GUYS:: do you purposely avoid eye contact with a girl you like?
For example, We are both in a small college... and we dont know each other at all. I have never spoken with him, hes just that one guy who I see around from time to time and I think he looks really interesting, like my type. Just this past week, we passed each other in the hall and we held the same stare for the whole time until we walked past each other, like 3 seconds. He was looking at me first. but then today, i walked by him and he didnt look at me at all unless he did when I looked away. But we didnt meet eyes. I was just kinda hoping to say hi or smile to start something because why not... but then he didnt look at me this time, he was with a guy friend this time too. I just really want to get to know this guy, but I dont know how. I dont want to just appreciate him from afar.
Will girls purposely avoid you if they like you?
You got to show emotion around her.You just can't be that guy that nobody notices.Show her that you got feeling for her.Don't buy her jewlery until you really know her.Show her that you are a guy and like her.She probably avoids you because you don't show feeling into what she does and says.There is a chance that she likes you though.
What does it mean if she's purposely avoiding me?
a few days ago a girl i really like found out i fancy her. Since then she's been purposely avoiding me such as getting out of the classroom as quick as possible and talking to a friend when saw me coming. Before she found out she was really friendly and spoke to me alot. She also showed some signs that she liked me but now i dnt know if she's just embarressed of what she found out or if she doesnt like me. PS- shes 14 and is quite quiet.
Why do guys purposely ignore you?
So there's this guy I'm pretty cool with. We laugh joke we talk about our day but it seems in a crowd of friends he will not give me the time of day. He will not stand near me nor talk to me and even worse; he'll start talking to whoever im talking to but won't look at me! I just don't get it. Yes, I am attracted to him but I know he's not single so I'm not trying but it sucks to be ignored especially when he's chatting it up with everyone else. I will catch him looking my way and will catch eyes for a sec but then he looks away. I just don't know why guys will have this behavior with some girls but not others. Does he sense I'm attracted to him so he's avoiding me or is he doing it without realizing?
Why do guys purposely ignore you?
So there's this guy I'm pretty cool with. We laugh joke we talk about our day but it seems in a crowd of friends he will not give me the time of day. He will not stand near me nor talk to me and even worse; he'll start talking to whoever im talking to but won't look at me! I just don't get it. Yes, I am attracted to him but I know he's not single so I'm not trying but it sucks to be ignored especially when he's chatting it up with everyone else. I will catch him looking my way and will catch eyes for a sec but then he looks away. I just don't know why guys will have this behavior with some girls but not others. Does he sense I'm attracted to him so he's avoiding me or is he doing it without realizing?
Could he be purposely ignoring me? This guy I'm seeing will go from texting me to completely ignoring me. I haven’t heard back from him in a week. I think he only talks to me when it's convenient for him. How do I deal with this?
If I was you I would not assume he is ignoring you on purpose. I was dating this guy and he was weird about texting me sometimes and I knew he liked me. Well…one day when he wasn’t returning texts but I knew he was going to be working on his vehicle I thought I would go to his house at lunchtime to see if I could get him and his friend some lunch. Well…I get to his house and the guy is not working on his vehicle. He was sitting inside his dark house not doing anything. I told him why I came by that I was going to get him and his friend some lunch. Well he almost immediately changed the subject and before it was over with he was crying on my shoulder. I could tell this guy was having a major depressive episode. My heart went out to him and I tried to comfort him as best as I could. But to me that explained why he sometimes wouldn’t return my texts. I think the guy had major issues. I know for myself as I suffer from depression I take medication which is a lifesaver and I also try to get out of the house during these times. A person that suffers from depression can lead a normal life. It just takes a lot of mental strength and prayer to get through the bad days.So for me after seeing this side of the guy I no longer wanted to see him. I liked the guy but not so much as I’m willing to deal with that. Plus there were other things that just didn’t add up with him. If something doesn’t sound or feel right it’s proably not right.
When do you purposely avoid eye contact?
When I’m sitting in the front of the classroom and listening to the professor while trying not to make him/her uncomfortable. My stare can last forever (can seem penetrating), and I am aware of it.When I am talking to someone and I start to feel a little awkward—avoiding eye contact briefly helps me to feel less awkward about making eye contact with the person.When I am scanning my surroundings or the buildings that I just entered to find a spot to study, do homework, projects, etc. My eyes flicker everywhere so that I can get a clear picture of the room/area as well as the people around me.When I get the chances to ride a bus, train, underground subway, etc. because nobody likes to be looked at by a stranger not using their electronics but staring at the scenery and the people within it.When I am people watching and the people see me. I have to pretend that I’m either waiting for someone, thinking about something deeply, etc. in order to not have them be suspicious that I’m curiously watching them.And many more….
Do guys who secretly like you avoid eye contact with you?
A2AAbsolutely yes, that could be the case. Especially when I was much younger, I remember being afraid to look at females that looked stunningly beautiful to me. That might apply even if you do not think of yourself as especially beautiful, because beautiful females often do feel insecure about their looks. That's another topic. For whatever reason, I felt that I was not good enough to be caught even looking at them. It was like I had not gotten the full meaning of the old saying, ["A cat can look at a king or a queen]." :-) I never discussed that with anyone, and it is very doubtful that those females would have guessed why I was acting the way I was. The opposite of the truth might have been a reasonable guess, that I just was not attracted. Wrong! :-7You might take a risk and be more forward. If your situation is as I have described then you might be able to inspire confidence, with consequences that I certainly cannot predict from this distance. :-) Just a thought. Of course even if he does like you there is the possibility that you are too young, that you still are a child as he sees it. Many males are not attracted to children "in that way" or feel that acting on attraction with children would be wrong. Many or most would agree. I have no idea about that either from this distance what with your not having mentioned your age. :-)Have fun!
Why would a guy seem to avoid me?
He likes you. A lot. But something in his personal life is preventing him from making direct contact. Almost always this is due to one of two reasons: lack of self esteem or a conflicting relationship. The first reason can be explained away with a group social event. With peers around, socially shy individuals are more comfortable with stronger friends to fall back on, thus they take more risks. Alcohol can further intensify these situations.The second reason is infinitely more complicated, especially if they fall in the same category as the first. My best advice is to be flattered but not curious and move on with your life without further investigation. You don't need or deserve his drama in your life.