do when I feel ignored?
I have a friend I’m going to call Jane.Jane is a great friend. We get along very well, and I would consider her one of the people closest to me.However, Jane ignores me sometimes.I’ll send her messages and she’ll read them, but not acknowledge them at all. Later, she’ll reply, but it’s always about something else. When I’m talking to her outside of social media, it sometimes feels like I’m talking to a wall. I’ll say something, and Jane will either ignore me completely or say something along the lines of, “Mmhm. Hey, listen to this - (some random thing she wants to tell me about). I once mentioned how I wanted to die, and she left me on read - then replied with message about a celebrity she likes. I’ve only started taking note of this behaviour recently, but it’s been happening for a while.Getting ignored sucks. It makes you feel like you have nothing to offer, that what you have to say doesn’t matter. However, if someone ignores you and hurts you, you should treat them how you’re treating you.I think you should try to ignore them a bit. From experience, I can tell you that it feels fantastic. I started ignoring Jane, and when she complained that I kept leaving her on read, I told her that she was doing the same thing to me, and she shut up. Treating someone the way you’ve been treated is fair, in my opinion.Another thing you can do is talk to people who don’t ignore you. Having friends that acknowledge you and your words is extremely important. Spend some time with them to remind yourself that your opinion matters, and that you deserve to be heard.One more thing you can do is let go of the feeling. Think about it this way - somebody is ignoring you. That means they don’t think you’re worth their time. Like I said before, treat them similarly! They aren’t worth your time. They’re causing you to feel upset. Tell yourself you don’t have time for people who don’t treat you right.TL;DR: Treat the person who’s ignoring you the way they’ve been treating you. Find some good friends who don’t ignore you. Let the negative emotions surrounding that person go.
What should I do if I ignore a girl every time but now I need her help?
Then why are u ignoring her?
Should I ignore my friend?
I have this friend that i have known for about 5 years. The past few months I have realized that she has barely been a friend to me. In fact, I've been a good friend to her and have done many favors for her. When I needed a favor or help she has been M.I.A. SHe never wants to hang out when I invite her to go out or hang out, but she hangs out with me only if she is the one wanting to hang out. I have invited her to my family events, but she makes up some excuse not to go. On the other hand, last year she invited me for thanksgiving dinner with her family, but i said no because I felt that i wasnt going to blow off my family for a girl who has not accpeted my invitations. So, the past few months I have been ignoring her and have only spoken to her briefly. The conversation have been dry and akward on my part. Why doesnt she want to hang out with me when I invite her? Is it right for me to be ignoring her? Im I overreacting? Also, I have feelings for her so I have come to the conclusion that I've been ignoring her because I feel she knows this and she is using me because of it. So what should I do? I want as many females to help me out with this.
How long should i ignore an aquarius man ?
oh boy. I know how that is. my boyfriend is aquarious. I can understand where your coming from based on a typical aquarious's traits. most guys lack communication no matter what astrological sign you are. A lot of guys just don't communicate well so don't think you can try and change it. aquarious's do tend to take their significant other for granted a lot. here's the thing. you can't change him. you either have to accept everything about him or move on. Things won't change from here unless you decide to move in together later on. being in a long distant relationship is really hard and it takes a lot of work. As long as it is long distant...its going to have a lot of ups and downs, tug a war.....and A LOT of give and take. If you can't handle being in a relationship like this find someone near you. If you want to try and make it work, be strong. Its not going to get any easier.
What should I do if someone ignoring me?
Sometimes we just assume the worst.May be that someone is just very busy and have no intention of ignoring you.May be that someone is preoccupied with something else.Try to initiate a casual conversation.You know from the response whether you are being ignored.If you know him / her well just ask politely the reason for this kind of behaviour.Ask if that person is offended by something you said or did.This might clear a misunderstanding.If you also feel it's your fault just apologize.Problem solved!It might not happen immediately.Give it some time.If that person is really important to you,give it one more try.That's all you can do.If someone is ignoring you intentionally or you haven't done anything wrong then just ignore him.It's not worth wasting your time for such person.If the person ignoring you is not close to you the reason might might be simple that he /she is not interested.It's a matter of choice. So it's not your fault.Don't take it personally .Just let it be and move on.Chances are that someone might just be shy or an introvert. In such cases you can try to initiate a conversation and break the ice. It might work or not.It's not your fault if doesn't.People have all sort of reasons for paying attention to you or ignoring you. Some might be earlier paying attention because they were needing something from you.Now that they don't need you they ignore you.You can't help it.That's their choice .But you can choose to not let it affect you.Good luck :)
What should i do? should i keep ignoring him?
You sound EXTREMELY lost....first you like him now you kinda don't? I would say to don't try and pursue him relationship wise for now for 3 reasons: 1 - He has a girlfriend already and 2 - you don't know what you want from what I am reading above and 3 - if he wanted to be with you he would - PERIOD (regardless of whether he has a girlfriend or not - the fact that he hasn't broken up with her to be with you says enough). Move on - trust me, you'll find a good guy. You just need to figure out what you want first before diving into something that will end up being a complete disaster!