Girly makeover for a guy . . . what should i do to him?
its a long story but im going to give my now ex bf a complete girly makeover and he agreed to anything and everything (he told me that he is a closet crossdresser too, so he will definetly enjoy this!!) i want to show him what girls go through. what should i do to him. im thinking hair, nails, wax, the works . . . anyone know anothing about boobs (he has some man boobs, but he needs bigger)? ive always hated his body hair (reminds me of a bear and its all over . .. ewww) so thats first to go. im thinking full body wax (would do laser but alittle pricey) and pencil thin brows. im thinking a few ear piercings (How Many?) and navel. i think some nice clothes would look cute too. . . he has short dark hair so i dont really know what to do there . . . maybe bleach it but as for length, its too short to style . . whats a good way to keep a wig on? hmm, this is going to be fun, give me ideas girls i want to take this pretty far, but need ideas. . .
What should I do if my boyfriend keeps accusing me of cheating on him (which I would never do to him)?
He is in fear of it. Complete total irrational terror. Some would say that is an indication of a “guilty conscience”. However, I have known that fear and exhibited that behavior myself. I have never cheated on someone though. His own fear could lead him to be cheating himself.First of all don’t take it as an issue with you. Second of all don’t placate his fear by giving up your personal power. He will gladly trade all kinds of your freedoms for his security. Find a way to make it clear his fears and behavior is not ok. Force him to deal with it. Be patient with him.I am pretty “blunt” about it these days. I respond with statements like: “I wouldn't dare take advantage of another person like that!!! If I wanted to f*ck someone I would either leave you or bring them home to share.” or “Well if you think that you might as well just leave now” or “What!?! Are you cheating? Is that why you are accusing me of that? Maybe we need to change the parameters of our relationship!”Also, I make it a point when I start dating someone that jealousy is intolerable to me.
I'm in love with a guy but he doesn't love me. What should I do?
One side love quite normal among both genders but bad thing is that it is really very frustrating when the opposite sex doesn't loves you back.In my opinion first try to be good friend of him instead of jumping in the love. If he loves someone else then it would be very difficult for you. DOs/Don't -Don't ask him again and again -Don't show him your feelings frequently because he won't understand your worth if you are easy for him. -Most important, talk to new people and engage yourself in activities. It will help you to overcome your obsession for him and you will realise your selfworth.-If you understand and know your worth then you can figure out who deserves you. -If he never fall for you then don't be upset because it means he can never understand you and your feelings so better be with someone who can feel your feelings. All the Best!
My best friend loves me. I don't love him. What should I do?
“Love and Friendship”, both the words have their own importance. Love gives us pain and frienship gives us peace. Love is unconditional but it's a need. Friendship is forever but it's a Joy. Love is eternal and friendship too. But in love you think about the other person and forget youself, but in frienship you love the other person not by forgetting youself. Frienship makes you stronger and loves makes you weaker(Exception are always there). There is a very thin line between love and friendship.Both the words are very powerful. If u say , “you love him as a friend” , that means you love yourself first and then your friend.If u say , “ you have fallen in love with him”, that means you love him first by forgetting yourself. He’s more important than your life.You got to understand this, “Everything that falls, get broken”. Without a heartbreak you can't say , that you have been in love ever.Now just take time, and think. Do you love him or not.??Is he your friend??OrIs he your lover??OrIs he your soulmate??As of now. By looking at your question. I think you are puzzled in your own thoughts.Solution to this is : Get distinct from your Bestfriend. Stop texting him for few days. You would get to know the real truth of yours. Just listen to your heart. Imagine that he is not your friend anymore. You would get to know , the feeling you are going through is love or it's just a friendship.If you are clear on this, that he is just your Bestfriend! Nothing more than that. Then why are you so much concerned about him.If you think , that he is your Bestfriend than just go to him and tell everything straight forward.Why are you hesitating ??If he is your Bestfriend , he would totally understand your situation. Because friendship is more important that love. If he is your true friend, he would choose friendship over love.Don't get conscious. Be brave enough to face it. Wether it's a breakup or rejection. (In terms of frienship).P.S - Friendship and love are like worshipping a god. Needs more devotion and patience. Don't destroy it. It takes million of days to build it and a second to destroy it.All the best.