Is there slow songs played at clubs or parties anymore?
No, they dont play slow songs in "clubs" unless you go to an old people joint. Sorry! And if you thought school was bad, don't go to clubs. I've seen people have sex on the dance floor at a rave. Like having sex, not dancing really provocatively. If you want to go clubbing, better learn how to grind well and do the occasional jersey turnpike. I happen to love clubbing, and I've been to too many to count, not once have I heard a slow song.
Why don't I have fun at parties?
Lemme guess… one or two of these might fit you and be true: you’re intelligent and/or highly intellectualized. You have problems being spontaneous or irrational in public. You tend to relax when you’re mostly alone or with a few people you’re used to; You feel overwhelmed when in the presence of a bunch of strangers noisily gathering around you.Something most people don’t realize:Thinking kills partying;Getting crazy enhances it.Not a big secret, of course, but most people don’t have true CLARITY on this. Knowing this one doesn’t have to wonder why so many people drink and do drugs in parties. Some people aren’t terribly good at just letting go and being crazy, so they use alcool and other substances to force them out of their boring and mundane logicality.I realized this quite a while ago. So when I was a teen, actually I’ve had people who thought I was drunk and even thought I had snorted ‘something’ to be so free and “crazy”. Nope. Not the case. I get chilled and philosophical when I drink and I don’t do drugs. (Doesn’t mean I’m no saint. I’ve tried some stuff but being choicelessly out of control doesn’t fit me.)So. Ok. Wanna have fun and be sociable? I’m gonna be the Quora asshat and tell you to drink a bit - say a couple of shots, no more than 4 or max 5 tequila shots or the like, I’d say (sure, being of the legal age for it) if your party muscles are so out of shape. When you’re more experienced at letting go, you’ll see alcohol is not such a good (not to mention expensive, depending on where you are) way to let go and be free. But you can enjoy nevertheless.Remember: letting go and getting crazy and irrational MAKES YOU ENJOY PARTYING.Now GET THAT RIGHT BRAIN PUMPING!!P.S. It will cost you nothing to show appreciation for this answer I wrote for “Why don’t I have fun at parties?” using psychological research, my hypnosis & NLP knowledge, and personal party experience! Thank you. :)
Would you date someone you met at a nightclub?
I'm a college student and I'm not really into that whole getting drunk and party like crazy kind of scene, but I do like going to parties occasionally and going to nightclubs with a group of close friends every now and then just to have fun and dance and listen to great music. A few days ago, I met this guy at a nightclub. I noticed him earlier because he seemed like a cool looking kind of guy but was sitting on a couch in the club and didn't seem like he was having fun. After a few songs, I started getting sweaty and hot (the ac was barely noticeable!) so I sat down too and was chatting with my friends for a while when he whispered to me in my ear if he could have the next dance. We ended up spending the whole night together dancing and talking. He bought me a drink (cold bottled water) and at the end of the night, asked me to be his girlfriend. I was surprised at his straightforward approach but the thing that concerns me is i feel like guys you meet at clubs aren't that serious.
Best 18+ clubs in seattle?
Allure, I once went there for my friend’s birthday party. Overall, an amazing club, with awesome interior looking, cool lights, music and dancing floors. We stayed at the VIP area, with comfortable couches, and a mini bar. The food prices are nice of best nights of Friday and Saturday, but the taste are just so so. Safe or not? At least a good night on my visit. Additionally, Allure is on a good location, just in the heart of Pioneer Square, which is a safe neighborhood. As for Venom, wow, I should stay this place is times more exciting than Allure! It is said to be the coolest nightclub in Seattle, with a diverse crowd in different ages. The venue is surprisingly large, accommodating more than 400 guests! It is a favorite spot for young adults. The dancing floor is in a good size and there are 3 bars! Good music, hot atmosphere, but a bit overpriced drinks :) Maybe you can check this website for some insider’s tips on Seattle nightlife from the locals: http://www.seattle-hotels-wa.com/hotels-travel/seattle-nightlife.html
Getting a male stripper for a bachelorette party drama?
I am the maid of honor for my friend that is to be married in a couple months. The Bridal Party and I are in the process of planning her bachelorette party and she said no male strippers. I have heard most brides request NO male strippers, but you get one anyways. That's the fun in it! The male stripper is not only for the bride, but for the other girls attending the party. Am I right? I am having QUITE the difficult time with another bridesmaid (we have had differences before). She says we shouldn't get the male stripper, and instead, gather money that would be used for the stripper and get her a gift. I disagree. I said Bachelorette parties aren't supposed to be geared towards getting the bride serious gifts-you can get her a serious gift for her bridal shower. I want to get the male stripper because I think all the guest and even the bride would have fun with it. She will have been drinking by the time the stripper shows up anyways, and I know she won't be angry about it. What are your thoughts?